I Must Marry Right & My Marriage Must Work.

11/12/2025

11/12/2025

Marriage needs patience, yes, it is an indispensable virtue for any marriage that desires to last, grow, and flourish.

Patience is the quiet strength that helps you understand your partner even when emotions rise. It is the gentle pause that prevents hurtful words. It is the wisdom that reminds you that two different people must learn, unlearn, and grow together.

A patient spouse builds peace at home. A patient spouse chooses understanding over assumptions. A patient spouse gives room for growth, healing, and better communication.

In marriage, patience is not weakness, it is emotional maturity. It is the bridge between love and endurance, between misunderstanding and deeper connection.

If you want a marriage that stands storms, you must embrace patience daily. It will teach you to listen before reacting, to forgive before bitterness sets in, and to love beyond your partner’s temporary flaws.

A patient marriage is a thriving marriage.
Choose patience, grow love, and watch your home flourish.

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10/12/2025

I felt so happy when my Best 💖 thanked me for making her pregnancy journey easy. Truly, God helped us. 🙏

10/12/2025

6 WAYS TO BUILD EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE BEFORE MARRIAGE

Before marriage, love alone is not enough,Vemotional intelligence is the engine that keeps the relationship moving forward. Many homes didn’t collapse because they lacked love; they collapsed because they lacked understanding.

When you build emotional intelligence before marriage, you enter the union wiser, calmer, more sensitive, and better equipped to love intentionally. Here are six powerful ways to grow your emotional intelligence before saying “I do.”

1. Practice Emotional Awareness
Learn to understand your feelings, joy, disappointment, anger, fear, excitement.
When you can name your emotion, you can manage it. When you cannot name it, it will control you. Becoming self-aware helps you communicate clearly and reduces misunderstandings.

2. Work on Managing Your Emotions
Marriage will stretch your feelings in ways you’ve never imagined.
Before marriage, intentionally learn how to calm yourself, think before reacting, and respond instead of exploding. Emotional control is not weakness, it is strength under discipline.

3. Build Better Communication Skills
Don’t assume your partner will “just understand.”
Learn how to express yourself lovingly, listen without interrupting, and communicate without attacking. Good communication is the bridge that keeps two hearts connected.

4. Learn Empathy
Empathy is the ability to step into another person’s world.
Before marriage, practice understanding how others feel and why they think the way they do. Empathy softens conflicts and deepens connection, it helps you love beyond yourself.

5. Heal From Past Experiences
Unhealed wounds create unnecessary battles in marriage.
Take time to deal with past heartbreaks, childhood wounds, rejection, or trauma. Healing doesn’t mean forgetting; it means releasing the pain so it doesn’t ruin your future home.

6. Develop the Skill of Conflict Resolution
Disagreements will come, even with two people who love each other deeply.
Learn to discuss issues calmly, avoid blame games, and look for solutions instead of winning arguments. Peace is not automatic; it is created through maturity.

Emotional intelligence is one of the greatest gifts you can bring into marriage. It makes love deeper, arguments shorter, forgiveness easier, and partnership sweeter.

When you invest in building emotional intelligence before marriage, you’re not just preparing for a wedding, you’re preparing for a lifelong journey of peace, growth, and purposeful love.

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10/12/2025

In this journey of pregnancy and delivery, in our case PRAYER WORKS🙏

10/12/2025

Shout out to new followers! You all will marry right and your marriage must work 🙏 Anifowoshe Ayodele Asquare, Damilola Comfort Omoniyi, Olih Misslove Blehseen, Melody Namute Nayamay, Comfort Omolola, Teewegh Precious Doowuese EjiroOghene, Sarah Tosyn, David Inalegwu Edoh, Benson Gayawan, Joy Agu, Mhiz Happiness, Peace Choosen, Chinecherem Ekwe, Jude Gana, Phebe Phebe Anjorin, Gift Gift, Edidiong Ubak, Tortindi David, Rebecca David

09/12/2025

The Gift of Men
Through my Best 💖’s delivery process, my eyes opened again to a deep truth: the gift of men is one of God’s greatest blessings to humanity.

There are moments in life when money becomes powerless, moments when strength, wisdom, compassion, and presence are needed. And in those moments, God sends people. Strategic men and women. Helpers.

Carriers of grace. People who make the journey smooth, safe, and successful.
There are things money can achieve, yes, but there are also things only the right people can make happen.

That is why relationship is not something to joke with. Strategic relationships can take you to heights your finances cannot reach. They can provide solutions your resources cannot buy. Even God answers our prayers through the hands, voices, and actions of people He sends our way.

As you walk through this journey of life, learn to value people. Honour relationships. Treat people with warmth, kindness, and respect. Because destiny is never travelled alone, God often wraps His help inside the hearts and hands of men.

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09/12/2025

Today, my son received his first immunization. I was the one who took him to the health center because my Best 💖 needed to rest, so I decided to handle it myself.

The moment I entered the reception area, I realized I was the only man there. All the women looked at me, some in surprise, some with admiration.

When it got to my turn, I provided all the necessary details. But when it was time for them to give my baby his injection, I just couldn’t watch my 4-day-old son receive that needle.

I had to hand him over to my younger sister who followed me. And that was how my little boy got his first immunization today.
I’m proud to be a nursing father. 😀

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09/12/2025

Singles brothers. It's good to be a nursing father oh🤣, because wating nursing mother eat, nursing father go also eat 😀

08/12/2025

You will marry right and your marriage will work in Jesus name Amen 🙏

07/12/2025

Thank you, everyone, for the prayers, love, and beautiful wishes. My Best 💖 and I deeply appreciate your pure hearts and kindness.

The same God who showed up for us is still in the business of putting smiles on families. He has not stopped working, and very soon, every one of you will rejoice over your own expectations.

Your testimonies are on the way.
Thank you once again for standing with us. God bless you richly. 🙏🎉🎊

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