Grow into Love

Grow into Love I help international single women to be A WISE CHOOSER to become, manifest and attract The One in dating for an emotionally intimate love in trust.

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https://tinyurl.com/3s725t8d Welcome to Grow into Love Group! This Group is for single female professionals in midlife who attract the love of their life and create lasting love relationships. The members of this group are successful in their private and professional lives, except for attracting a compatible partner and sustaining romantic relationships. There are many reasons for this:

First and foremost, the success factors work differently in the venues of business and private life. Being competent and competitive in your career life doesn't help you attract your ideal partner and nourish your relationship. Love life requires learning and leading different communication and relationship skills to share life as a couple. Maybe we did not learn these skills from our role models. Also, we sometimes simply don't have time to get relationship skills and experiences. Or we are afraid of rejection and committing because we don't want to lose our powerful career image and ourselves in a relationship. Even worse, we see all the red flags popping up, but we just don't know how to react upon them. Another common reason: We react to the partner candidates who approach us, instead of choosing the RIGHT partner for us. Let us connect, share and support each other by becoming the Masters of our love lives. For more information about me, my story, and my coaching, visit: www.growintolove.nl

I'm looking forward to connecting to, sharing with and supporting you! In love, light and joy,

Sumru ฤฐnal
Single Relationship Coach

โœจ ๐Ÿ“ฝ๏ธ ๐ŸŽž๏ธ ๐Œ๐Ž๐•๐ˆ๐„ ๐Œ๐Ž๐Œ๐„๐๐“: ๐—ข๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ข๐—ป๐—ฒ: ๐—๐—ผ๐—ต๐—ป & ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐—ธ๐—ผ ๐ŸŽž๏ธ ๐ŸŽฅ โœจโœจ ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—๐—ผ๐—ต๐—ป & ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐—ธ๐—ผ ๐—–๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ง๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐—จ๐˜€ ๐—”๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป โœจI just wa...
31/10/2025

โœจ ๐Ÿ“ฝ๏ธ ๐ŸŽž๏ธ ๐Œ๐Ž๐•๐ˆ๐„ ๐Œ๐Ž๐Œ๐„๐๐“: ๐—ข๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ข๐—ป๐—ฒ: ๐—๐—ผ๐—ต๐—ป & ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐—ธ๐—ผ ๐ŸŽž๏ธ ๐ŸŽฅ โœจ
โœจ ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—๐—ผ๐—ต๐—ป & ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐—ธ๐—ผ ๐—–๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ง๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐—จ๐˜€ ๐—”๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป โœจ
I just watched โ€œOne to One: John & Yokoโ€, a documentary that beautifully reveals the paradox of love between two artistic soulmates โ€” John Lennon and Yoko Ono.

Both carried deep wounds of childhood trauma โ€” parental absence, emotional instability, and lifelong themes of abandonment.

And yet, their relationship became a powerful search for connection, creativity, and peace.

They were:
๐ŸŽถ ๐—–๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ who influenced each otherโ€™s work profoundly.
๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ ๐—”๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ, using their love as a form of protest.
๐Ÿ’” ๐—›๐˜‚๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜„๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€, navigating public scrutiny and emotional complexity.

What struck me most is how trauma can both magnetise and destabilise love.

John and Yoko were drawn together through shared pain and shared purpose โ€” yet their emotional patterns also created tension and misunderstanding.

What stands out is how shared trauma can create powerful chemistry โ€” but not always emotional security.

Their story reminds us that emotional resonance is not the same as emotional safety, stability, and availability.

For many successful, high-achieving women, this dynamic feels familiar:
๐Ÿ’ซ You meet someone who โ€œgetsโ€ you on a deep level.
๐Ÿ’ซ The connection feels extraordinary โ€” even fated.
๐Ÿ’ซ Yet, over time, patterns of over-giving, rescuing, or self-doubt appear.

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ต ๐—ถ๐˜€: ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ถ๐—ณ ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜„๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐—ด๐—ผ ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ฒ๐—ฑ.

Thatโ€™s why developing emotional fitness โ€” the ability to discern between chemistry and compatibility โ€” is essential in dating and partnership.

To help women identify early warning signs before emotional investment takes hold, I created a FREE Dating Red Flag Checklist โ€” a practical tool to support emotionally intelligent choices in love.

