parenting And childcare

26/04/2024

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03/11/2023

Child raising can be challenging, it's requires a lot of work and it may seem overwhelming at times, however trust that you can achieve it.

25/10/2023

Children Are Gift From God
Parents Are The Custodian

18/10/2023

ADVICE TO MEN ABOUT THEIR PREGNANT WIVES...

Today I Want Us to discuss About PREGNANCY.

Do you know that certain things you do when your wife is pregnant actually contributes to state of health of the mother and unborn child?

Listen, it bothers me a lot when I see men showing no concern to their pregnant wife or fail to adjust to some temporary changes!!!
It's just 9 months, not like it's forever. Pregnancy is not bought in the market, neither is it a software downloaded from the internet. It's a seed planted by men and it grows. There has to be a carer of that seed while it grows, and women have been given the responsibility to carry it.

Pregnancy is preparation to welcom a new member into the family. Pregnancy is journey fun filled, isn't it??

Women differ in body changes. Although Pregnancy makes women do certain things in common.

■Once in a while she would nag
■Once in a while she would request for things unimaginable e.g she wants to eat okro and bread
■Once in a while she would get so lazy to make you your meals
■Once in a while she would want to stretch her legs on your laps. Please pardon her... carrying the baby ain't easy.
Her needs may be unsatisfiable at times.
The first Tri_mester of the journey can be so annoying. Like I say women differ from each other during pregnancy.
●While most women are busy vomiting.
●Most of them sleep like water leaf, they sleep off anywhere with the slightest chance even in the kitchen.
●While most women have fever.
●Most women be looking cranky and dry like Dustin powder.
●While most women add up weight.
●Most women appears like dry pumpkin
●Some even go round with White handkerchief spitting in it.

ALL THESE ARE STILL OUR WORK.....
Please tolerate this, it's beautiful afterwards.
Her attitude becomes annoying, most times you cant stand her. But I get annoyed when I see men neglect their pregnant wife. She's not an abomination, neither is she a curse. I must say, it's not an easy journey for all.
The last Tri_mester is when we need to be extra patient, loving, enduring and understanding.

NOTE THIS FACT...

1) Always observe your wife's feet while pregnant, it swells often. Please give her a basin of water to soak her leg once in a while, it's one of the best treat women enjoy during pregnancy.
2) Ask her regularly how she feels and how the baby is. She's the carrier so she feels him/her move.

3) Tell her how beautiful she looks during pregnancy e.g " Honey see as the pregnancy make you fine, I will be impregnating you every month ooo" or even "is it my child that makes you fresh like this pass normal" Even if she has grown bigger in size cause of the pregnancy, celebrate her.

4) Don't be upset if she ever wakes you up by 2am to help massage her feet. We need to feel little of her discomfort and pain. She shouldn't carry it alone, it's our baby,we need to carry it together. (I don't mean physical carriage though).

5) Don't be ashamed to take her out. Take her out once in a while to those lovie dovie places you used to go together.
Most times I wonder what crosses the heart of men when they see their pregnant wives. Carrying a child for 9 months isn't easy.
I urge all men to get closer to their spouses during pregnancy because that's one of the times she needs you most.

A big shout out to all men who fully stand by their wives during pregnancy.
Women after delivery seriously thank your husband for been with you when you needed him the most..
Good men are gift from God

28/09/2023

28/09/2023

3 STAGES OF MARRIAGE...✍

The FIRST STAGE is called honey moon and lasts about two years. This stage is very sweet, nice and romantic. This is where you find names like honey, sweet heart, baby and so on. In this stage, everything is perfect. This is a stage where a man returns home and dumps his socks and shoes anywhere but in the morning, he will wake up and find them placed where they're supposed to be. This is where madam doesn't go to bed until you return home. She sits in the living room and receives all the mosquito bites waiting for you till you return, take a shower and enjoy supper. Even if you return at midnight, you find her waiting for you. Wait and see what happens in the second stage.
This first stage is beautiful with a lot of tolerance. This is a stage where at night while in bed, you release a very toxic gas and your spouse instead apologizes. Remember, you have gassed but again he tells you, "Sorry darling, it's okaaaaaay." This is unbelievable. Madam has gassed but to you, it's okay. Oh my God, this is sweet. Everything is just merry making during this stage. In conclusion, Enjoy this stage for as much as we can.

