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Lifeboat School of Marriage and Relationship, 1 Bailey Close, Shomolu (2025)

28/11/2025

*MARRIAGE CLASS*

*Couples Meal*

Today , I want to give us advice on *"TRUST"* in our relationship, focusing on the principle of placing our ultimate trust in God.

💖1. *Trust God, Not Your Spouse:* Advice for Couples!

In a loving relationship, we often look to our spouse to be our rock, our confidant, and the source of our deepest security. While your partner should absolutely be a safe haven, it's crucial to understand the difference between human reliance and ultimate trust.

The biblical wisdom to *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding"*(Proverbs 3:5) applies powerfully to marriage.

When we place the weight of our salvation, happiness, and ultimate security on our spouse, that burden becomes too heavy and sets the relationship up for disappointment.

Hear Me;🙏

2. *Understanding the Limits of Human Love.*
Your spouse is a wonderful, human, imperfect being. But he or she is human aft all.

😭 *They will fail you:* They will forget important dates, say the wrong thing, make poor financial decisions, and even struggle with their own faith at times. This isn't a flaw in your marriage; it's a reality of being human.

🙆‍♂️ *They cannot complete you:* Only God can provide the perfect, unconditional love, fulfillment, and spiritual security that truly completes you. Asking your spouse to fill a God-sized hole in your life will deplete them and frustrate you. It's impossible.

🙏 *They are not an idol:* When you treat your spouse's approval, presence, or happiness as the single most important factor in your life, you unintentionally make them an idol. God alone deserves that central place.

3. *The Power of Placing God First in your Marriage*
When you prioritize your trust in God, it paradoxically makes your marriage stronger and healthier.

👉 *It reduces pressure:* Your partner is relieved of the impossible task of being your perfect savior. They can be your partner, not your god.

👉 *It brings a stable third point:* Every marriage is a triangle: God, Spouse 1, and Spouse 2. When both partners focus their gaze upward (to God), they naturally move closer to each other.

👉 *It fosters forgiveness:* Knowing that you are perfectly loved and forgiven by God makes it easier to extend grace and forgiveness to your imperfect spouse when they inevitably stumble.

👉 *It provides wisdom for conflict:* Instead of reacting solely based on your emotions or human understanding, you can pray together or separately, asking for God’s wisdom and perspective to resolve conflict.
*Practical Ways to Shift Your Trust*

During Conflict ... Your flesh will say; "If you would just apologize the way I need you to, I would feel better."

The Spirit: "God, give me the wisdom to speak truth in love, and the humility to hear my spouse's heart."

The Flesh: Seeking Security; "I need my spouse to always text me back right away or I worry they don't love me."

The Spirit : "My worth and security come from God's unchanging love; my spouse is a gift, not a guarantee."

The Flesh: Facing Uncertainty ; "I'm terrified about the future; my spouse must figure out how to fix this problem."

The Spirit: "I will work with my spouse using the gifts God gave us, but I will ultimately rest in God's provision and plan."

*Remember:*❤️‍🩹 You should absolutely trust your spouse to be a faithful partner, to love you, and to honor their commitments. That is called covenant trust and it is essential. But you must trust God to be your ultimate provider, your ultimate peace, and the source of the love you both share.

🙏 Prayer: Incorporating a joint prayer can be a powerful way to recenter your marriage on ultimate trust in God alone.

Here is a short, daily prayer focused on placing God first, which you and your spouse can say together:

🙏 Daily Couple's Prayer of Trust
(Say this together, perhaps before bed or at the start of the day)

"Heavenly Father,
We come to You today as imperfect people in an imperfect marriage.
We confess that sometimes we lean on each other too heavily, placing burdens on our spouse that only You are meant to carry.

Today, we choose to re-anchor our ultimate trust in You.

*Heavenly Father, Help us to:*
🙏 See each other through the eyes of grace, knowing we will both stumble.

🙏Forgive quickly, just as You forgive us completely.

🙏Give generously to each other, knowing our deepest well of strength and love comes from You alone.

Lord, be the center of our home, the source of our security, and the author of our love story.
Amen."

God bless you.

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10/03/2025

Did you know there is a bright side to anxiety?! Anxiety often feels like the enemy, but did you know your nervous system actually uses it to help you? A little anxiousness isn’t all bad—in fact, it’s designed to keep you sharp, motivated, and even safe. Here’s how:

Keeps You Alert & Focused – That jittery feeling before a big event? It’s your brain helping you stay sharp, pay attention, and react quickly to what’s happening around you.

Prepares Your Body for Action – When you feel anxious, your body releases adrenaline, increasing your heart rate and energy levels. This helps you power through challenges instead of freezing up.

Boosts Problem-Solving – A little pressure can actually help your brain think faster and make better decisions—this is why some people perform their best under stress.

