Amah Cynthia Nkeiru

Amah Cynthia Nkeiru Relationship /marriage counselling

26/06/2022

“It has been said:
Everything happens for a reason. LIVE IT, LOVE IT, AND LEARN FROM IT!

Make sure your smile changes the world, but don’t let the world change your smile.

LIFE DOESN’T HAPPEN TO YOU, IT HAPPENS THROUGH YOU.

The only secret in life you need to discover is how to use your subconscious mind consciously, how to forgive, and how to love.

Kindness makes life better.
Integrity makes life better.
Purpose makes life better.
Gratitude makes life better.

You are the greatest project
you will ever get to work on.
Take your time.
Create magic.
You don’t need a better phone.
You don’t need a better home.
You don’t need better circumstances.
YOU NEED A BETTER MINDSET.
MINDSET IS EVERYTHING!
It’s the difference between an AVERAGE life and a MAGIC LIFE.

During your life journey
Be proud of who you are becoming. You are beautiful. You are strong.
You are powerful beyond measure.

CELEBRATE YOUR SCARS AND FLAWS because
Life is just a school for us to grow, to to love, to create;
We are on a journey of discovering our True Self.”
-(Amah Cynthia)

25/06/2022

ADVICE TO MY ALL MEN ABOUT
THEIR PREGNANT WIVES......
Today I want us to discuss
about PREGNANCY......
Do you know that certain things you do when your wife is pregnant actually contributes TO the state of health of the mother and unborn child?
Listen, it bothers me a lot when I see men showing no concern to their pregnant wife or fail to adjust to some temporary changes!!!
It's just 9 months, not like it's forever. Pregnancy is not bought in the market, neither is it a software downloaded from the internet. It's a seed planted by u men and is germinating. There has to be a carrier of that seed while it grows, and women have been given the responsibility to carry it.

Pregnancy is preparation to welcome
a new member into the family.
Pregnancy is a
journey fun filled, amazing etc.

Women differ in body changes. Although Pregnancy makes women do certain things in common.
■Once in a while she would nag
■Once in a while she would request for things unimaginable e.g she wants to eat okro and bread
■Once in a while she would get so lazy to make you your meals
■Once in a while she would want to stretch her legs on your laps. Please pardon her... carrying the baby ain't easy.
Her needs may be unsatisfiable at times.
The first Tri_mester of the journey can be so annoying. Like I say women differ from each other during pregnancy.
●While most women are busy vomiting.
●Most of them sleep like water leaf, they sleep off anywhere with the slightest chance even in the kitchen.
●While most women have fever.
●Most women be looking cranky and dry like Dustin powder.
●While most women add up weight.
●Most women appear like burnt offerings.
●Some even go round with White handkerchief spitting in it. ALL THESE ARE STILL MEN'S WORK.....
Please tolerate this, it's beautiful afterwards.
Her attitude becomes annoying, most times you cant stand her. But I get annoyed when I see men like me neglect their pregnant wife. She's not an abomination, neither is she a curse. I must say, it's not an easy journey for all.
The last Tri_mester is when we need to be extra patient, loving, enduring and understanding.
NOTE...
1) Always observe your wife's feet while pregnant, it swells often. Please give her a basin of water to soak her leg once in a while, it's one of the best treat women enjoy during pregnancy.
2) Ask her regularly how she feels and how the baby is. She's the carrier so she feels him/her move.
3) Tell her how beautiful she looks during pregnancy e.g " Honey see as the pregnancy make you fine, I will be impregnating you every month ooo" or even "is it my child that makes you fresh like this pass normal" Even if she has grown bigger in size cause of the pregnancy, celebrate her.
4) Don't be upset if she ever wakes you up by 2am to help massage her feet. You men need to feel little of her discomfort and pain. She shouldn't carry it alone, it's our baby,we need to carry it together. (I don't mean physical carriage though).
5) No rule book stopped s*x during pregnancy, in short it's the best sef.... do it. It's not like the va**na stopped working during pregnancy. o boy continue the work that brings the pregnancy.
6) Don't be ashamed to take her out. Take her out once in a while to those lovie dovie places you used to go together. ...
Most times I wonder what crosses the heart of men when they see their pregnant wives. Carrying a child for 9 months isn't easy.
I urge all men to get closer to their spouses during pregnancy because that's one of the times she needs you most.

A big shout out to all men who fully stand
by their wives during pregnancy.
God bless you all. women after delivery ask forgiveness from your husband for been with you at the time of need because is not easy .
Report from Amah Cynthia........

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23/06/2022

May the unmarried be blessed with spouses who will be the coolness of their eyes.

May those getting married be granted bliss & success, joy & happiness.

May those without children be blessed with offspring who will be the coolness of their eyes.

May those with children be granted the ability to provide them with a good upbringing.

May our children be saved from all evil & calamity & be granted the best of health & success in this life & the next. Amen.

22/06/2022

Don’t wait until you feel comfortable.
Don’t wait until you have it all figured out.
Don’t wait until you retire.
Don’t wait until everything is perfect.
Don’t wait until you have the approval of others.
Our time here is finite.
You don’t want to run out of time and be filled with “what if’s” and serious regrets.
This is your one precious life, spend time cultivating a friendship with yourself knowing who you are, what you want, and how you can live your life fully. 💛

(Just because things could’ve been different doesn’t mean they would’ve been better.-Amah Cynthia )

21/06/2022

If you are meant to marry her then you will. You don't have to go out for years, have a physical relationship, play Romeo and Juliet, stress about your age, rant on social media about obstacles, and disobey God to ensure that.

