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05/09/2025
TOO MUCH LOVE WILL KILL YOU JUST AS SURE AS NONE AT ALL.
[from my reddit sub ]
I read a lot of BS advice about (the need for) love, compassion and how to 'love' or 'accept yourself' in places.. in spiritual and intellectual echo dungeons like r/ awakened and r/ nonduality and r/ enlightenment etc. It always gets interwoven with the business of waking up, awakening or with the realization and understanding of "This", "That" and "The Other Thing" about it.
A Free For All hailed as some kind of tool of insight. A path to awakening. Come on now! ;;)
DELUSION shines through in many posts and comments I see here all day. Depending on my ...'mood' (which I do not control AT ALL nor need to control at all btw) I will strike it down with great fury or 'anger' only to find myself in the same place 1 second later. I am not bothered. By ANYTHING, EVER. What you see or read in my words is your own personal interpretation of things from some personal POV. It cannot ever be any other way in duality. A place I can hardly remember anymore mind you, let alone what was so great or attractive about it.
I feel stupid most of the time. People have no idea of how I have no idea. When I would present myself to them as a teacher or a guru they believe it! I cannot believe anyone would fall for it. ;;)
Let's talk about love. The four letter word. Not LOVE the only thing there is.
You can get a hug from someone sure...
So what? It's not a crime or anything. The interesting thing however - from the awakened perspective - is the intent behind it. The CONTEXT in which it all happens. The whole hugging thing can persist and take precedent over the process of awakening itself. Suddenly there is a way out for the panicked Ego. The trap of a 'Similar fate' rears its ugly head. And so people will tend to huddle together while seeking solitude was the real path forward up until that point. TOGETHERNESS is the pièce de résistance of the failed search to awaken. Satsang its wine. Folks doing the same thing they were doing before starting all this, while claiming that THIS TIME it will or has resulted in a different outcome. That they are 'growing'. Yes, they are: They are growing AS A PERSON.
The very opposite of what Awakening entails: transcending the PERSON.
They all believe every other week after meditating wearing silly robes and singing songs and prostrating really hard... that something has changed while it is crystal clear that it hasn't (and won't) to anyone with half a brain.
This whole thing is supposed to be about Waking Up from Self. Right?
Waking up is about getting to the truth of your PERSONAL predicament. Warts and all. Because one is only able to step out of one's own BS when one is able to smell it. What people call 'an awakening' is really just the power of discernment coming in. You still have to 'follow it home'. Most people waste all their allotted time in here on rainbows and flowers BS. Sunshine Spirituality is a condition not the experience of Absolute Truth. The problem (of not waking up despite trying really hard) is that you should know when to cast the iron ..you cast it when it is hot. There is no need to look for the truth of it 'in numbers' either. It is already built-in while Maya had rather you spent all your time looking for it OUTSIDE. Or better yet in others! In LEARNING other's how to be HUMAN for instance. It is the opposite of waking up.
Trust me, no freaking mass awakening is coming. EVER.
None is needed even! It is not about that at all.
There is ONE voice that doesn't use words. You listen to that before you listen to anyone else.
A lot what goes on in here has to do with alignment. Alignment of ideas and what is the best definition of . Maya is sneaky like that. She WANTS you to define truth where the light is convenient to define it. Just below the lamp post! Never in the dark. The void. No, in numbers! Literally. We are long passed the era of Homo Sapiens. Homo Sapiens is a dying species. Soon Homo Calculus will reign supreme. You may not see it but I do. ;;)
One of the perks of being an Enlightenment Master (lol) ;;)
Most of the time folks in here are only talking about what they WANT (or what they GOT) out of Awakening. You can read it all the time in here. Mostly when I poke them ;;) huge Red flags go up.
My friends, believe me when I tell you today or believe it tomorrow when you come to your fu***ng senses a bit more: THERE IS NOTHING 'TO GET' in here. Self-delusion is the only delusion there is and to overcome it you start with actually questioning your OWN bu****it 'wants' and cockamamie 'needs' like your very life depends on it.
Because it does!
A 'not fun' exercise. Many happy-go-lucky spiritualists and 'love thy neighbor as thyself' types are very adept at actively avoiding this very practice. They are drawn to me like flies to a turd. And I am happy to oblige them. Since none of them can ever meet me where I am not, I have to always meet those that 'are' where the believe they are.
It simply does not compute any longer. Humanity,, or whatever they insist on calling literal freaking Wonderland. Once you start paying some real fu***ng attention to what is actually said and how it points back to DELUSIONS of the very self you are trying to get on top of, it starts to make super-sense.
How easy it is to avoid making the Self uncomfortable.
It is so god damn easy man. Comfort .. peace of mind (in stead of peace without mind) is the currency of the spiritual dreamer. But DISCOMFORT is the currency of the serious seeker, and he's going for broke.
Whatever you observe is observed WITHIN you. You cannot (and do not need to) look behind WHAT you are when all there IS is never not INSIDE of you. Trying to claim that the eye needs to see itself 'to know itself' is intellectually already absurd. Why? For what? The footage ALWAYS tells a story. When once you find, ..or 'are given' the courage to look at the Truth from the perspective of consciousness you cannot argue your way around this.
The process is just about 'you' still trying to. Desperately.. despite the aforementioned truth. Until you exhaust that seeking energy completely. SURRENDER completely to what IS alone.
BOOM: Satori.
All that stands in the way of realization is FEAR. The FEAR of 'No-Self' is the Universal nightmare of the so called Human Being.
To see or to be a person is to be asleep. Period!
The very moment you accept your Self as an inherent part of the illusion is the very moment the delusion metastasizes. This constitutes the book-ends of the fairy tail of 'you'. No 'somebody' escapes that kind of lie.
The Lie that IS.
Friends, we can play games in here all day - I know I do ;;)
But it is the context (or a lack thereof actually) that 'matters'
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH HOLDING YOUR HEAD UP.
Just make damn sure you severed it first; unless you want to be a Muppet your whole damn life ;;)
Cheers my friends