๐ŸŽ You can download your free checklist here:๐Ÿšฉhttps://lnkd.in/dAwi-bKH๐Ÿšฉ

Because ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—ท๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป โ€” ๐—ถ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฒ๐—พ๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—บ.

Much love,
Sumru

๐ŸŽƒ๐Ÿ‘ป๐—”๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ด๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ โ€”or haunting your choices?๐Ÿ‘ป๐ŸŽƒHalloween reminds us of what lingers in the dark โ€” ...
30/10/2025

๐ŸŽƒ๐Ÿ‘ป๐—”๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ด๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ โ€”or haunting your choices?๐Ÿ‘ป๐ŸŽƒ

Halloween reminds us of what lingers in the dark โ€” the unseen forces, the disguised forms, the hidden patterns that whisper in our ears.

In dating, these โ€œghostsโ€ donโ€™t wear costumes. They show up as the familiar inner voices that quietly shape who you choose and how long you stay.

Here are some of the inner voices haunting your choices:
1๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ โ€œ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜ƒ๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฒโ€ that keeps reminding you of what you should have done better.

2๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒโ€ that keeps you settling for less.

3๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ปโ€ that makes you feel tired of trying.

4๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟโ€ that freezes your heart.

5๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†โ€ that says, โ€œMaybe this is as good as it gets.โ€ It makes you cling to half-connections and almost-love, fearing that what you truly desire might never arrive.

6๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐˜๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒโ€ that rushes your choices.

7๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜โ€ that makes you double-check every word.

8๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฑ, ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ ๐—ณ๐—ฎ๐˜, ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ...โ€ that whispers youโ€™re not enough as you are.

9๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฎ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€โ€ that blinds you to repeating patterns.

๐Ÿ”Ÿ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ณโ€ that murmurs, โ€œReal love isnโ€™t for me.โ€

These inner ghosts make it harder to see the red flags waving right in front of you. They blur your intuition โ€” the very compass thatโ€™s meant to protect you.

Thatโ€™s why I created the ๐Ÿšฉ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—™๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ด๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜ ๐Ÿšฉโ€” to help you stay grounded, clear, and emotionally attuned when those shadows appear.

Itโ€™s not about fear. Itโ€™s about awareness โ€” the light that helps you see love for what it truly is.

๐Ÿ‘ป When you recognise both your inner ghosts and the outer red flags, you stop repeating patterns โ€” and start creating emotionally safe, trust-based, and committed love.

๐ŸŽƒ๐Ÿ‘ป๐™’๐™๐™ž๐™˜๐™ ๐™œ๐™๐™ค๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก ๐™ซ๐™ž๐™จ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™จ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™›๐™ง๐™ค๐™ข ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ข๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ข๐™š?๐Ÿ‘ป๐ŸŽƒ
Is it distrust, disbelief, or the fear of being unloveable?
๐Ÿ’ฌ Comment below if you can relate.

๐ŸŽ Download your free checklist here:
๐Ÿ‘‰ ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿ“‹ https://lnkd.in/dAwi-bKH

๐Ÿง™โ€โ™€๏ธ๐ŸŽƒ๐Ÿ‘ป May you have a fa-boo-lous Halloween โ€” one where you walk with awareness, not fear. ๐Ÿ‘ป๐ŸŽƒ๐Ÿง™โ€โ™€๏ธ

Sumru

๐Ÿ“š ๐— ๐˜† ๐—•๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐— ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ต โ€” ๐—ข๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ ๐Ÿ“š"๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€: ๐—ข๐—ป ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ, ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด" by ๐—๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ณ ๐—•๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป ๐Ÿ’— This month, I...
29/10/2025

๐Ÿ“š ๐— ๐˜† ๐—•๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐— ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ต โ€” ๐—ข๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ ๐Ÿ“š
"๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€: ๐—ข๐—ป ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ, ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด" by ๐—๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ณ ๐—•๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป

๐Ÿ’— This month, I chose this inspiring book for us who want to build an intimate conversation with our own hearts.

Jeff Brown beautifully reminds us what it means to be human in a world that often pulls us toward distraction and detachment.

