19/04/2026
Life recently.
I’m now six weeks postpartum since welcoming Iris into the world. The birth didn’t go ‘to plan’ but I still consider it to have been positive and the most empowering experience of my life. I was surrounded by excellent caring staff (all women!) who looked after all three of us exceptionally well. Start to finish, I was in labour for just over 25 hours.
If you consider it took 40 weeks to grow Iris, recovery will take just as long. I am in no rush to ‘bounce back’. Yes, I am in my ‘normal’ jeans again but my body is forever changed: it looks and feels different. I look at my body in awe but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t get hang ups over how it looks, too.
We’ve been lucky to have amazing support from family and friends. If you know someone who’s about to give birth, the best thing you can do is cook a meal for them or get them Just Eat vouchers! Or offer to watch the baby whilst mom and dad nap.
Work has been awful: I get emails and messages on a weekly basis that start with “I know you’re on maternity leave but…” followed by a request for a ‘simple’ bit of work.
I never considered myself maternal, but now I cannot imagine being anything but a mother to this little girl. I’m continuously amazed by the other women who show up regularly to check in on us, support us, share their stories. It truly does take a village.
I’m excited about how our lives are unfolding and evolving. My yoga practice is different - I am truly starting again. Grateful that I can practice online with and to support this part of my life!
I do feel like I’m in a baby bubble so please feel free to message me with bits of news of your own ❤️