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02/03/2026

My husband sends money to my maid to buy foodstuffs and expects me to do the cooking.

I’m married but I feel caged. I’m addicted to alcohol and it started since secondary school. I got married and I gave birth to my first child (a baby girl). Second pregnancy, I lost it and gave birth to de@d baby and my doctor blamed it on excessive alcohol. My husband was m@d at me. He contributed to being addicted. He doesn’t have my time and I’m always lonely. Goes out early morning and comes home 12 midnight only to sleep. Alcohol keeps me company. My worst nightmare happened when I lost my first child cos I was drunk. My husband started treating me b@dly all in the name that he wants me to improve. He no longer gives me money. He employed a 38years old single Woman to monitor me. He doesn’t allow money to touch my hands and he doesn’t want me to work. My maid is the one in charge of the home finance. But my husband expects me to cook after the maid bought foodstuffs. He said he can’t eat food not cooked by his wife in his house. I’m trying my best to stop. Infact for 3 weeks, I’ve not tested alcohol. My husband is still mean to me. What should I do?

01/03/2026

IS THIS WHAT HAPPENS IN MARRIAGE?
Dear Ceecee,

I hope this message finds you well.
Kindly post, I need you followers opinion on how to handle this situation.
I can’t believe what happened like 30mins ago.
I and my husband set to eat together, at about 8:00pm he asked for the bowl where the meat were. We had 2 giant goat meat in the bowl and he selected one after having to touch both.
He took a bite into the one he settleed and then asked to change with the other one in the both which was suppose to me mine now right ?
I acted like I didn’t hear and kept eating. Lo and behold baba was serious about swapped with mine. Then I asked why though and his response was his was too soft. I then took a bite from mine saying it’s same meat and goat so mine is soft as well. He then said I should not take any further bite since he took just a bite from his so we should exchange. I took more and more bite then he got angry and left the dinner table along his own meat. I have never seen such before in my life. Guys what, this husband of mine is giving me a silent treatment. Please attend in how to handle such situations because I can just ignore this man for the rest of my life right now Because what in the name of whatever is going on here? Please is this what happens in marriage. Come to think about it, he is the 1st child of his parents oo. I’m so not happy about this attitude. I’m so angry and I think I want to stop eating with him going forward. The nanny should serve us separately.
He is giving me cold treatment sef.

01/03/2026

Good afternoon Nurse. Chi, pls i nee all the insvlt and advice in this world maybe my head will think straight.
Pls post and keep me anonymous and notify me when posted

I am in love with a married man.
Yes a married man.
The guy is so cute. And makes l0v with me in such a good way. Gives me head in a way no body else does.

But the pr0blem is he never gives me anything or even buys anything for me. He has never given me money. He only comes to my house to sleep with me and leaves. He doesnt take me out and i am so beautiful. I complained that am d@ting him alone and i will like him to be taking me out. Sometimes he said am nagging and complaining then broke up with me. I felt so sad and crying.
And the worst is he got me pregnant i kept calling him. To even console me but he said he did not ask me to get pregnant and stopped talking to me.
I optioned for ab0*rti0n i was in p@in and i kept calling he never picked or checked up on me.
But the pr0bl€m is despite he doesnt give me anything and even left me when i was pregnant i have been calling him. Begging him not to leave me. I find myself blocking and. Unblocking him.
I am 32years.
Why did he just leave me without even thinking of all the good times and s3gz we shared. He always says he loves me. Why did he abandon me. And I have been d@ting only him. Note he never said he wanted a second wife or I intend to be any second wife am just addicted to him. What do I do? How do I break this feelings I blocked him and yet am still thinking about him

MY BOSS IS A P€RV€RT AND TRIED TO FORCE HIMSELF ON ME AT WORK.
01/03/2026

MY BOSS IS A P€RV€RT AND TRIED TO FORCE HIMSELF ON ME AT WORK.

Sv!c!de is a serious mental health issue, Let’s stop joking about sv!c!de. It makes it difficult to differentiate betwee...
01/03/2026

Sv!c!de is a serious mental health issue, Let’s stop joking about sv!c!de. It makes it difficult to differentiate between casual clouts and genuine cries for help. What seems like cruise to you can pass wrong message to your followers. Joking with this can increase the risk of unhealthy copying behaviors. Social media has tremendous reach and influence. When people joke on social media about sv!c!de, that influence can be hvrtful. Many people may be silently battling depression, anxiety, or
sv!c!dal thoughts. Jokes can feel invalidating or triggering. You can use any other thing to chase clout, definitely not sv!c!de.

28/02/2026

Is this a valid reason to cancel a wedding?

28/02/2026

I’m in pains 😭

Nurse chi you people should pls pray for me, I’m in pains 😭😭 this is 2:34am and I couldn’t sleep, I’ve been crying and my heart is so heavy.

