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23/01/2026

Have you ever felt like the life you’re living doesn’t fit anymore?
You’re functioning..:,You accomplish things, but there’s no satisfaction. You’re becoming a wisp of yourself.

This is what happens when you lose connection to your soul self.
Your soul skin is the one thing we don’t even know we’re missing. It’s the connection between you and who you essentially are. The part that knows what you truly need.
Without this connection, you dry out. And you keep going but something vital is gone…
I just posted a new video about this Selkie story. The version where she finally finds her skin after seven years but it crumbles in her hands… for it’s become far too old to wear.
She collapses. Devastated…
Then comes the hard journey to find the Old Woman of the World.

Like the Selkie, reconnection between you and your soul self is possible, but it requires the journey.

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In warmth
Wen-Wei

22/01/2026

Let it land

Wen-Wei

Why is it so hard to rest?Even when we stop, something in us stays alert.And we wind up improving organising and just ma...
14/01/2026

Why is it so hard to rest?

Even when we stop, something in us stays alert.
And we wind up improving organising and just making ourselves useful

Sadly enough, it’s as if if rest has to be earned, and being here is not enough on its own.

For me, rest did not exist in my family system.
It was simply no permission to stop

So my body kept going and the cost showed up later.

And what I am slowly understanding (and nearly not fast enough) is this~
rest is the absence of any justification

And maybe~ rest isn’t what we think it is.

With oresence
Wen-Wei

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And the long work of coming back into right relationship ourselves and our creative life

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What happens when a woman is no longer seen?Not unseen in the sense of being ignored or dismissed, but unseen by choice,...
02/01/2026

What happens when a woman is no longer seen?

Not unseen in the sense of being ignored or dismissed, but unseen by choice, without mirrors, without comparison, without an audience.

This is a question I have been sitting with for a long time, both in my own body and in the work I offer through movement. Many of us learned to move, speak, and even feel while being watched, subtly shaping ourselves to be legible, acceptable, or safe in the eyes of others. And over time, the body learns to anticipate the gaze before it learns to listen inward.

So when the eyes are covered, something quietly profound happens. Performance falls away, there’s no mirror, no comparison, nor audience… and movement becomes instinctual again, closer to how we moved before we became self-conscious.

Perception shifts, from watching the body to listening to it.

For many women, this may be the first time in a long time that the body is trusted again to lead, to show the way, without correction or explanation.

This is why I hold Shandnic Ritual TranceDance, a blindfolded movement ritual where there is no choreography and no right way to move, only sensation, rhythm, and the body’s own intelligence guiding the experience.

And something truly magical opens….

If this question resonates then be welcome

January 9, 20:00
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In care,
Wen-Wei

As this year comes to a close, I find myself noticing how deeply we have been taught to rely on the mind to lead us forw...
30/12/2025

As this year comes to a close, I find myself noticing how deeply we have been taught to rely on the mind to lead us forward. We’re taught to visualise, to affirm, to decide what we want, and then to push ourselves toward it with enough focus, discipline, and effort.

I have spent years doing this too… wanting my way forward…trying my ver best to think myself into a different future.., and believing that if my intentions were clear enough, my body would eventually catch up.

And what I’m learning now is quieter, slower, and far more humbling.

So no amount of visualising can override an exhausted body and no amount of affirming can move a nervous system that is still carrying grief, fear, or unprocessed pain. There’s also a moment where the mind has done all it can, and something deeper asks to be met instead.

Lately, the questions that feel most honest are no longer about what I want, but about what I long to experience, and how I am actually living inside myself. It’s about who I am being, moment by moment, and who I am becoming when I stop forcing and start listening, feeling, and attuning to what is already here.

This past year has asked much more of me than clarity or confidence… there were moments when I didn’t know how to show up, when silence felt safer than speaking, and when my body asked me to move far more slowly than my mind or the outer world would have liked. Naming this here feels tender, and also very necessary.

I am beginning to trust that becoming is not something we push or will ourselves toward… It is something that unfolds when there is enough safety to be present and gently honest. When rest is allowed to be part of the work, and truth is permitted to remain, rather than being rushed away or replaced with a better story.

May what is tired be allowed to rest.
May what is true be allowed to remain.
May we end this year listening more deeply than we strain or force.

I wish this for you, for me, and for all of us.
Wen-Wei 🌿

A blessing for this turning of the year.May it meet you gentlyWen-Wei
25/12/2025

A blessing for this turning of the year.
May it meet you gently

Wen-Wei

Three years ago, I really couldn’t have made this video.The woman I was needed everyone to like her… to approve of her.S...
17/12/2025

Three years ago, I really couldn’t have made this video.
The woman I was needed everyone to like her… to approve of her.

She stayed articulate when she wanted to go quiet.
She stayed helpful when something in her needed to stop.
And somehow… she kept moving, even when her body had already started saying no.

I don’t live there anymore.

This video came from one of those nights a woman can’t rise from.

Nothing dramatic or broken.
Just a place where effort stops working.
And staying with it becomes the only honest response.

It was recorded slowly… without trying to be clear too quickly… and without pushing the moment to explain itself.

I stayed close to what was happening underneath the surface, where something in the body was already responding long before words showed up.

That’s the place I’m interested in now.
Where old ways loosen their grip… holding softens… and something more truthful finally has room to arrive. Hallelujah.

