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I never knew a woman can be this mean.
29/04/2026

I never knew a woman can be this mean.

28/04/2026

IS IT POSSIBLE FOR JAZZ TO EXPIRE TO AN EXTENT THAT RENEWAL WILL NO LONGER BE POSSIBLE.
Pls post anonymous. I’m at a cross road. I had this crush for 6months before I had an opportunity to meet him. I jazz him. I kept renewing. He left his girlfriend and nearly got married to me but after fixing date, he didn’t show up. I went back for renewal cos I understand the assignment. He later married his girlfriend by that time, I was already pregnant. He later moved out of his house and moved in with me. It was a good opportunity to tie him completely. He forgot his wife even when she was pregnant. He later got married to me. Long story short. The jazz has cleared . He has gone back to the woman and made peace. Even after I renewed, I didn’t see any physical changes. I’ve done several renewal in different places. No result. I’m confused. Is it possible for jazz to expire to an extent that renewals will no longer be possible? What can I do to tie him again. He still comes around because of his children but he’s extra careful with me. He one found out I was putting something in his food and after eating, he becomes weak. He confronted me and I lied it was a cleansing from the other woman jazz. He still takes care of me and my children but his heart is somewhere else. I need answers pls.

28/04/2026

Is it proper for my parents especially my mum to be asking me to wash plate and sweep the house when I have a 17 and 22 years old brothers at home.
Greetings nurse chioma
Pls help me post I need opinion on this pls.
I’m a 29 years old girl who came to visit my parents. I don’t stay with them But I’ve been here for like 6 months now.
is it proper for my parents especially my mum to be asking me to wash plate and sweep the house when I have a 17 and 22 years old brothers at home.
According to her male children don’t do house chores.
Honestly I’m so pi**ed
When I was younger I was the only one doing all the house chores without my brothers lifting a finger to help. and now that I’m older she still want me to be washing plates and sweeping the house at my age when I have younger siblings at home. I feel is disrespectful to me.
They can’t even boil ordinary hot water let alone making noodles for themselves, She spoilt them.
Like I’m washing plates that my 22 and 17 years old brothers used in eating.
29 years old girl like me washing plate and sweeping the house while my 17 old years brother is at home pressing phone from morning till night all because my mom have this mentality that male child shouldn’t be doing house chores, pls is this right ?
Or am I overreacting?.

I’m thinking of talking to my mother in law.
28/04/2026

I’m thinking of talking to my mother in law.

Apart from not getting any financial assistance from him yet, he communicates,keeps in touch and checks on me. Should I ...
28/04/2026

Apart from not getting any financial assistance from him yet, he communicates,keeps in touch and checks on me. Should I be worried about anything

27/04/2026

I was 5 months preggy when I caught my husband che@ting.

I don’t know if I’m to be blame or my husband brought this upon us. I was 5 months gone when I found out he was che@ting with a girl in his office. I’ve warned him that I’m a good girl but if you do me bad, I must do back. I removed the baby, did tummy tuck and went back to my ex. My husband didn’t know I che@ted too. My husband later came and begged and we decided to make up. Our marriage is 1year 18 months. Few months after we settled. I heard his side chick was pregnant and I became so angry. My prayer is that she should not give birth to a boy. It will now mean my child won’t be his first. Even though we have settled. I noticed my husband no longer cm inside me. I questioned him and he claimed he has not gotten over his child that I removed. For now he doesn’t want a baby with me. He asked me to give him time to come out of the choke. Pls am I being taken for granted?

26/04/2026

MY HUSBAND HAS NEVER APPRECIATED ME FOR STILL HOLDING DOWN THE MARRIAGE.

Nurse Chi, I’m the reason why we are still married. I love my husband we got married after his mum forced him to cos we already dated for 4years. His mum kpai and my husband became something else. Goes to work and comes back 2am and leaves again 6am. During weekend that we are supposed to spend time, he goes out with his friends and comes home midnight. I’m just like a furniture. He started che@ting and doesn’t care if I find out. Makes calls to his numerous side chicks in my presence. We quarel often and I will still be the one to apologize. One day I challenge him and told him I am leaving. He told me to please myself. I packed my things and left to his sister’s house. I forgot my charger and went back home. I’ve not gone upto 2 hours, he already brought a girl to my home. I challenged the girl and she told me im forcing myself into a man that doesn’t love me. My husband was there. He ignored us. I picked my charger and left. His sister was praising me or will I say mocking me. She said I’m a good woman and if not me that this marriage would have scattered. That my husband should be grateful he married a woman that is doing everything possible to make her marriage work. She started rolling me about all his che@ting. Both the ones I know and the ones I don’t know. I stayed with his sitter for 2 days and my husband didn’t ask of me. We don’t have children yet cos we hardly f**k but he’s busy with other women. I told his sister that my husband couldn’t even wait for me to leave before bringing another woman and she said she will call him. My husband later begged and I went back home. It looks as if it got worse. I’m tired. But I don’t want to loose my marriage. I’m the only one carrying this burden yet my husband will never appreciate me. Men learn to appreciate your partner.

That advice of letting go I don’t want. I want him to feel the hvrt I feel inside.
21/04/2026

That advice of letting go I don’t want. I want him to feel the hvrt I feel inside.

