Couplestherapies

06/10/2025

03/10/2025

All the men that I've dated said I am a good person but, why do they still leave?

01/10/2025

umu nwoke di egwu

29/09/2025

Ladies pls be careful of all these men. Don’t allow yourself to be used. To some ladies that has come across the man, pls go for cleansing.

26/09/2025

Good day ma, I'm a Yoruba guy d@ting a Nupe lady we both love each other, but it looks she loves me more than I love her. We are planning to settle down.

But the pr0blem now is her people, particularly from her mum side they are not in support of our relationship. Their only issue is distance because I base in Ibadan and they are in Niger state.

The girl have tried talking to her mum and she has even brought people she knows can talk to her mum to help talking to her but she's still insisting. They are frvstrating the girl but she's still saying she did not want to lose me, and even me cannot afford to lose her, because she's everything I want as a wife.

Please 🙏 🙏, what should I do?

26/09/2025

Good morning ma and happy sunday
please post for me I need advice...
I have been d@ting this man for one year now and the major pr0blem I have with him is the way he understands things he literally exaggerates things out of proportion,whenever we have misunderstanding and I'm trying to explain myself to him he will say I'm challenging him, he's very manipulative,he never believes he's wrong am the one that's always wrong to him to say sorry its very difficvlt for him,he will tell you what you did that he didn't like then when you're saying your own he will say you're disr€specting and challenging,I'm always the one opting for reconciliation after every misunderstanding and he can keep malice very well,he will always complain of what you did to him and doesn'twant you to complain about his own he will always find way to justify his actions ...we had issues over a month ago and this is what happened I told him I was coming to his place because we are not staying in the same state he said okay I told him on Monday that I will come on Wednesday...so I have already packed my things on Tuesday then early morning on Wednesday around 3am he messaged me that his friend is planning his child dedication and want him to help out that I should hold on let him discuss with him first before I come that after their meeting he will give me feedback I said okay..so I waited till 12 he didn't say anything then I texted him howfar I'm waiting for your reply let me know what I'm doing he snub the message then around 1pm I chatted him again that if he doesn't want me to come he should tell me let me continue with my days activities instead of waiting in vain,and before then I noticed cold behaviour from him if its before when I tell him I'm coming I know how he used to behave someone i havent seen in two months but this time around he was doing as if I'm forcing him or inconveniencing him then I asked if you have vistor you should tell me instead of doing like I'm forcing you and he started raining insvlts on me that I'm stvpeed,am m@d
then I said that means my suspicion is true you were just waiting for opportunity for us to quarell so that you will tell me nor to come,meanwhile I have caught him che@ting before,he started insvlting me and we exchanged words so from that time till now it's been a month he didn't reach out so I texted him out of ang€r that I don't want the relationship again because I'm tired of telling an adult how to behave or how to treat me and I deleted all his numbers then weeks later I was thinking I overreacted I messaged him again telling him what he does that I don't like that we should correct ourselves and move on and he said when it's time for me to marry I should use my money and marry a man because no man wants to marry his fellow man just because he doesn't like when you're telling him he's wrong,he never says sorry,he's always right and never wrong,and believes he can insvlt you and you shouldn't say anything because he's your senior..today makes it a week I reached out again and he said that he's travelling and not in the mood to talk about the issue till he comes back and I have decided never to reach out again please I want to know if I'm wr0ng.