Motivates You to Take Action – That nervous energy before a deadline? It’s pushing you to prepare, plan, and get things done instead of procrastinating.

Keeps You Safe – Anxiety is like your internal warning system, helping you recognize risky situations and make choices that protect you.

18/02/2025

I call upon the Lord, who is worthy to be praised, and I am saved from my enemies. He delivers me from my enemies; surely You lift me above those who rise up against me; you rescue me from the violent man (Psalm 18:3, 48).

03/02/2025

*WHO CLOSED THE HEAVENS?*

Good Morning Dear Saints in Christ.

This morning I want to ask you guys why all these open heaven church program going on everywhere?

You will hear:
👀 *Open Heave Prayer*
👀 *Open Heaven Convention..*
👀 *Open Heaven midnight Prayer*

Let me ask?
*WHO Closed the heavens?*

Did God close the heavens that it will now require prayer and seed offering of man to open it?

This is a complete religious overdo ..

Let us See from Proverbs 30:4 : The bible said; *"Who hath ascended up into heaven, or descended? who hath gathered the wind in his fists? who hath bound the waters in a garment? who hath established all the ends of the earth? what is his name, and what is his son's name, if thou canst tell?"*

Take a look at ... *"what is his name, and what is his son's name, if thou canst tell?"*

There is One who rules the Heavens. He has a Son.

Now see what Christ the Messiah said in John 3:13; *"And no man hath ascended up to heaven, but he that came down from heaven, even the Son of man which is in heaven."*

So Christ came down from heaven to help man. Christ opened the heavens gate.

It's like when a woman give to to her first child, we refer to the child as one who opened the womb of the woman.

Christ is the first One to come down from heaven and ascended back. He has opened the heaven and God never closed it.

Immediately after resurrection, Marry saw Christ and wanted to touch Him..hear what Christ said to her:

👉John 20:17 Jesus saith unto her, *Touch me not; for I am not yet ascended to my Father:* but go to my brethren, and say unto them, I ascend unto my Father, and your Father; and to my God, and your God.

Hallelujah. By the time Christ finally meet His disciples He allowed them to Touch Him. He permitted Thomas to Touch Him , meaning that He(Jesus Christ) had gone to heaven to the Father and heaven were open for Him and us. Hallelujah.

Apostle Paul said in Ephesians 4:8
*'Wherefore he saith, When he ascended up on high, he led captivity captive, and gave gifts unto men."*

The curtain in the temple that tore from bottom to up... signifies also that assess has been granted man from earth to heaven.

Christ did it all.

Christ is my open heaven.

Through Christ, heaven has been opened unto all .

There is no closed heaven.

Stop falling for cheap emotional blackmail.

Christ is my open heaven.

In Him and through him, we have access to heaven 24/7.

There is no more dangerous seeds offering to open the heavens. It's a SCAM

There is no more Midnight Fire 🔥 Prayer to Open Heaven. Just pray and Ask the Lord what you want.

If you have Christ...the Heavens are opened unto you.

Even if you don't have Christ...the heavens has been opened unto you. Christ is the password at the gate.

God bless you all.

I am Apostle Edward Freedom

01/02/2025

A month before a heart attack, your body will warn you of these signs!

Nowadays, most people lead busy lives and are forced to follow hectic schedules. This can easily cause stress, which later leads to more serious health issues. The food most us consume, fast food, is also a factor which negatively affects the quality of life. A great number of people struggle to maintain healthy weight and obesity is an issue many face.

One of the consequences of the above mentioned is a heart failure, or heart attack. In fact, heart attack is number one cause of death in the world.

According to some research, the body knows if a heart attack is about to take place and is trying to warn us.

Some of the symptoms we should pay attention to and try to treat as fast as possible are the following:

1. Fatigue
Being extremely tired, sleepy, exhausted or lacking energy to perform even the slightest of tasks can be a sign of fatigue. One of the reasons it may affect a person are the lowered levels of blood that go to the heart. This usually takes place when arteries get narrowed. Fatigue can easily happen if someone experiences heart issues.

2. Shortness of breath
The shortness of breath happens when the lungs don’t get the appropriate levels of oxygen needed for a proper function of the body. If you or someone you know experiences shortness of breath it is for the best to consult a doctor because it may be a sign of a potential heart attack.

3. Weakness
If you start experiencing weakness all of a sudden because of a an unknown reason your body might want to remind you to take things slowly and reconsider your lifestyle.

4. Dizziness and Cold Sweats
Both dizziness and cold sweats can be a result of poor circulation, something that must not be ignored.

5. Flu or Cold-like Symptoms
A great number of people who have experienced heart attack say that they developed flu-like symptoms mere days before the attack took place.

6. Chest Pressure
A common symptom of heart attack is the chest pressure one might experience. This pressure will constantly increase until the attack itself happens.

