10/01/2022
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When my husband and I were dating, we agreed to wait till marriage before kissing, but one day as Konji would have it, we kissed ππ
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We had crossed a line, and we realized we needed help to keep the boundaries we set.
Its easier to let your guards down after youβve crossed a boundary.
After all, a little kissing wouldnβt hurt. All you want to do is kiss and not go all the way.
But hereβs the truth. No one (no believer anyway) plans to go all the way.
Itβs usually a little compromise that ends up going too far.
So youβre asking:
How do I honor God with my heart (and body) when Konji keeps calling?
Iβll suggest 4 ways.
1. Be accountable- have 1 person (or more) that you and your partner agree to report yourselves too. After that time we kissed, we knew that if it happened again, weβd have to go and tell PT, so it helped whenever we were tempted to kiss again.
2. Avoid been βover aloneβ - Itβs easier to do stuff when youβre sleeping over at their place than when you sleep in your own house.
3. Set a date. - I learnt this one from pastor Laju. Itβs easier to compromise when thereβs no end in view.
So by all means, as long as youβve crossed your βTβs and dotted your βIβs, set a wedding date. Konji will only keep getting stronger.
And finally,
4. Energy match- I think this is the most important. Make sure youβre not the only one trying to stay pure.
It is hard enough when youβre with someone who wants to honor God not to talk about someone who doesnβt see anything wrong.
That itself is already a major red flag π©
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