PlayFull Living - Simon Magnus

04/01/2026

What happens at a conscious kink retreat isn’t about performance, proving anything, or pushing yourself past your limits.

It’s about choice.
Choice to explore power or surrender in a way that feels safe.
Choice to meet parts of yourself you’ve kept hidden.
Choice to soften the armour you’ve learned to wear in order to belong.

When kink is held consciously, with consent and care, it becomes a space for learning, play, pleasure — and real self-meeting.

Not to fix yourself.
Not to become someone else.
But to come home more fully to who you already are.

In June, we gather for The Rite of Surrender at .project in Spain. I'll be co-creating with the powerful .love.

Our Early-Bird spaces have sold out, but there are still regular spaces left.

If you’re curious, hesitant, or feel something stirring in your body — you’re welcome to reach out or book a call.

No pressure.
Just an invitation.
🖤

29/12/2025

16/12/2025

Something's coming...

Over my years of creating work both for self development and in the theatre world, and doing a load of self work alongside this, I have noticed a lot of things about being human. How we do relationships, how we speak to ourselves, how we engage with the world and many other bits.

I've always wanted to create something where I can talk about these observations. If you've been to one of my sessions you'll know that I like to take a holistic view of things. It isn't just about the subject we are working on but about what this brings deeper awareness to in our lives.

Over the past few months I've been in a studio creating some videos. At first I felt scared, 'what if I'm just talking s**t', 'what if it is just ridiculous', but then I thought, well f*ck it.
I want to share this.
Some things will resonate and other things won't, it doesn't really matter. What matters is that I'm in my integrity when sharing and trust the you'll hear the things that you need to and leave the things that you don't.

As you might know I take personal development seriously and at the same time not seriously at all! These videos are a reflection of that. If we take it all too seriously we are losing the whole point of development, but if we don't take it seriously enough we're stuck in the same problem.

So here a few teaser photos of videos that I'll be publishing over the next few months.

Can wait to share these videos with you.

08/12/2025

Been doing a lot of reflecting lately.

On my work, my creativity, and what I actually want to bring into the world.

And honestly… it’s feeling really good to just be more myself.

I’m shifting away from old labels and leaning into the things that make me feel alive: connection, kink, dance, presence, curiosity, queerness.

The whole messy mix.

I’m excited to share more of that here — thanks for being part of this with me. 💛

25/11/2025

Our Conscious Kink retreat for men+ is back and I'm so f*cking excited to be able to offer this again.

8 - 14 June 2026, at .project near Barcelona.

Last year in Costa Rica, this retreat cracked people open in the most beautiful ways — power, surrender, play, shadow, eros, courage, softness.

Many of you asked if we’d run it again.

So… here we are.
A six-night journey into conscious kink, ritual, embodiment, and the parts of you that are ready to be met.

I’ll be co-facilitating once again with the brilliant .love — bringing together everything we’ve learned and deepened this year.

Small group.
Deep work.
Big heart.
Super early bird spots (4) are now open.

DM me or follow the link in bio to secure your place or book a call.

Let the Rite begin. 🔥

29/10/2025

For the last year and half myself and have been co-creating this amazing event. Sadly he is going to be moving back to the States so this will be our last one!

On Friday 7th November in Amsterdam, join us for a final dance and breathwork evening.

I will forever be grateful to Chance for this. I was just beginning to learn to DJ and he came with this idea. This community has given me the chance to try, fail and succeed. I love being able to offer the music I love and seeing people really get down to it!

More info in my bio.

27/10/2025

I f*cking love this work! I've learnt so much about how to do this well and I'm so excited to be able to share it with others!

On Saturday 8th November we still have a few spaces left for Kink For Connection for men.

More info in the bio!

26/10/2025

I'm holding an event on Sunday 9th Novemebr in Amsterdam with to support men to engage with each other in a deeply healling and norishing way. A way in which we rarely get to connect.

This will be a super special day. Any questions please get in touch.

More info in the bio.

Much love

22/10/2025

I've had a few chats with people who feel nervous about coming to one of my workshops, so I thought I'd put this together.

It is usual to feel nervous before stepping into something new, something you find poignant and exciting. For most of us it isn't usual to be spending a day at a workshop learning intimate things.

But this is what I love offering. A safe enough space for you to be able to explore things that you care about, that maybe you haven't found the space to do anywhere else.

I've spent 25 years running workshops, nerves are an important part of the process.

If you are interested in trying for yourself, a one day workshop is a great beginning. On Saturday 8th November I'm running K1nk For Connection for men+ in Amsterdam. Link in bio for more info.

Or, get in touch if you have any questions.

Much love

21/10/2025

I've had a few chats with people who feel nervous about coming to one of my workshops, so I thought I'd put this together.

It is usual to feel nervous before stepping into something new, something you find poinient and exciting. For most of us it isn't usual to be spending a day at a workshop learning intimate things.

But this is what I love offering. A safe enough space for you to be able to explore things that you care about, that maybe you haven't found the space to do anywhere else.

I've spent 25 years running workshops, nerves are an important part of the process.

If you are interested in trying for yourself, a one day workshop is a great beginning. On Saturday 8th November I'm running K1nk For Connection for men+ in Amsterdam. Link in bio for more info.

Or, get in touch if you have any questions.

Much love

18/10/2025

A full day for men to slow down, connect, and experience the power of being held and holding others. Through simple guided practices, we’ll create a space of safety, trust, and care—where the body can rest and presence can deepen. Open to all men, queer-inclusive. No experience needed, just curiosity and a willingness to arrive as you are.

A wonderful collaboration with @thebrotherflow

More info in the bio.

11/10/2025

Dare to be desired. Klnk For Connection is an intimate, electrifying workshop where you’ll awaken your body, explore conscious dominance, and play in the delicious tension of control and surrender. Let yourself be seen, touched, and transformed. Limited spaces — book your place now.