TheRelativmarriage scan

22/02/2023

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE🧠🫁👩🏻‍🦰

An unoveremphasize skill every woman should have.

Also, before I continue, I intentionally leave out men because men are naturally rational rather than emotional. As a matter of fact, a guy can love you, develop emotions for you. However, once it comes time to decide who he will spend his entire life with, he will be more logical. This is why some of them don't end up with the lady they love or the lady who loves them. They are very logical thinkers, so emotions cannot influence them to marry a lady. But ladies can easily be swayed by their emotions. Ans, a lady can say yes to you because of the pleasant things you have done for her and that can be the biggest mistake of her life.

Emotional intelligence refers to the ability to understand, manage, and express one's emotions, as well as to empathize with others and build strong relationships. It is a critical skill that helps individuals navigate the complexities of human interaction, communicate effectively, and handle challenging situations with grace and tact.

There are many reasons why a woman should possess emotional intelligence. Here are a few of the most significant:

Better relationships: Emotional intelligence allows women to communicate effectively and build strong relationships with others. Which also includes her relationship with her partner. It helps them understand and empathize with others' emotions, which leads to better communication and deeper connections.

Choosing a marriage or a relationship requires emotional intelligence, which helps women to balance their emotions with rational reasoning when making marriage decisions. It allows them to be more aware of their own biases and to consider others' perspectives when making decisions.

Emotional intelligence is key to making marital decisions for women. This is because it helps them to approach decisions in a more rational and informed manner, rather than simply being carried away by their emotions.

20/02/2023

*The 8 “L’s” of Parenting*

LOVE your child. For your child to be successful, he or she must feel valued. Your gentle touches, smiles and hugs communicate love. Giving your undivided attention, especially at the end of each day, demonstrates caring.

LOOK for the good in your child and make specific comments on what he or she does well. You must believe in your child's worth before he or she can believe it. If you want your child to have self-confidence and motivation, watch for positive behaviours and comment on them.

LISTEN, without judgment, to your child to express his or her thoughts and feelings. If you do not listen, your child may attempt to gain your attention by misbehaving.

LAUGH with your child, not at him or her. Demonstrate a sense of humor as you cope with life's difficulties. Laugh and play together.

LABOR diligently and with pride so that your child will want to work hard, persevere and do his or her best.

LEARN new information. It is fine to say, I don't know, but then add that you both can find out together. Take the time to read and thus instill a love of learning. On car trips play word games, read or listen to books on tape.

LEAVE the television and other media off. Many programs and video games desensitize your child towards violence and contribute to fearfulness and aggression. Place computers in central locations to monitor internet use.

LIVE life to its fullest. Take pleasure in little things like an ice cream cone, a beautiful day or the enthusiasm of your child. Read, pretend, dance, sing, take walks, play games, have pleasant meals, look at photos, share dreams, and enjoy each other.

Remember: Your child will most likely adopt the attitudes and habits you demonstrate daily.

Pst. Uwem Akpan.
Your Relativmarriage scan coach.

17/02/2023

You need to study who you want to wait for ....this is very important in any Relationship

17/02/2023

Make your time of waiting a season of personal development and self building in different areas of your life.

17/02/2023

Waiting is not bad but it becomes painful when it is a waste

17/02/2023

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We were naturally created by God to be achievers. Our lives are meaningless when we fail to fulfill our life's purpose. Frustration sets in when we feel that we are not making any progress with our lives.

Success is never accidental. Success is the result of definite steps. If you want to achieve your goals and make meaning of your life, I have outlined some steps you can follow below.

*1. Focus on commitment, not motivation.* Just how committed are you to your goal? How important is it for you, and what are you willing to sacrifice in order to achieve it? If you find yourself fully committed, motivation will follow.

*2. Seek knowledge, not results:*
If you focus on the excitement of discovery, improving, exploring and experimenting, your motivation will always be fueled. If you focus only on results, your motivation will be like weather—it will die the minute you hit a storm. So the key is to focus on the journey, not the destination. Keep thinking about what you are learning along the way and what you can improve.

*3. Make the journey fun:* It’s an awesome game! The minute you make it serious, there’s a big chance it will start carrying a heavy emotional weight and you will lose perspective and become stuck again.

*4. Get rid of stagnating thoughts:*
Thoughts influence feelings and feelings determine how you view your work. You have a lot of thoughts in your head, and you always have a choice of which ones to focus on: the ones that will make you emotionally stuck (fears, doubts) or the ones that will move you forward (excitement, experimenting, trying new things, stepping out of your comfort zone).

*5. Use your imagination:* Next step after getting rid of negative thoughts is to use your imagination. When things go well, you are full of positive energy, and when you are experiencing difficulties, you need to be even more energetic. So rename your situation.

29/09/2022

Marriage is a beautiful thing as it is a drama written to be acted on stage

when you allow the writer of the script to be the director of the drama, you have a successful and a significant ending....

God as the center of our marriage s and relationships can't be overemphasized

# Uwem # your Relativmarriage scan coach.

17/09/2022

16/09/2022

Ask yourself, how much of God has this person I want to be married to.