26/09/2025

Hello there, I would like to introduce myself and speak with you about my situation and what I should do. My name is Morgan but I go by Mo, I ended up marrying a man that I’ve known for 20’years as friends. We lost contact for about 10 years but after reconnecting figured we actually felt something more. Plus he was married at the time and I was a little young. Who better to marry than someone you feel like you already know was the logic. Well honeymoon period is over and dealing with so many insecurities and trust issues from both sides it started to become hard. He always jokingly accused me of che@ting and from what I’ve learned deflecting is a huge thing people do when they are che@ting. I’ve been through his phone before and going through his iPad recently I find that the entire time he has been dishonest and flirting sharing pics and videos with other men. I took pics of it all.. I recently had a b@d gut feeling when he left out for work. He travels for work so I went out to where he was 2 hours away because the FaceTime calls started to be cut short and sketchy, he wouldn’t show his surroundings or anything else in his hotel room, completely opposite of how our calls usually go. I asked him to give me a tour via FaceTime of the room and he at first didn’t want to. Then he sighed and said fine. At this point I asked him to reassure me
Everything is ok and I have nothing to worry about. He slowly went through the room and had the camera angled up the whole time. By the time he got to the bathroom he then asked can I go into the bathroom!? (what sounded like it was directed at someone else) not me because why is he asking me this? It was at someone else I feel. maybe as a warning or something for whoever was there to duck down and hide and get out? The door to the bathroom was halfway open already. When he started to go into that direction he set the phone down on the counter of the kitchen right outside of the bathroom. I then freaked out and immediately felt like he was hiding someone. I screamed and cried and told him I was done because if you’re trying to reassure me nobody is there why would you set the phone down and block my view? I swear I heard what sounded like someone scurrying by and then a door opening and closing (the front door) he then laid down and tried to explain why he didn’t bring the phone into the bathroom. Because it was plugged into a little wireless charger he wa sleep carrying around. But he went through the whole room with it so why not the bathroom? During our conversation after this. I teared up and I seen the guilt and hvrt in his eyes and face. He then became overly affectionate by saying I love you and can’t wait to ki$$ your lips when I get home. (Which he never says or tells me) this whole thing lasted a few days, but towards the end of all this days later, his new approach was ang€r and aggr€ssion and being totally defensive. I brought up a lie detector test which he said. Yeah we can do that. We can go to my friends office and do it, but once I pass you can pack your bags and get the F*** out of my house!.. which was nothing of how he was acting before. He went from trying to put my mind at ease to thre@tening to divorce me? Idk what to do because we both have issues but I haven’t che@ted on him. I’ve been on apps that he was also on but never seen what he wrote other men. He went through my phone and seen conversations that I had but I never had intentions of meeting anyone. I have self esteem issues as it is and I go on there to share pics mostly face pics to just hear compliments because he never does. He makes me feel like an errand boy instead of a husband. He’s 9 years older than me and it seems everything is just coming to an end but I don’t want to give up. Because I really do love him and it hvrts .

26/09/2025

Please help me ask your followers especially the women whom their husband is abroad base how it feels" my husband is planing to travel outside the country and I don't know how I should be feeling.we married last year and have 1 daughter together, I really don't know if I should be happy or worried 😫 or I should relocate to where my family and friends are.again he said he will open a shop for me and my cousin also promise to give me 1m to start a business.im new in this city no family no friends only my husband and his people.plz should I relocate to where I know people or. Again I don't know how I'm feeling now' he has made up his mind to travel

26/09/2025

Good afternoon ma please post for me and hide my ID. I'm 26 yrs old and am a graduate waiting for my NYSC.

A friend of my brother who is 39yrs and lives abroad wanted to marry and asked my brother for my number cuz am single, my brother gave him my number and we started chatting, he made his intention known to me that he is ready to settle down, because he is my brother's friend he met him outside the country and I trust my brother, I agreed to give love another chance and marry him after 2 months of us chatting cuz I was already developing feelings for him.

Now the issue is that I engaged in a game with my friends on Whatsapp which is ( send hi and I will write something about you) and most of my friends commented and sent their pictures, I posted their pictures both male and female, my fiance viewed my status and only liked the male pictures and then blocked me outrightly without any notice or querying me.
I have tried to reach out to him with my other numbers to explain myself that it was just a game and nothing attached to it yet he refused to listen to me and also blocked that my number, I honestly don't know what to do because we are already planning our marriage this December.
Please I need advice on what to do.
Note: I'm a very reserved girl and an introvert.

23/09/2025

I'm seriously considering separation as I no longer feel welcomed and loved in my home.

23/09/2025

It seems to me like he is just wasting my time, and if later in the future he says my food isn't good enough, I'll be left to start all over again.

21/09/2025

I’m trying to prove myself and my worth he’s still not impressed.