04/09/2025
Love and care are not enough to build a healthy, long-term relationship. A sustainable relationship requires choice, waking up every day and choosing the same person to love, to be with. From both parties. Love never needs begging. Ask yourself:
1. Are you both physically, mentally, emotionally ready to commit to a long-term relationship?
2. Are you aware of their and your wants, needs, and insecurities and how they manifest in the relationship? (Know that suppressing your needs also suppresses your life force. And suppressing your emotions also suppresses your immune/nervous system.)
3. Are you both able to communicate those in a healthy way to understand, empathize and reciprocate?
Remember: it is not your job to save others; they must walk through their own fire. They must rise on their own. As do you! If not, you can choose to walk away. Your only role is to love who you are, to embody the truth of love within yourself. If you aren’t embodying your highest mission and purpose, suffering becomes inevitable. You lose your spark and drive, and slowly the fire fades. Peace, purpose, and freedom are worth more than being partnered with someone who drains them all.
Much love, Gwen