๐Ÿ”‘ Here are 7 heart-opening lessons that invite us to connect more deeply with ourselves before we call in meaningful and secure love:
1๏ธโƒฃ ๐—™๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€: Itโ€™s the heartโ€™s intelligence speaking. The sacredness of sadness, the necessity of grief, and the courage make us stay open when the world rewards emotional control and quick recoveries.

2๏ธโƒฃ ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐— ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฟ: True love isnโ€™t about comfort or perfection, but about awakening. It asks us to confront the parts of ourselves that fear vulnerability. In this way, relationships become classrooms for the soul.

3๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—”๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ: Friendship is a โ€œmutual recognition of essenceโ€ and a space where two souls can meet without expectation or agenda.

4๏ธโƒฃ ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—•๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜†: The โ€œemotional bodyโ€ is something that must be felt, not fixed. Healing is not an intellectual pursuit but a somatic oneโ€”it happens through tears, trembling, and truth-telling.

5๏ธโƒฃ ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€: Boundaries are acts of self-respect. Saying โ€œnoโ€ can be an expression of the deepest โ€œyesโ€ to our well-being.

6๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—”๐˜‚๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†: Brown encourages us to shed the masks we wear and return to the raw, unpolished truth of who we are. Companionship through that process brings us closer to the kind of peace that canโ€™t be faked.

7๏ธโƒฃ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ท๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฎ ๐˜€๐˜†๐—บ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—น ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด, ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด: The heart is wise, discerning, and resilient. When we live from that place, our choices become more aligned, our relationships more honest, and our lives more meaningful.

๐Ÿ’Ž If these lessons speak to you, perhaps your heart is ready for a deeper kind of loveโ€”the kind that feels emotionally safe, honest, and secure.

Thatโ€™s exactly what we explore in my FREE ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜„ โ€” a 60-minute 1:1 conversation to help you discover where you are on your path to emotionally available love, and what might be standing in the way.

Because ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒโ€ฆ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐˜€ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ด๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ. ๐Ÿ’ซ

๐Ÿ”ฝ Click the link in the comments to book your free session. ๐Ÿ”ฝ

Looking forward to meeting you soon,
Sumru

๐ŸŒฟ ๐—–๐—”๐—ฆ๐—˜ ๐—ฆ๐—ง๐—จ๐——๐—ฌ: ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐ŸŒฟOne of the biggest challenges professional single women face is the atta...
27/10/2025

๐ŸŒฟ ๐—–๐—”๐—ฆ๐—˜ ๐—ฆ๐—ง๐—จ๐——๐—ฌ: ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐ŸŒฟ
One of the biggest challenges professional single women face is the attachment to being in a relationship.

As a non-directive, human-centered coach, I donโ€™t tell my clients how to become โ€œsuccessful singlesโ€ who know exactly who they are and what they want. Instead, I hold space for them to find their own truth โ€” to discover what a fulfilling life and relationship mean for them.

Last week, I received a letter from one of my clients, and I burst into tears reading her words.

โ€œDear Sumru,

With your guidance, I have discovered a new dimension of myselfโ€”one that is more confident, grounded, and self-assured, with a clear understanding of my desires and the ability to find happiness and contentment independently. I no longer rely on others, whether friends or partners, to feel fulfilled.

I have embraced solitude without fear, recognising my own worth and accepting myself unconditionally. I understand that to love another, I must first love myself.

On this journey to find love, I have found a love of my own. Now, I seek companionship not from necessity but to share the love I have cultivated within.

I have freed myself from societyโ€™s judgments, formed my own beliefs, and embraced my uniqueness. In short, I have become a new person. By raising my self-worth, setting boundaries with those who do not respect me, distinguishing integrity from deceit, and living a life that honors human dignity, I feel I am experiencing a personal transformation.

Having spent 42 years paying the price of captivity, I believe I have finally won my fight for emotional freedom. I dedicate this struggle to all who are physically, emotionally, and spiritually imprisoned, hoping my journey will inspire those around me.

Thanks to you, I have opened the door to a more peaceful, fearless, and fulfilling life. I sincerely appreciate your presence and dedication. I hope you continue to be a shining example for those seeking emotional freedom.

With gratitude,โ€

Her story reminded me that ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ โ€” ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€, ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ต, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ, ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€.

