Ezinwa Goodluck J. Chimezie

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Happy New Month to you all. I am super excited that you wonderful people are still here, even when I have not written fo...
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Happy New Month to you all.
I am super excited that you wonderful people are still here, even when I have not written for sometime.
Deep inside my heart, I am so so grateful to each and every one of you.
God willing, I shall bounce back soonest.
I am super proud of you all.
Once again, thank you all and do have a blissful day.

TODAY'S FOOD FOR THOUGHT: Parents are the first role models of a child. What we do in their presence, matters a lot.

Once again, HAPPY NEW MONTH.

HAPPY NEW MONTH FRIENDS.
01/03/2021

HAPPY NEW MONTH FRIENDS.

28/01/2021

SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

REINFORCE YOUR COMMITMENT"It's the extra effort after you have done your best that creates victories" -Lou Holtz.One day...
22/01/2021

REINFORCE YOUR COMMITMENT

"It's the extra effort after you have done your best that creates victories" -Lou Holtz.

One day I took my vehicle to a certain road side mechanic to fix a fault. After series of trials, he came to me and said, "I have tried my best to fix the fault but to no avail...Omenwere ma chi ekwe gi, onye uta atala ya"....meaning.."when a man tries to succeed in something and his CHI(God) didn't allow it, that no one should blame him". From this context, indirectly 'his Chi' should be blamed.

This is an ancient adage that was targeted to making people acknowledge the presence of the 'ALMIGHTY' in their day to day activities...but most people didn't picture it that way.
Those who look at its meaning and without considering its purpose use it as safe haven for accepting defeat.

Logically, if you ask me, it implies that 'only God approves success'. But it is untrue. Prov. 10:4 says, "He becometh poor that dealeth with a slack hand: but the hand of the diligent maketh rich".

However, in response to what he said, I replied, "are you sure the person got it right in the first place before blaming his Chi?.... because the ('Chi'/God) I know, is the one that accept things done accurately. Even ( , , etc), had to set their altars "in order" for Him to accept their sacrifices.

Meanwhile, the same vehicle was taken to another mechanic and the fault was fixed, even though he consulted someone who helped him.

Funny enough, it might interest you to know that when one of their colleagues tried making fun out of the situation, the first mechanic said, "it was his luck, the money belongs to him".

Obviously, this young man, isn't alone in this. Most people belong to the same school of thought.

The truth is that the 'second mechanic' succeeded because he made an extra MOVE. But the 'first mechanic' forgot that- where a man stops "his Chi" cannot push him .

"We all come into this world the same: naked, scared, and ignorant. After that grand entrance, the life we end up with is simply an accumulation of all the choices we make. Our choices can be our best friend or our worst enemy" -Culled from "THE COMPOUND EFFECT" authored by . I recommend this book to you. Thank you!

At this point, I want to say that... "Most times our choice is God's priority. To the first mechanic, he had tried his best, therefore his chi should be blamed. Like Adam, who also blamed his chi for giving him Eve when he failed.

Honestly speaking, marriages and relationships are going down daily because people failed to acknowledge and take responsibility, where they contributed to the problems that destroyed the joy, togetherness and love they once shared.

Often times, people come to me trying to convince me to believe that, they've tried so hard to making their marriages work, but to no avail.

For me, they've really worked so hard like the . In fact, in one occasion, one of them told me that... from the look of things, it's the will of God they divorce. Interesting, right?

Share with me this interesting story -culled from .
"I decided...( the author, Darren Hardy speaking)..to keep a Thanks Giving journal for my wife. Every day for an entire year. I logged at least one thing l appreciated about her,..the way she interacted with her friends, how she cared for our dogs, the fresh bed she prepared, a succulent meal she whipped up. I looked for the things my wife was doing that touched me, or revealed attributes, characteristics, or qualities I appreciated. I wrote them all down secretly for the entire year. By the end of that year, I'd filled an entire journal. When I gave her the following thanksgiving, she cried, calling it the best gift she'd ever received. The journal forced me to focus on my wife's positive aspects. I was consciously looking for all the things she was doing right. This caused me to show up differently in my marriage, which, of course, made her respond differently to me".

Are you tired of your marriage or think that the only option left is ? I urge you to try 'sformula as an extra effort like the second mechanic who later succeeded.

Most times, our problem is pride. What is the essence of marriage, if one cannot be happier in it than when he/she was single. If we can do anything to get married, we should equally do everything possible to make it work.

In , Anything you wish to a better result this year: is it in your business, marriage or personal development? TRY something NEW. You may fail while trying, it's natural. Be patient with yourself, reinforce your commitment and try again.

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Thanks for reading.
-Johnwesley Chimezie

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It can only be God. My friends and fans on this platform, I thank you all for your patience and understanding. You are s...
06/12/2020

It can only be God. My friends and fans on this platform, I thank you all for your patience and understanding. You are still there, despite my inability to write, honestly I am so grateful. I am back for good. Thank you all and happy Sunday.

WHO IS FOOLING WHO?Nigeria legislators' budget is about one hundred and twenty five thousand billion (N125,000,000,000.0...
20/10/2020

WHO IS FOOLING WHO?

Nigeria legislators' budget is about one hundred and twenty five thousand billion (N125,000,000,000.00), and we are talking about just 465 people, which some of them are former Governors and so on.