7. Swollen Feet
If you have congestive heart failure, one or both of your heart’s lower chambers lose their ability to pump blood effectively. As a result, blood can back up in your legs, ankles and feet, causing edema.

Please do not do a self medication. A constant Medical Exterminations will save you a million troubles.

01/02/2025

SIX Ways Men Manipulate Women to Get What They Want.

If you think women are good at manipulating, wait until you see the ways men manipulate women to get what they want. Some men will go to great lengths, using tactics designed to charm, deceive, or emotionally disarm women in order to achieve intimacy. While many women believe they’re in control, these methods can leave them hurt and questioning their judgment.

Let’s explore six common ways men manipulate women into sleeping with them and how you can protect yourself.

1. Using Those Three Words.
One of the most common ways men manipulate women is by saying “I love you.” For some women, hearing these words creates a sense of trust and emotional vulnerability. Players often exploit this, waiting for the perfect moment to say them, knowing they can break down emotional walls. However, once they achieve their goal, their interest may suddenly disappear, leaving you hurt.

If you think women are good at manipulating, wait until you see the ways men manipulate women to get what they want. Some men will go to great lengths, using tactics designed to charm, deceive, or emotionally disarm women in order to achieve intimacy. While many women believe they’re in control, these methods can leave them hurt and questioning their judgment.

Let’s explore six common ways men manipulate women into sleeping with them and how you can protect yourself.

1. Using Those Three Words
One of the most common ways men manipulate women is by saying “I love you.” For some women, hearing these words creates a sense of trust and emotional vulnerability. Players often exploit this, waiting for the perfect moment to say them, knowing they can break down emotional walls. However, once they achieve their goal, their interest may suddenly disappear, leaving you hurt.

2. The Marriage Trick
Another tactic men use to manipulate is dangling the idea of marriage. For women who dream of long-term commitment, this promise can be compelling. They suggest a future together but often lose interest after getting what they want. This is one of the ways men manipulate women emotionally, playing on their deepest desires to achieve physical intimacy.

3. The Influence of Alcohol
Encouraging you to drink more during dates is another sneaky tactic. When alcohol clouds your judgment, you’re more likely to make decisions you might later regret. This tactic is a subtle but dangerous example of the ways men manipulate women, as it puts you in a vulnerable position.

4. The Friend Card
Pretending to be a supportive friend is a clever ploy. Men in this role may spend time with you, build trust, and wait until you’re emotionally comfortable with them. Once their goal is achieved, the friendship often disappears. This method is among the most deceitful ways men manipulate women by taking advantage of their trust and kindness.

5. Sweet Words and Compliments
Flattery is a powerful tool. Some men use charming words to make you feel special and desired, knowing it can break down your defenses. Compliments like “You’re the most beautiful person I’ve ever met” or “You’re so captivating” may sound genuine, but they can also be calculated moves. Recognizing this as one of the ways men manipulate women can help you stay cautious.

6. Sharing a Sad Story

Emotional vulnerability is another way to build trust quickly. When a man shares a sad story about his struggles, it can tug at your heartstrings and make you feel closer to him. While not all men who open up have ulterior motives, some use this as one of the ways men manipulate women emotionally, knowing it lowers defenses and fosters a deeper connection.

Protect Yourself from Manipulation
Recognizing these ways men manipulate women can empower you to set boundaries and trust your instincts. Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, honesty, and care—not on deception or emotional exploitation. If you’ve encountered any of these tactics, don’t hesitate to share your story or seek support.

15/07/2024

Help Your Marriage by Learning How to Communicate Effectively!

Proverbs 15:1 says, “A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare.” Learn how to communicate effectively without angry attacks, shouting matches or accusations. Begin to put the Golden Rule into effect and treat your spouse the way you want to be treated—with respect and kindness.

God wants to help your marriage become strong, healthy and loving. He loves you and wants your marriage to honor Him and be mutually nourishing to you and your spouse. Begin putting these steps into practice as you study His Word and pray, believing for the Holy Spirit to guide you every step of the way!

As always, if you need a partner to agree with you in prayer, please call our prayer ministers at 234-802-8821311

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21/12/2023

With her great persuasiveness
she enticed him,
with her flattering lips she drew him on.
Suddenly he goes after her,
as an ox goes to the slaughter,
or like a fool to the correction
of the stocks,
Till an arrow pierces through his liver,
like a bird hurrying into the snare,
and does not know that it
is at the risk of his life.
Now therefore, listen to me,
my children,
and be attentive to the words of my mouth.
Do not let your heart turn to her ways.
Do not go astray in her paths.
For many are the wounded
she has thrown down;
yes, many strong men have been
killed by her.
Her house is the way
to the realm of the dead,
going down to the chambers of death.
Proverbs 7:21-27

12/08/2023

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In marriage; What should be the boundaries in obeying or keeping the scripture above?

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