School Of Love, IJsbaanpad, Amsterdam (2025)

21/09/2025

✨ This summer at Mindvalley, I found myself laughing and chatting with such a kind, humble, and fun soul.

✨ Moments like this remind me of A Course in Miracles: “Miracles are natural. When they do not occur, something has gone wrong.”

The miracle isn’t always divine fireworks, but could show up unexpectedly as a stranger who makes you laugh like an old friend. 🌿

💭 What’s your most recent “unexpected miracle” moment?

09/09/2025

✨ People ask me: wasn’t it incredible to stand on a stage at Mindvalley?

And yes, it was.
But here’s the truth: the stage itself is never the miracle.

🌿 The miracle is what happens in the space between us.
🤍 It’s when someone dares to open their heart in front of a room full of strangers.
🌸 It’s when a couple chooses to try again, one more time.
🕊️ It’s when I asked, “Who here has gone to bed angry at their partner?” or “Who here still flirts with their partner?” or “Who here sometimes feels lonelier in their relationship than when they’re alone?” — and the few brave ones who stood up to say yes reminded us all:

Love isn’t about perfection!
It’s about finding the courage to speak our truth, so she can lead us back to wholeness.

And then, reading back your words…
💬 “Emanuela’s session was one of the most impactful experiences I’ve had at Mindvalley. She has a way of guiding you straight to the core of your heart, helping you see what opens it, what closes it, and what you truly need to feel safe in love.”

💬 “Her presence was warm, grounded, and deeply human. She didn’t just teach concepts; she created a space where vulnerability felt safe and self-awareness felt empowering.”

💬 “This is one of the best workshops I did at MVU 25! Please give her a quest at Mindvalley!”

✨ Thats my reminder that Miracles are natural. When they do not occur, something has gone wrong.
And in Amsterdam, they were happening everywhere. 🌍

Thank you for the great boat ride, your generosity and kindness

Thank you for gathering such an incredible crowd every year.

Thank you for being such an extraordinary friend 🫶

I can’t wait to reconnect with all of you very soon here 🌍 or here 🤍

02/08/2025

They say love is all you need.
They forget to mention the part where it cracks you open :-/

📅 August 11, 10AM
🎤 Mindvalley stage
Amsterdam

Because let’s be honest…
Most of us didn’t grow up learning how to stay when it gets hard,
how to speak the truth without starting a war,
or how to ask for what we ache for without shame.

We think we’re just falling in love.
But what we’re really doing… (if we are going for it) is marrying our unfinished business (from the past)
👥 The parent we couldn’t please
🔁 The patterns we swore we’d never repeat, until we do

In this talk, I’ll share:
✨ Why we’re drawn to partners who mirror our oldest wounds
🔥 How conflict is growth in disguise
🗝️ Simple shifts that turn arguments into intimacy

Not because love is easy.
But because it’s the most human thing we do and meant to discover.

💔 Don’t fix your relationship.
🪞 Step into it.
You just might meet yourself on the other side.

See you there?

29/07/2025

Love shrinks when our truth has nowhere to go.
It slips out quietly, between the dirty plate left in the sink (again), the “it’s fine” that isn’t,
the back turned just a little too long in bed.

At some point, the conversations become checklists.
• The touch becomes a habit.
• The tension in your chest becomes your new normal.
• You still make dinner.
• You still talk logistics.
But you don’t really land in each other anymore.
And the part of you that used to laugh, cry, provoke
has gone quiet.

This is how connection turns into PERFORMANCE.
Not out of malice. But out of fear.
Fear that honesty will ruin what silence is barely holding together.

Here’s why:
You learned early, often in childhood, that truth could cost you a slap, the feeling that you were a weirdo and don’t fit in, or just a lot of headaches.

You learned hat being too honest could make love disappear.

So silence became your way to stay CLOSE.
Your way to belong without not being “too much”.

But that silence?
• It helped you survive. Didn’t show you that love doesn’t die but it just hardens under the weight of what wasn’t spoken.

26/11/2024

If you’ve had a long term relationship, you know that intimate relationships go through cycles—the spring of infatuation, the summer of passion, the autumn of letting go, and the winter of deep inner work.

But what happens after you survive the storm? What happens when the dust settles, and you’ve made it through the chaos?

Welcome to The Fifth Season. 🌟

This is the stage where you’re no longer fighting to survive. You’ve shed the old patterns, faced the tough truths, you’ve transformed the unconscious triggers into lessons and have the tools to repair, reconnect and build a bond that isn’t shaken by drama or insecurities. It’s grounded, real, and unstoppable.

You know you’re there because:

✨ you feel connected but you know the price of disconnection
✨ you feel trust - because you have healed your wounds many times
✨ you feel free because you crossed the edge of comfort and spoke your truth
✨ You’ve seen each other at your worst, and now you trust that even in the darkness, you will always find your way back to each other without losing yourself.

🪩 I spoke about this transformative power at the Suprarelatie Event — and the energy, the breakthroughs, the real love, were off the charts!