Interestingly, In the name of being a Senator in my country, twenty nine to thirty million Naira (29- N30,000,000.00) is pocketed by one person monthly:
....Yet, my country borrow to foot these bills.
...Yet, thirty thousand Naira (N30,000.00) minimum wage seems to be too big for a civil servant who dedicates 30-40 years of his/her life in serving the country.
...Yet my country cannot boast of any single functioning refinery, even as an oil producing nation.
...Yet my country cannot boast of 24hours steady electricity light.
....Yet, my country cannot boast of good roads.
...Yet, my country cannot boast of pipe borne water.
...Yet, my country cannot pay pensioners, even when so many of them depend on that token to survive.
...Yet, my country cannot boast of standard universities.
...Yet, those who are pocketing such cumbersome amount monthly, travel abroad for check up because the hospital in their country is a mirage.
...Yet, no year passes without its educational body going on strike.
...Yet, my country is the poverty headquarter of the world.
....Yet, reducing the salary and allowances of its so called leaders was no go area, even in the heat of recession, yet they want you and I to believe they have our interest at heart.

Few months ago, a young first female Nigerian combat pilot was mischievously murdered, still they want us to believe that youths are leaders of tomorrow, while majority of them were below 35years of age when they took over leadership.

Dear youths, the journey of a thousand miles they say begins with a step and we have made more than a step these few weeks.

A man who cannot give you ordinary water to bath, will never gift you soap.

This is time to take over power any how from this old politicians. It's obvious they have run out of ideas. The worst we will do to ourselves again, is to elect any of this old politician back to power.

Remember, they have used political parties to blindfold us for a very long time. But thank the Almighty that we have woken up.

It is obvious that these old politicians have no good plans for us, rather for themselves and family alone.

This is the time to reshape our future. Do not be distracted. We have gone too far to stop half way.

Those youths that have allowed themselves to be used as thugs, don't worry when the time is right, you all must reap what you sowed.

Great comrades, It is no longer... "we shall get there" With what has happened these few weeks,... "WE ARE THERE ALREADY. I salute your courage.

All those who have lost their lives for this course, history will never forget you all.
Rest in peace our fallen heroes and heroines.

Anyone, who sees all these things and still fight or speak ill against this path the youths have chosen, may nothing progresses further in his or her life. AMEN.

ALUTA CONTINUA!
-OJen

DEAR GUN MAN IN UNIFORMDear gun man, how do you feel killing the same people who are fighting for your progress? Dear gu...
17/10/2020

DEAR GUN MAN IN UNIFORM

Dear gun man, how do you feel killing the same people who are fighting for your progress?

Dear gun man, how do you feel killing your brothers and sisters because your own enemies commanded you to do so.

Dear gun man, this fight is also for you, for your wife, family and children.

Remember, when the heat becomes unbearable, they will run to any foreign country of their choice with their families, leaving you behind with the same people you took the lives of their loved ones.

Dear gun man, a person who asked you to kill your own people, will not spare you when you are done killing them.

Dear gun man, we know sometimes you harass people because you want to meet up with your returns or target, but how long will you continue to bring curses upon yourself and family?

My brother in uniform, you are called to save innocent lives and not to take one. This fight is for all of us.
When next they ask you to shoot your brothers or sisters because of their selfish interest, remember that the fight is also your fight.

A man who commands you to kill those who are fighting for your own progress is your REAL enemy.
This protest is beyond SARS, it's a protest against persecution, wickedness and bad governance.

Therefore, dear gun man in uniform, before you pull the trigger on any protester, remember that he or she is fighting your battle because a better nation will benefit all of us.

Thanks for reading!
-OJen.

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SWAT..Sars with another technique...Oh Sorry!.Special weapons and tactics."WEAPONS AND TACTICS" Is this all they can thi...
15/10/2020

SWAT..Sars with another technique...Oh Sorry!.Special weapons and tactics.

"WEAPONS AND TACTICS" Is this all they can think of, in a time like this?
When innocent lives are being lost daily, when lack of jobs and hunger push our youths to regrettable side of living and when parents could barely feed their children.

Before we could know it, billions of Naira will be pumped into the scheme, while millions are jobless.

Please, somebody should help me tell them that people obey more when they are ruled in love and take to crime when they can barely feed.

Funny enough, now they want us to believe that an alligator can become a lizard overnight by changing its name.

They have once again shown us what they see, when they look at the masses, probably..."bunch of brainless fellows".

I must say, whatever they have seen us as, we approved it, directly or indirectly.

According to Fela, "My people fear for everything".

"If a man takes a foot of your land and you do nothing, it's just a matter of time, he will claim the entire land" -African proverb.

The case of CJN is as good as kettle calling pot black, we kept quiet. They rigged themselves back into power, we kept quiet. Electricity charges and fuel pump price were increased almost the same day, we also kept quiet. Now killings of innocent youths are becoming everyday news.

And l ask, Do you know what next?

This is the time for the youths to stand on our grounds. Personally, I enjoyed being part of the protest. This is our fight, our representatives or Governors may not have the will power to do anything because a man who benefits from crises will never strive to make things better.

Prof. Lumumba once said, "the day Nigerians will wake up, Africa will never remain the same"

For the first time in many years, our have surprised us, once again. We are proud of you guys.

I salute all concerned citizens who contributed in one way or another to making sure that the protest against was successful and pray God to grant all families that lost their loved ones the heart to bear the loss.

The people are still saying

Thanks for reading.
-OJen.

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