23/05/2024
My Lovely Ladies.
If he tells you he wants Se.x tell him you want Marriage.
And that he should stop DEMANDING for Se.x till he SUPPLIES Marriage. It's simple Economics. .
If he tells you "if you love me, you'll give me se.x" tell him "if you love me, you'll marry me first.
Nobody has a monotony to the definition of Love. He gives his definition, you give yours.
Most often in relationships, ladies are quiet about what they truly want, while the guys are busy talking about what they want from the very beginning.
The guy comes clean from the beginning and refuses to compromise.
I want this, I want that, I don't want this, I can't tolerate this.
Aunty, you too talk your own.
Tell him if it is s*x he wants, you are ready to give it to him, but he should marry you first, that you don't work without employment letter.
Refuse to be a ghost worker.
Read that again 👆
Stop suppressing your needs in a relationship just because you want to be the cool and nice girl.
Assert what's important to you during the first few months or weeks of the relationship. This is how you separate the Boys from the Men.
Don't wait till after Marriage to start talking, by then it's almost too late.
If he can't respect and value you enough to listen to you compassionately and considerably without getting defensive, just know he has nothing good in mind to offer you, Run 🏃.
Boys won't be Happy.
I loves you.