20/11/2023
DO YOU HAVE EXTRA OIL IN YOUR VESSEL?
A lot of girls today complain guys walk away from them simply because they refused having s*x with them. While some are even tempted given away their virginity just to keep the guy.
Let's be blunt here.
Looking at it critically you will see that virginity may not be the real reason why guys walk away, it may not be s*x either.
The story of the ten virgins in the bible made us to understand that both the wise and the foolish were virgin; the other five were not allowed to see the bridegroom not because they were virgin or they lost their virginity.
CAPITAL NO!
But because they were foolish and called foolish because they had no EXTRA OIL!
And what is that EXTRA OIL if i may ask?
The EXTRA OIL here is your CHARACTER or those things you can offer in a relationship apart from S*X, VIRGINITY AND PHYSICAL BEAUTY.
Most girls don't have that EXTRA OIL to sustain them in any relationship, while some brag about virginity, that's all they have got to offer.
Apart from virginity and s*x what else can you offer to that man?
*Can you support him physically?
*Can you support him financially?
*Can you support him spiritually?
*How about mentally?
All you do is demanding money for bags, shoes, cloths, new iPhones, outing e.t.c. Making him spend unnecessarily; because you see relationship as a Job opportunity, s*x as your office duty and virginity as a CV or qualification for the job.
*Have you ever sat him down and help him plan his future?
*Has he ever seen you as someone he can confide in?
*How many time has he come to you in a state of dilemma seeking your advice?
Rather than jumping from one place to another all in the name of enjoyment, look for what you want to add to him; see your self being an asset to him and not a liability.
As for the virgins that refuse to understand or even remember that virginity ends after wedding night, but the extra oil continues.
Try to be a woman that a man will always regret losing for the rest of his life, be the woman that your man can't afford losing.
The question is...
DO YOU HAVE EXTRA OIL IN YOUR VESSEL?
You can share this with someone!!!
Shalom!!!
