29/10/2020
WHY MEN CHEAT ON WOMEN THAT LOVE AND RESPECT THEM
Loving and respecting a man is not enough if you don't back it up with certain principles that governs mens world.
It’s sad, but it’s true: Infidelity can happen in any relationship, and there’s really no way to predict whether or not it will happen to you. Even relationships that seem to be strong can be susceptible to affairs under certain circumstances.
It is commonly believed that men cheat more than women thereby making it seem like they are all polygamous in nature which is not true.
While cheating would be much easier to pinpoint if there was a blanket diagnosis, the truth is, there are many reasons why men stray.
We're not just talking about s*x but first reason a man will stray is when his new love interest makes him feel good not only physically but also emotionally. A man wants to be with someone he can let his guard down with — someone who makes it safe for him to be himself.
Men often feel pressured to act strong and be emotionally neutral all of the time. A man will fall for someone who makes him feel comfortable enough to be vulnerable without judgment and this is where most ladies fail. No matter your love and respect for a man, don't judge him and don't doubt him in every little thing. It's a big turn off for guys.
A man also wants to feel like he is needed and wanted and not disregarded. A woman who constantly criticizes her man and makes him feel like he’s always doing something wrong will eventually find herself alone no matter the love and respect she has to offer. Many of you are guilty here.
Another reason for cheating is immaturity in display, unrealistic expectations, anger and revenge from past affairs. Also, most men cheat because they want to end their current relationship but simply haven’t found the courage to do so mostly when it didn't turn out as expected no matter the love from her.
A lack of emotional appreciation also makes men cheat.. although that's not an excuse you know.
Most ladies don't appreciate their men no matter what but they fail to know it makes them feel more important. When they feel appreciated, they feel confident, proud, loved, and needed. When they feel emotionally neglected, it’s easy to feel resentful, overwhelmed, angry, and sad. And it only gets worse when we reach out to our partner with these concerns and are ignored or have our feelings trivialized.
Most men also cheat on ladies who love and respect them because of one "cap" they wear on their head, the "cap" of "she will never leave me, she loves me so much". They forget that love is not foolishness, they forget that everybody has an elasticity limit. No matter how much a woman loves a man, when she keeps getting hurt she eventually leaves. At this point, men don't like it when a woman is all soft and has no say at all in a Relationship.
They love it when you challenge them once in a while. They love it when you spill the truth. They love it when you hit the nail on the head when necessary. Don't play humility all the time, it's a no no. Have a say! Let's them know that you can secretly can handle things without their consent.
But again staying faithful is a choice, it is a decision. When a man truly loves a woman, he exhaust all options for a happy relationship, he sometimes starts cheating when his partner seems stiff to change that will better their relationship.
Cheating is not an option, if you are not getting what you want from your partner, if you have taught your partner how to love you and she seems not to get it, instead of cheating, just call the relationship quit, you don't want to end up with a wife you know you will cheat on due to her inability to give you what you want.
Let her go for another man to have while you pray God sends you the package you are looking for.
But,
A man who has a full "package" woman and still goes around cheating has a problem with "self control" and need urgent help. Most times men like these leave diamonds and go after stones that brings them a lot of regrets later on. They come to their senses when that good girl has had enough n taken a bow. They come back to their senses when she is now in the hands of a faithful gardner who knows how to take care of his garden.
So, with this few points of mine, I have been able to make you understand that a woman's love and respect is not just enough for a man.
That's why prayer its actually everything in any relationship/marriage
With prayers and other virtues everything its enough.
Good morning💋💋💋💋💋💋
