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19/07/2025

Good morning nurse chi
Please I am heartbroken. I don't even know what to do next. I may even keel my wife. I just made a shocking discovery that has leave me dumbfounded. Last December my wife called me on phone one afternoon sounding distress. She told me her car car was stolen. Every effort to recover the car failed. So we forgot about it and I promised her I will buy another one for her. I bought her another one on May. She looked happy and satisfied. I don't know what prompt me last night...I went through her phone. She left the phone on to attend to something. Me that has never touched her phone before. The sound of the skit she was watching drew me to the phone. I was with the phone and a Highlight of a message entered. And I got tempted to open it. You won't believe what I was seeing.
Her boyfriend is telling her he likes the new car I bought for her. She should give her the new one and take the old one back. I started going through their messages and I discovered he has been begging her to give him the new car I bought for her and take the old one back. And she told him it won't be possible because of what she told me happened and he kept convincing her. She told him I put tracker on the car it will be useless if she give him the new car and he told her not to worry they disable the tracker. I didn't bother dropping the phone. I made sure she saw me with her phone. The moment she entered the room I showed her the WhatsApp messages. Even on his dp he took picture with that my car
The shock on her face was big to burst the house.. out of fear she ran into a room and locked herself. And she hasn't come out since. And I haven't even said anything to her. I'm so shocked. I can't believe she can do this to me.

19/07/2025

Good morning nurse Chi and y’all in the group
Please post for me.
I’m married with a kid,I’m in my late 20s
Currently 4 years in marriage.
There’s this issue bothering me and i decided to share here and get other people’s opinions,I’m not done with my education,which I’d like to further ,I’m just an ND holder
I met my husband before i went to school,he had nothing then,But God is faithful since we got married life has been fair to us.
I really struggled to get to this stage of education
So when i rounded up my education and my husband proposed marriage,i agreed because i didn’t want to live a wayward life
I came from a very poor family,in fact the ND i graduated from was by Gods grace
I had a conversation with my husband before marriage of furthering my education,he agreed ,but since we got married education matters changed. He’d end up saying “no need to further,people with degrees do not matter and so
But i want to complete my education,serve and make myself proud, my husband is a graduate
Each time i try to say i want to go back to school it brings argument
Few days back i decided to get form for registration to further ,i paid with my money,(i do business online so yes God has been blessing me,and from my business i can take care of myself )
So after getting the form ,my husband came back and i told him i paid for a form for per time,which means I’ll only go to school weekends and not even always
Cus i want someone to be helping me while i go there during exams
I explained all this to him and he got upset saying bad things happen in school,guys are there ,temptation can happen,basically just about the guys and men
And he later ended up saying if it’s result he will buy result for me,I asked him if the result will help me serve? But he was mute
This has got me thinking and I’ll like to hear from your followers if it’s okay for me to continue my education despite my husband saying i should not
For my school expenses i told him if it’s about the expenses I’ll handle it
He didn’t train me during my ND tho
He only supported me with things like 2k to 5k and recharge cards
More reason i wouldn’t even want him to pay my fees in school is that ,during my traditional marriage,seeing that he’s an outsider the bill for bride price they gave him was much,and they were arguing
My husband stood up in the presence of my family and other people who were around to say “do they know how their daughter went to school “ claiming he trained me in school
I was surprised and upset,that word has been on my head since that day
Please i need advice thank you 😊

'I'm not a baby making machine!! This man here is my husband he lives abroad, for over 4 years now, i haven't set eyes o...
18/07/2025

'I'm not a baby making machine!! This man here is my husband he lives abroad, for over 4 years now, i haven't set eyes on him,

We have 3 daughters, our first child is 6yrs old. I'm broken & I'm tired of this type of distant marriage, I do not even feel like a married woman, I'm no different from a wid0w or a single lady. Can you believe that, I've been married to this man for 10 good yrs but, the only time, i get to spend time with my husband is when he comes around, every 2yrs to spend just a couple of days or a week to get me pregnant again & take a flight back abroad, It's been 4yrs gone since the birth of our last child & he hasn't even showed up.