The fifth season is where relationships grow beyond what we ever imagined.
If you’re still in the messy middle of it, don’t worry. Love is a skill everyone can learn, you just have to find your way to do the work.
But know the journey is worth it!

Thank you for the stunning images:
📸 ❤️

Thank you for the privilege to co-create together
❤️

25/08/2024

The treasures you find when finally you clean your drawer 💌

Just in case, no one told you today:

- GOOD MORNING.
- I BELIEVE IN YOU.
- YOURE DOING GREAT.
- NICE BUTT.

Which one you needed to hear the most?

I’m doubting between #2 and #4 🤔🫶

01/08/2024

Een boek dat liefdesrelaties transformeert? Het bestaat, en het heet Oneindige liefde.

“Wat een fantastisch boek heeft mijn collega relatietherapeut Emanuela geschreven. Ik raad het al mijn cliënten en iedereen die een relatie heeft en deze wil versterken aan. Emanuela heeft soms ingewikkelde theorieën heel toegankelijk gemaakt zodat je als koppel direct aan de slag kunt. Mooi ook dat zij haar eigen kwetsbaarheid deelt. We zijn allemaal mensen, en we kunnen samen meer dan we soms voor mogelijk houden.”
– Geesje

In elke relatie kom je uitdagingen tegen. Logisch ook, want we hebben allemaal een andere opvoeding gehad, hebben andere behoeftes en spreken bovendien vaak een compleet andere liefdestaal. Zo voelt de een zich het meest verbonden door fysiek contact en heeft de ander juist meer behoefte aan een luisterend oor. Of mist de een spontaniteit en wenst de ander juist meer structuur.

Tot op zekere hoogte kun je elkaar misschien nog tegemoet komen, maar wat als de uitdagingen te groot worden? Wat als ze steeds weer tot ruzies leiden en ze de liefde tussen jou en je partner vertroebelen?

Ik weet hoe het voelt. Mijn partner David en ik hebben het allemaal doorstaan; de verhitte discussies, de verwijten over en weer, de slapeloze nachten, de onmacht, de frustratie. Het scheelde niet veel of ik had mezelf als alleenstaande moeder met twee jonge kinderen ook tot de ruim 580.000 eenoudergezinnen in Nederland mogen rekenen.

Maar dat bleek niet nodig, gelukkig. Integendeel! In plaats van het begin van het einde, werd onze relatiecrisis simpelweg een nieuw begin. Deze crisis is nu negen jaar geleden, en we zijn gekker op elkaar dan ooit.

Ik leerde dat een crisis je relatie kan maken of kraken. Wat het wordt, is up to you. Maar daar heb je wel de juiste tools en oefeningen voor nodig. Ik deel ze met je in Oneindige liefde.

“Emanuela beschrijft in haar boek in heldere stappen wat voor oefeningen je samen kunt doen, en deelt daarin ook haar persoonlijke ervaring. Een ontzettend fijn boek dat makkelijk leest en waarmee je direct aan de slag kunt.”
– Jenny

Bestel nu voordat het boek uitverkocht is:

https://hi.schooloflove.com/oneindigeliefde

10/04/2024

“Every crisis can be an opportunity for a breakthrough, not a break-up.” - My own relationship taught me this invaluable lesson.

I once faced the same struggles many of us do in our intimate relationships. My partner and I were convinced we were headed for divorce. But because we didn’t want to repeat these patterns in our next relationship, we decided to seek help. By doing so, we not only saved our relationship but also our beautiful family of 5.

This journey led me to become a certified relationship therapist. My mission on this planet is to help as many couples as I can to save their relationships. That’s why I created the Love Quest, a program that will take you on a journey of rediscovery, healing, aha moments, healing again, lot’s of sweat, lot’s of love and transformation.

If you don’t feel like repeating that known pattern over and over again, don’t wait another moment; join the Love Quest now. Head to the link in bio to see how this program has helped other couples too.

27/03/2024

“You are safe with me.”

Imagine feeling completely at ease with someone, knowing that you can be your true self without fear or hesitation. That's the essence of secure attachment.

In a securely attached relationship, communication flows effortlessly, like a gentle stream finding its way through the forest. You share your hopes, fears, and dreams, knowing that your words will be met with empathy and support. And when challenges arise – as they often do in life – you face them together, hand in hand.

What does ‘being myself’ with you or 'feeling secure' mean to you in a relationship?

19/03/2024

📖Every time I get the chance to teach, it doesn’t matter where it is—could be in front of thousands at the Ziggo Dome, with my couples in my tiny office, at the beautiful Miracle Roadmap event we just wrapped up, or in my home’s everyday craziness as a parent.

I know one thing:
I couldn’t ever be the TEACHER if I wouldn’t humbly go through the roughness and uncertainty of being the STUDENT first! 🖌️

🤍 Forever grateful to & and the amazing crew of for the trust in the teacher and the student in me 🙏

Thank you to all of you who showed up to this edition of the Miracle Roadmap and were open for this beautiful, unforgettable, healing experience together ❤️

Love was in the air

Thank you for the stunning images:
📸 ❤️

09/03/2024

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