The SECOND STAGE lasts for about ten years! This is where honey moon is over. This stage is red hot. During this stage, perhaps financial challenges have come in. You have given birth and the children are also disturbing you. Sometimes you are yet to give birth but really want to and the pressure on you is mounting from all corners. Landlords have become Landlords. There is loss of employment. Things are just tight.
Life is hard in this second stage. The man who used to return home early now returns very late. Sometimes he doesn't even return home. There are suspicions of infidelity and cheating. You don't trust each other. You feel your spouse is cheating, and infact he or she is cheating. When you return home and leave your shoes outside, in the morning, you find them where you left them. Things are hot here.
This is a stage where at night, you release a toxic gas and your partner asks what you ate during supper time yet you ate the same meals. He can even leave the bed and spend the night in the sitting room simply because you gassed. Imagine only gassing.
The second stage is hot. There are fights; spiritual, physical and in all aspects. This is the stage where you reach the point of considering separating. Each spouse shows his or her true colours in this stage. A night dancer switches on the reggae, mixes the music and punches the baseline. Your relatives taste the greedy side of your wife.
Those who persevere and overcome this stage end up keeping their marriage till death does them part. However, very many hang up the towel in this stage. They quit. In conclusion, Those who are in this stage should fight a little longer, not to hang up the towel. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Just a little longer and you are done with this heat.

Finally, there's the LAST STAGE. This comes after the ten red hot years. This last stage is lukewarm. It's neither cold or hot. You gas at large and no one applauds you or complains. You have seen enough of each other. You have known each other's true colours.
In this stage, whatever your partner does no longer surprises you. If she quarrels, you just say that is the nature of this woman. If he is still late out in the night, you don't even bother to call since you know he will return. If she doesn't serve you food and you feel hungry, you just go and serve food otherwise, hunger hits you for nothing.
This stage is not for disturbing one another. There is a lot of calmness and commands are few. This is where if you are watching TV with her in the sitting room and you feel thirsty, you don't send her to bring for you drinking water but only wait when she's moving to the direction where there is water and you tell her if she is coming back, she can come along with some water. If she asks you to repeat what you just said, you have to pretend like you didn't say anything. All of a sudden, she shocks you and returns with drinking water. There is mutual respect in this stage. In conclusion, those in this stage should just work for eternity. congratulations to those who are in this stage for, they have come from far.

That's all for today. Maybe the reader of this post can have a reflection. Maybe you can relate to this for those married. Maybe you will relate with this for those who will marry in future. I am also busy writing here but just know perhaps, out of the three stages, I am also somewhere there enjoying or facing one of the stages. Just do a reflection. It might be helpful.

Don't forget to share this widely. Thank you!

18/09/2023

Can't wait to see my mommy back!
Said a child of 3 years!!
Mommies How Do You Feel Seeing Your Children Running To Welcome You When Returning Home??

06/09/2023

Here are 10 key secrets of a child's growth that every parent should know:

1. Unconditional love: Show your child love and acceptance regardless of their achievements or behavior. This helps to foster their self-esteem and emotional well-being.

2. Positive reinforcement: This is very important, Praise and reward your child's efforts and accomplishments. This encourages them to develop confidence and a growth mindset.

3. Provide a safe and nurturing environment: Create a physically and emotionally safe space for your child to explore, learn, and develop their skills without fear of judgment or harm.

4. Set healthy boundaries: Establish clear and consistent rules, expectations, and limits. Children thrive when they have structure and boundaries that provide a sense of security.

5. Foster open communication: Encourage your child to express their thoughts, feelings, and ideas openly. Listen attentively without judgment, and validate their emotions to build trust and a deeper connection.

6. Encourage independence: Give your child age-appropriate responsibilities and encourage them to make decisions and solve problems. This helps develop their confidence and self-reliance.

7. Promote a healthy lifestyle: Encourage proper nutrition, regular physical activity, and sufficient sleep. This supports their physical, cognitive, and emotional development.

8. Stimulate their curiosity: Provide opportunities for exploration, discovery, and learning. Encourage your child's curiosity and nurture their interests to promote intellectual growth.

9. Encourage social interaction: Facilitate opportunities for your child to interact with peers, siblings, and other adults. Building social skills and forming relationships helps with emotional intelligence and overall development.

10. Lead by example: Children learn from observing their parents. Model the behaviors, attitudes, and values you want to instill in your child, as they often mirror what they see.

Remember, each child is unique, and what works for one may not work for another. Be at your best, Be patient, flexible, and adaptable in your approach as you navigate the journey of parenting and your child's growth.