If that promotion is written for you then you'll get it. You don't have to sell your principles, shorten your name, play politics in the workplace, snitch on work colleagues, and sell your soul and body to the manager to make sure it happens.

If you are meant to pass those exams then you definitely will. You don't have to miss prayers and give your body to make sure that can happen.

There is no force in the heavens and on earth that can prevent you from anything that God has written for you.
He is omnipotent and omniscience, he is A and Amen.
He is the one who sustains everything in the heavens and the earth.
He does not ask you for money or your body.
He simply asks you to obey Him, to remain patient and have faith.
God has promised that He shall make a path of ease for all those who remain conscious of Him and He shall provide for them from places that they could never have imagine existed.

— (Amah Cynthia)

20/06/2022

“Be careful where you get marriage advice. If someone doesn't love marriage, doesn't love you and your spouse, they will not consistently give you healthy advice.”

Our knowledge is limited. But God’s knowledge is unlimited. You might think you want something right now, but God knows better when it is right time to give it to you. Perhaps He didn't give it to you at that time because it would bring you more harm than good. Perhaps He wanted to test you and had you been patient with the test, He would have rewarded you with something better.

Only God knows ...

“A beautiful heart is hard to find these days. If you know one, cherish it. It can bring you all the joy no amount of money and riches can.”

“Marry the person who can uplift you morally and who will always remind you that God is sufficient for you in times of trials.”

“The real life begins after marriage.”

May God Almighty give every couple a Happy Marriage Life! 😊 Amen

19/06/2022

My prayers Never fail, and my prayers for you all today is whosoever that is occupying your seat of breakthrough, closing your doors of favour, scattering your seeds of progress, pointing accusing finger at you, fabricating lies against you, plotting your downfall, shooting negative arrows and bullet at you, today the power of God will reverse all their evil plans and send their wishes back to them in the mighty name of Jesus ... Amen 🙏🙏🙏.

Happy Sunday to you all.
ADANNAYA CARES 💕 💕 💕

19/06/2022

💗You should never have to convince anyone of your worth.

💗Choose people who never make you question your value.

💗Trust that you are deeply loved and lovable.

💗 Remember it’s ok to walk away from relationships where you feel like you have to negotiate your way into someone caring about you.

(The biggest lesson I learned this year is to not force anything- conversations, friendships, relationships, attention, love. Anything forced is just not worth fighting for, whatever flows flows, what crashes crashes. It is what it is. -Amah Cynthia )

19/06/2022

It's really weird. When you get your degree, people ask you when you're getting a job. When you get a job, people ask when you'll get that promotion. When you gain weight, they'll tell to shed some pounds. When you lose it, they'll say you're too skinny. When you haven't passed, they'll complain you've got no car. When you buy a Toyota, people will ask when you'll get that Merc. When you don't wear a nice dress, people will tell you, you don't look nice. When you put on nice dress, people will say - 'you're showing off?' When you are single, people ask you when you're getting married. When you're married, they'll ask why you have no kids. When you are blessed with kids - they'll ask why you have so many. If you get divorced - they'll ask why? If you move on, people will say, 'Why so quick?'

Moral: People will never be happy and they'll never stop talking. Forget them. Focus on pleasing yourself and your creator not the creation.-(Amah Cynthia)

18/06/2022

Life is difficult, unpredictable, and painful this is a great truth. So be very gentle and patient with yourself and truly honor your strength and unshakeable faith in life when you courageously emerge from a dark painful time, standing up and taking your next steps forward.
You are the hero of your life. Realize how much strength, grit, and perseverance it takes to live life.
So take a moment today and offer loving kindness to yourself. 🖤

(Growth is painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don't belong.-Amah Cynthia )

14/06/2022

Why do you try so hard to make people love who you are not?

You're living in the world where you think lying is normal. You think no matter how many times you lie or make up a story, people will always forgive you. Your only reason it's because you lie to make people happy. But how can people be happy to know they are just a fool again and again?

Why can't people just be who they are and let people accept them just the way they are? Why do people have to care so much on how other people see or think of them and tend to make up or use a story that's not their own to tell others so that people can like them for who they are not?

You said you want true love, but yourself is not true. You blame the world, you blame people who leave you but never yourself for telling lies. You always have excuses to make yourself look good, but never once try to feel the pain of people you lie to.

Selfish is not loving oneself, selfish is thinking you're always right, always have your own reason and others should always forgive you because it is your mistake.

If someone lies to you once, they will definitely lie to you again. If you've already forgive them twice, be prepared for the third one. Some people just never change. And sorry to say this, but sometimes being kind and understanding don't gain you back love, instead people use you like puppet.

When it's time to wake up, just wake up. People who loves you won't put you through the same situation more than twice.

- (Amah Cynthia)

11/06/2022

I grieved when I lost people who were so close to me and made a difference in my life.

I grieve for every dream that died along the way.

I grieve for every relationship that I need to leave behind because I am no longer growing.

I grieve for a portion of myself that I have to bury because it keeps me drowning.

I grieve—
for the lost smiles,
for the joy and wonders I used to feel looking at the stars and moon at night,
for the innocent child-like love I used to have and freely give.

The world is tough.
People sometimes can be cruel—
and I am no longer the same.

I grieve for the girl whom I lost—forever…
(Amah Cynthia)

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