I’ve opened a warm hearth on YouTube for this kind of listening.

You can watch the full video here:

👉🏽https://youtu.be/lBPL7XEPWhE?si=Eaontafx5kO8zz6I

With love consciousness and care
Wen-Wei

16/12/2025

There is a night when a woman cannot rise.
For something essential is happening underneath the surface of her life.

In that night, effort no longer carries her forward- impossible for the familiar ways forward fall quiet and simply won’t work…
Her body’ll slow her down so something much deeper and truer can be felt.

This is a place many of us know… also where grief moves through in its own time and wanted meaning cannot be reached yet.

Staying still and being present is required of us … and that’s enough

For there needs no fixing, pushing or is out of order.
This is an intelligence within every woman without fail - that cannot be hurried.

The night does not ask us to understand it, but only, to remain present long enough for what is real to take root within us.

If you recognise this place, remember that you are not alone…

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Much love Wen- Wei

We’re taught to push through grief.You know- to finish it quickly and return to “normal.”However-  grief doesn’t exactly...
12/12/2025

We’re taught to push through grief.
You know- to finish it quickly and return to “normal.”

However- grief doesn’t exactly move in straight lines at all…
It comes in waves and cycles juts the way a woman’s body does.

Grief interrupts everything because something honest needs to stop.
Moreover, it prioritises truth over any kind of momentum, and reality over any performance.

This isn’t dysfunction dear women…
It’s your psyche responding faithfully to loss.

In the old underworld stories, grief belonged to Ereshkigal queen of th below world…. as something that must be fully met.

She is not rescued from her grief…
No, no - she is witnessed in it.
And it’s this witnessing, presence and holding, that allows life to move again.

This reflection continues the descent I shared earlier this week.
…. offered as recognition

If this resonates, I’d love to hear you in the comments - your experience with this

In warmth Wen-Wei

09/12/2025

I just shared a new teaching on Inanna’s Descent
one of the oldest myths we have about a woman who chooses to walk into the underworld because something deeper is calling for her attention.

This story meets you if you’re in a season where life feels stripped back to the bone or slowed down,
or suddenly too heavy to carry the way you used to.

Inanna represents the bright, capable self the part of us that keeps going and is visible
Ereshkigal represents the deep unconscious … the grief, rage, exhaustion, and truth
that we haven’t yet been able to meet fully..

The old myth says that when these two finally meet,it feels like a kind of death… and in many ways it is-
And the beginning of something more honest and true.

Winter has a way of showing us what can no longer come with us. So - old roles need to fall away.
Old rhythms stop working as well as old patterns loosen their grip.

Because - something within us is asking to be heard at last.

If you’re in a descent like this, you’re not alone.
And may this remind you - you’re not on the right path and not failing..
You may simply be walking an initiation women have known for thousands of years.

A gentle question for you today:
What part of you has been carrying pain alone?
And what would it mean to sit with her , even for a moment instead of overriding her again?

In winter warmth
Wen-Wei 🌹

Every woman in her life meets a wild teacher whom is disguised as ruin. And well, we definitey don’t choose her.No, no… ...
06/12/2025

Every woman in her life meets a wild teacher whom is disguised as ruin. And well, we definitey don’t choose her.
No, no… She comes when something in us is ready to be broken open…

She arrives when everything youve built up around you and within you begins to crumble and crackle…not as punishment in any way, but it does reveal to you what was never yours to carry…. Truth.

She shows up as endings: whether in relationships, or phsysically, or loss of clarity.

What she asks of us is:

Accept and allow
Will you let yourself be remade?

In the old stories she has many names
the Dangerous Old Woman
Baba Yaga or Bone Mother,

She tests your willingness to see and worthiness….

In Jungian and shamanic language,
she is the initiator of truth the one who burns away outer roles, personalities and performance..
leaving only Essence and your Self

So my dear, what if ruin showing up isn’t the end but a fire that forges (in) sight?

So if and when destruction arrives remember She may be your teacher in disguise.

(And by the way- she never comes unless you’re ready.)

If you’re walking through such a threshold,
I hold spaces for women in descent and becoming.

In winter warmth
Wen-Wei

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Helping You Rise...

Welcome sisters and brothers....I am devoted to walking with you and guiding you to your heart and a life that is authentic, fulfilled and free. One that you lead with true purpose, in right relationship with yourself, each other, and also Mother Earth. We were all meant to live in the pure joy and magic of being alive and feeling the wonderment of nature and our existance... In sacredness and honour...

So when feeling lost in unrest and chaos, which we all face, I walk with you and guide you into reconnection with your true-self, your vital life-force, wholeness - to the frredom of being who you were meant to be- your soul-purpose and in true ownership and leadership of your journey here.

I also work closely with women to delve deeper into the ancient mysteries of womanhood and womb-wisdom. I am a passionate facilitator of sacred women's circles, rites of passage into the different phases of woman, womb-awakening training, incorporating lunar mysteries, shamanic and ritual practices, goddes wisdom and archetypes, yin yoga, trance-dance and ta***ic lore.

I lead women and men to thier truth- by acknowleding your inner self - which is the realm of the Sacred Feminine- the soul self which unites like the Yin and Yang with the Sacred Masuline to create true harmony.