03/06/2025
12 THINGS I WISH EVERY LADY KNEW ABOUT HER SOUTHERN LADY PARTS.
(part 6)
Start getting Pap smears from age 21. This checks for cervical cancer.
Run STI tests regularly, even if âhe's faithfulâ.
Pay attention if s*x suddenly hurts, or if there's bleeding, odour, or anything weird.
If you're NOT s*xually active:
You might not need Pap smears or invasive pelvic exams yet. But if something is itching, smelling off, or giving you funny signals, please donât just pray it away. Go and see a doctor.
You can do external ultrasounds or simple, gentle exams that donât require going inside if needed.
Going for checkups doesn't mean you've done something wrong. Your va**na deserves medical care.
And donât Google symptoms and declare yourself finished. Google will tell you itâs cancer even if it's yeast infection from your high sugar consumption. Just go see a doctor.
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Bonus for the married:
S*X SHOULD NOT BE PAINFUL.
If you feel pain consistently during s*x, something may be off. It could be dryness, trauma, lack of foreplay, tight pelvic muscles, an infection, or an underlying condition. Pain is your bodyâs way of talking. Please, listen. Seek help. Donât endure in silence. You deserve comfort and pleasure too.
A lot of us grew up thinking that if you donât or**sm during penetrative s*x, something is wrong with you. Itâs not true. The cl****is is where most women experience pleasure. In fact, there is no other known function of this small but mighty organ. Methinks God put it there solely for women to enjoy.âșïž
So, no, you are not âdifficultâ if pe*******on doesnât do it for you. Pe*******on alone does it for a small percentage of women. Youâre just human. This marriage thing is for a long time, so explore, get attuned with your body, communicate, and donât feel shame about your needs.
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I hope I have done something for you today. If you found this information useful, do well to share to inform and empower other women.
Much love,
healthcare