12/11/2023
MATTERS OF THE HEART
In a time & society that easily falls into opposition and division, I feel little reminders to take care, embrace your humanness and connect from a place of authenticity, are incredibly important. So here I am, hoping to bring a smile or tear to the face, a warmth to the heart or bring awareness to the simple recognition that we are all human. All the same. We unite in our imperfections, our messiness and vulnerabilities, our joys and hopes, our fear and not-knowing. And with that in mind, let me share a short story. One about courage in tough times. For real strength arises from daring to be vulnerable. Allowing yourself to be seen - by yourself and the world - just as you are. 🌟
A while ago, my friend lost a loved one. A hard time began for her. Yet, a few days later she rolled out her mat and showed up for my Yin yoga class. It touched me, quite deeply. Because let’s face it: showing up for yourself is not always easy. Especially not when your inner world feels like a wind storm, where challenging feelings like grief, sadness, anxiety, insecurity, groundlessness or numbness are swirling around.🌪️ Or when you're going for a slow-paced and meditative practice, like Yin. 'Cause when there is nothing much to do - like in Yin yoga - you are left with only one option: to be with what is. But what if what's here feels really uncomfortable, painful or scary?
Well, to start with: let’s to go easy on ourselves, making sure we are on our own side, feeling held by our own tenderness. And trust me: I know this is a tough cookie!🍪 Especially when your loud and chatty inner critic is not afraid to take over the show. But hey, we can practise holding space for ourselves. Again, and again, and again... And when we do, we are much more able to explore how to lay out the welcome mat for our friend, called sadness. We get to bring our own soothing attention to grief. We learn to sit with our naked vulnerability. And that isn’t always pleasurable or what we are most pulled to do. Nor easy. But the good news is: self-care or healing doesn’t always need to be. 🧡
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