Before this man, married me. He promised that, he was going to immidiately start processing my papers, to enable me join him abroad after our marriage but can you imagine that, it's been 10 whole years yet, nothing has been done, I'm still down here. The Only time i get to see my husband is when he wants a new baby. After our marriage, i patiently waited but for over 6yrs it was from one excuse to another why my visa isn't ready. So i got curious, Actually before we got married, my husband, confided in me & told me, he was married to a white lady abroad, he explained that he only did, just so he could be comfortable abroad & also quickly, get his papers & promised to d_v0ce this woman after our traditional marriage immediately he goes back.

I was sh0cked to do my findings 4yrs ago out of curiosity & discovered that, my husband is still married to this same white woman & they even have a child together but when i confronted him, he keeps denying. So, I've been mounting pressure on him to speed up my papers or I'll get in touch with the white woman somehow & xp0s him but instead, he has blocked me on all social platforms & even stoped taking my calls, he blocks me even when i try using a different line to get to him & only gets intouch with me, when he wants to send money or ask after his kids. Honestly. I'm so tired of all these drama.

Felix! honestly, I'm tired & i can't continue to act like everything is fine mean while it's not. When you came, i even told you that, i was already in a relationship & had someone that loves me & was serious & interested in marrying me, Why did you come down here to ruin my relationship & dce!ve me into marrying you meanwhile, you very well knew that, you'll not be serious nor there for me. This isn't what you promised, I'm 33 yrs old & have 3kids for you. Where do you expect that i start from after ru!,n!ng my l!fe!

Pls people, pity me & help me to x_p0se him, so, this can get to his wife abroad so, she can d_vose him, pls I'm crying almost everyday going through dpress!0n coz of this pls🤦😭"

- Rêêpoztêd

Why are men selfish?
18/07/2025

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My maid is sleeping with my man
18/07/2025

My maid is sleeping with my man

17/07/2025

Good day ma,
Post and hide my ID please.

I'm currently d@ting a man
The probl€m now is, this man was once a cu*tist according to him, he has changed that he was a very bad guy before.
I didn't know he was a cu*tist till we started d@ting because he looks gentle actually. He told me the kind of life he has lived before and I was tr@umatized, unfortunately I have fallen in love with him before finding out who he truly is.
Currently I can't say I have caught him doing anything bad aside smoking and taking alcohol, but meeh.... Since he told me about his past I don't feel safe around him, I always feel he's going to hvrt me one day.
It has gotten to the extent each time I see him in my dream it either he wants to kpai me or hvrt me, I don't know if it's my mind that's playing tricks on me but I know my dream usually come to pass. Though from the beginning of the relationship he said he will never hvrt me or rise his hands on me, but am scared. Have never dated someone with such life style before.

Yesterday he made a disturbing statement, he said " I dey pity you o" "don't make me h@te you because if you make me h@te you, you won't like me", and before you will recover yourself it will be too late.

He made this statement, because this days have been trying to distan myself from him.
I do not know how to end this relationship without this man plotting ev!l against me, I wish the relationship can just end peacefully.
Who has been in this type of situation before, and how did you handle it?

Please you guys should advise me how to come out of this o😭😭

Am I obsessed or fuulish
17/07/2025

Am I obsessed or fuulish

Advice from a y@hoo boy
17/07/2025

Advice from a y@hoo boy

Achalugos, what’s your take on this?
17/07/2025

Achalugos, what’s your take on this?

Should I tell him why he’s not getting a job
17/07/2025

Should I tell him why he’s not getting a job

Earning a good salary without taking care of myself
17/07/2025

Earning a good salary without taking care of myself

17/07/2025

Me and my husband just got married this year and God blessed us with a child buh since then I haven't have time to go and greet my family's for their kind gesture to participate in my weeding and naming ceremony since April So now am planning to go and greet them my husband insisted that I will use just one day there to greet them and I has like three or four people's to greet am native from Ibadan and my husband is from Iwo so he married me to Iwo
Am confused have been active so ignore to him when he said so.
Pls advice me

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