10/05/2025
As a lady, one of the best things you can do for yourself while single is to be useful!
Lay your hands on something...
Learn a skill,
Start a business,
Get a job. By all means be value-packed
Stop folding your hands, sitting at a place and waiting for an Odogwu that'll come and carry you!... This is the reality of some ladies right now 🤔
And that is why they marry you and suppress you like you're a nobody 🥺
Cos from the onset nothing actually showed you're somebody...
You beg for virtually everything!
You don't give, always at the receiving end.
Find yourself before thinking about marriage!
S*x is not all there's to marriage!
After s*x,
After child birth, what next? Purpose!
And from the beginning, let your to-be husband know what you're in for; (Business, Career, Ministry, Education) and also check if he's secured and comfortable with your choice. Don't say he'll change, he'll start liking it later..if he doesn't like what you're doing now, he's never going to like it! Know this and know peace, stop making excuses for what will cut you short tomorrow.
If you don't want to be crippled to a house wife, don't settle with a man who dislikes women that are high fliers.
Wisdom is profitable to direct!