My husband said my Vjay is open
21/04/2026

My husband said my Vjay is open

20/04/2026

I’m emotionally and physically down
Good evening
I really need people's advice on what to do because right now I am already running m@d
My husband's parents called me around December last year to inform me about a particular lady
According to them....they have paid her bride price about 6 years ago ..
I was shocked because I knew nothing about it....my caring and loving husband(who everyone wishes to have as a husband according to my neighbour) never for once inform me about her

When I confronted him and asked questions he said nothing he can do about it and that the lady has helped him in the past
That he was the one who deflowered her and she is helping him pay his bills up till now

More shocking news was that she was the one who gave him money to start up my thrift business so that I and my son will have a good life together
He further said he can't leave her because she is paying him a certain amount every month...

That he feeds me and my child from the money she gives him every month since his work is not doing fine

He wants me to stay because of his son and I can't leave without my son
I don't even know what I had gain so far in this deceitful marriage

I want to leave but I don't think I have enough fund to take care of myself and my son because my business is not doing so well

His mother paid us a visit last year saying they have church programme but I I got to find out that they went to wed the lady in court and he told me that we can't go to court due to some personal reasons (we are only married traditionally)

I treat infection almost every month even while I was breastfeeding my son....
The pharmacist already knows me because of this drvgs
I already informed my parents and they are in support of whatever decision i make ...

Honestly, I dont know how to leave without f*ight

He lies too much about almost everything

I am here humbling seeking advice on what to do ...

I really dont know how to leave with my things because he is always at home these days
I am emotionally and physically down

I will be in the comment section
God bless you all

20/04/2026

If you found out that your married sister slept with your husband (her ex boyfriend), what will you do?

Nurse chi good morning. Ceetee nation good morning. I am 8months pregnant. I just heard something this morning and my heart is heavy. My sister slept with my husband. My sister s husband is not aware. She dated my husband and they broke up. Infact. Her first child she was suspecting belongs to my man. She has 3 kids now. When they broke up, I started dating her ex and he later proposed. My sister supported the relationship. She had issue with her husband. She called my husband cos she see him as her confidant. Unknown to me. My husband invited her to a hotel for them to talk and they ended up having s3gz. My sister later reconciled with her husband and my husband started stalking her. She warned my husband not to stalk her. My husband now mentioned the affair in the chat. That was how I saw it. I asked my sister and she confessed. She apologized. I’m yet to confront my husband. Pls advise me. Do I have the right to be angry?

18/04/2026

Good morning Nurse Chi,

Please, I really need family advice because I feel like I’m drowning in depr€ssion and confusion.

I’m a 28-year-old single mom to a child whose father is a 51-year-old married man. He is Yoruba and I’m Igbo. From the time I got pregnant (which he insisted on) until now that my child is almost 3 years old, we’ve always had disagreements. Anytime I don’t do what he wants, he stops sending money.

Last year, I had serious accommodation issues and begged him to support me financially, even if it was small, but he refused. That led to me and my child moving from place to place. I kept managing and saving. During that period, he stopped sending monthly support. Out of frustr@tion, I reached out to his close friends to talk to him, but that made things worse. He said I shouldn’t have involved them, and I apologized,because he said nobody will tell him what to do not even he’s family.

Recently, he told me to move to the mainland and promised to pay rent, school fees, and other expenses. After thinking about it, I agreed. At first, he said it would be a mini flat, then later changed it to a self-contained apartment, saying I don’t have household items anymore. I explained that I can buy things gradually, but that also caused another issue. He started insvlting me and said I haven’t been a good mother, even mentioning that the 100k he sends for upkeep is something some people don’t even get. Out of anger, I responded that some people receive 500k and more too ,it all depends on one’s capacity..Since then, for almost two weeks now, he has stopped calling or texting me. He only sends messages through his friend and said he will send house options through him, and I can choose if I like it.

The problem now is that I don’t have anyone on the mainland, he said I’m not he’s business he only care for our child only and me agreeing to move to the mainland is also so he can pay her fees and for her to rest .and I run an online business on the island that brings me about 200–300k monthly, and on a good month up to 400k. I’m scared to move because what if something goes wrong?

School is also resuming soon, and my child has already missed two terms. While we were still on good terms, I kept begging him to get a place quickly so I could settle and prepare her for school. He said l shouldn’t rush him that he doesn’t pluck money from trees that is after l have agreed to stay in the self con he suggested

I told his friend to inform him that I now have limited time where I’m currently staying and that I have some money to pay for a place on the island instead, while he can handle school fees and other responsibilities. But he’s friend said ,he told him that if l dare pay for a place on the island l should be ready to carry all the responsibilities

I feel completely stuck. Ever since I gave birth, I don’t even understand myself anymore. I used to be a happy person, but now I’m always sad and constantly worried about how to take care of my child and secure our future. I don’t have friends, I don’t socialize, and I feel so alone.

Please, I need advice. Should I still go to the mainland as he suggested, or should I stay on the island, pay for a place myself, and manage things on my own? I’m very scared of the burden ahead. Can I handle it?

Should I keep begging him? And if yes, for how long? It feels like he is using money to control me. Is this how I want to live my life?

I’m really tired and confused. Please help me

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