26/12/2025
POST WRITTEN SPECIFICALLY FOR COUPLES
(Deep and reflective)
One of the quietest threats to marital peace is financial secrecy.
Not because money is evil, but because silence breeds suspicion.
Hiding income, debts, expenses or financial decisions often stems from fear....fear of judgment, fear of conflict, or fear of control. But marriage was never designed to survive on fear.
Transparency invites trust.
Communication strengthens unity.
Shared vision produces stability.
Healthy couples don’t just share love, they share information, responsibility and accountability.
If finances have become a sensitive topic in your home, start small:
✔ Talk without accusation
✔ Listen without defensiveness
✔ Plan without competition
✔ Pray without pretense
Remember, you are not opponents, you are partners.
STRONG POINT TO NOTE: A strong marriage is not one without challenges, but one where nothing important is hidden.
Yours truly,
K**elomo David
Coach | Pastor | Consultant
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