I’m a 30 years old lady that has been struggling to find love and fall in love for years now, I eventually met someone few months ago and I was surprised my heart connected to him so fast, which is what I’ve been praying for. At a point before I met him I thought I was emotionally dam@ged cos I find it too difficult to fall in love and I needed love, I prayed and fasted not until I met him and it felt like an answered prayer

Before starting this relationship I asked for God intervention, because I do not have any strength left in me for heartbreak anymore 😭😭 I thought I’ve found the one for me not until I had a conversation with him last night because I realized he was always talking about his ex’s. Thou he love me but I noticed his heart still be@t for someone aside me.

So I brought up a deep conversation and he ended up opening up to me that he still have feelings for his previous ex, and he noticed he’s not been able to love completely, the p@inful part is that he still keep the ladies contact, Infact what he saved his contact with when they were together is still there. I got an*gry and he said I was overthinking, that for him to tell me was because he feels very comfortable with me to say anything no matter how hard it’s. I found this weird and heartbroken that I’ve obvious that I’ve been pouring into an empty cup. I’ve been loving a heart that’s feeling for someone else..

I told him we’ll need to part ways till he’s he@l but he was trying to calm me by saying I overthink and overreact a lot. But I’m sure if there’s an opportunity for him to go back to this lady he’ll gladly accept her.. I just told him I’m no longer interested cos on the long run he might not love me properly… but I just want to know why God has choose to purnish me when it comes to love.. I’ve never che@ted in my life, I’ve not even been wayward. I thought this was an answered prayer without knowing it’s a purnishment and another level of heartbreak 😭 how can I he@l from this? Why did God choose to betray and purnish me? I left him cos I know I deserve someone who will love me wholeheartedly. I can’t fix a heart that’s badly broken by someone else. Pls everyone put me in prayer I pray I survive this. I deserve true love and someone that’ll love me. This is too much for me to bear

28/02/2026

Nurse Chi good evening! please hide my identity.

Ave been married for 5years now i love my wife and kids so much, and i do every thing within my power to make sure my family is ok.

Am a dad of 2 and i always put my family first, tho my wife is a business woman i partially set up the business for her because Ave practically supported her business and every thing about her growth.

My problem now is my wife barely listen to me, i avoid every thing she detest but when it’s about me she always act selfish.

She always dnt want to bend its always hers against mine.

I do go as far as washing her clothes and that of my kids.

This woman cooks in a kitchen where there is dirty plates, this particular act turns me off dat most times i even do the washing .

We’ve had different helps and there is always issues kus her reflection is in them, imagine her quarreling people that are even better than her,
She barely listen.

This is really annoying, what do i do please 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

27/02/2026

My husband moved out of our matrimonial house and moved in with the most recent baby mamas.

Please nurse chi, I need your advice. I’m confused on how to handle this. Men will always stain your cloth. I have 6 children for my husband. He has 3 baby mamas. I married him without a baby mama issue. When my neighbors started telling me about his che@tings. I ignored for peace to reign. He got the first one pregnant, I confronted him and he apologized. That’s how he continued and now has 3 baby mamas. When I complained. He told me they are not coming to the house, I should not allow it to disturb me. Truth, he has never brought any one of them home. Nurse chi, I found out he has another girlfriend who is now pregnant. Meaning fourth baby mama. I got very angry and fought him, now he has packed his clothes and moved in with her. I don’t know what to do. I’m hvrting nurse chi. I resort to taking alcohol to forget my sorrows. Should I beg him to come back. Please I need good advice. I will be in the comment section

26/02/2026

I jave 4 baby mamas, my wife’s sister is one of them.
I want to make peace but I don’t know where to start from. I have 4 baby mamas and my sister in law is one of them. My wife doesn’t know about her sisters own but she knows about the other 3 baby mamas. I have 3 girls with my wife and 5 girls with other 3 ladies and a boy with my wife’s sister. He’s my only male child. I’ve secretly done a DNA and he’s my son. I’m no longer sleeping with her but I’m taking care of her and my son. I’m tired of hiding it so I want to make it known to everybody. I just don’t know how to face my wife and her family. This will definitely scatter my marriage. I want to collect all my children from my baby mamas and bring them to live with me so I won’t be seeing their mothers. I have stopped che@ting and I want to face only my wife. How to make peace is why I’m here. Pls help without insvlt.

Kindly advice
26/02/2026

Kindly advice

25/02/2026

Hello Nurse Chi

I want to make a request!!!

I want an Igbo lady from Anambra or Enugu state between 25-28 yrs within but base in Lagos mainland Alakija axis of Lagos for serious relationship and she must be tall. If she’s fair complexion that’s perfect 👌🏾 and she must have something doing for her self

Anyone interested can reach me on WhatsApp 07037846904

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