I am deeply grateful to witness such transformations. Because ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฎ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜†, ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—ท๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ โ€” ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ.

๐ŸŒ€ If her story resonates, I invite you to ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€. ๐Ÿ’—

Looking forward to meeting you soon,
Sumru

๐ŸŒ ๐—›๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐˜† ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜†! ๐ŸŒFor 20 years, I lived with an autoimmune disease โ€” a silent protector I built against ...
10/10/2025

๐ŸŒ ๐—›๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐˜† ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜†! ๐ŸŒ

For 20 years, I lived with an autoimmune disease โ€” a silent protector I built against emotional enmeshment.

Not knowing how to express or process my emotions, I found my body stepping in to protect me โ€” quietly closing the gate to my feelings, as if shielding me from a storm I wasnโ€™t ready to face.

When emotional triggers pushed me beyond my tolerance window, I couldnโ€™t breathe properly even in my sleep. My eyes and lips would swell, and I relied on breathing sprays and allergy pills just to function.

Alongside the challenges with my physical health, my relationships also took a hit. I found myself drawn to emotionally unavailable and immature partners, faced many short-lived, surface-level connections, and struggled to build lasting, deep partnerships and friendships that truly nourished my heart.

It took me years to reclaim my emotional selfโ€”to build what I now call emotional fitness:
๐Ÿง˜โ€โ™€๏ธ Emotional strength,
๐ŸŒ€ Flexibility,
โš–๏ธ Balance,
๐Ÿ’ช Resilience.

Today, I know that connecting and communicating with your emotions is not only vital for your mental health, but itโ€™s also the foundation for emotionally intimate, trust-based, and lasting relationships.

If you find yourself strong on the outside but emotionally exhausted insideโ€ฆ

It might be time to explore your relationship readiness โ€” not just with others, but also with yourself.

๐Ÿ’ซ I invite you to ๐Ÿ‘‡ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€. ๐Ÿ‘‡ It's a powerful self-reflection process to uncover where you are emotionally and what you need to build secure love.

Looking forward to meeting you soon,
Sumru

๐Ÿ“š My Book of the Month September 2025 selection is "๐—จ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ: Living Loved When You Feel Less Than, Left Out, and Lonel...
29/09/2025

๐Ÿ“š My Book of the Month September 2025 selection is "๐—จ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ: Living Loved When You Feel Less Than, Left Out, and Lonely" by Lysa TerKeurst. ๐Ÿ“š

This month, I chose this beautiful book for women who want to build love from an emotionally safe and trust-based place.

๐Ÿ”‘ 7 Key Lessons from the book that I believe every woman must know before she can call in fulfilling, secure love:
1๏ธโƒฃ Rejection isnโ€™t proof youโ€™re unlovableโ€”itโ€™s redirection to a deeper love.
2๏ธโƒฃ You can feel lonely, even when youโ€™re not alone.
3๏ธโƒฃ God doesnโ€™t love you less because people walked away.
4๏ธโƒฃ You donโ€™t have to earn whatโ€™s already yours.
5๏ธโƒฃ Your pain is valid, but it doesnโ€™t have the final word.
6๏ธโƒฃ Boundaries arenโ€™t rejectionโ€”theyโ€™re protection.
7๏ธโƒฃ Being set apart is different from being left out.

๐Ÿ’Ž Reading ๐‘ˆ๐‘›๐‘–๐‘›๐‘ฃ๐‘–๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘‘ reminded me of something I see so often in my work with single professional women: you can...
๐Ÿ‘‰ be accomplished, surrounded by people, and still feel unseen in love.
๐Ÿ‘‰ achieve extraordinary success at work, but quietly wonder, โ€œWhy not me?โ€ when it comes to relationships.
๐Ÿ‘‰ give, perform, and adaptโ€”only to still feel unchosen.

๐Ÿ’Ž ๐‘ˆ๐‘›๐‘–๐‘›๐‘ฃ๐‘–๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘‘ puts language to the ache of rejection. But healing from rejection is only part of the journey. The other part is this:
โœจ learning how to be ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด, ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด, ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ.

Thatโ€™s what I created the Relationship Readiness Review (RRR) for.

๐Ÿ’Ž In the RRR call, weโ€™ll uncover:
โœ” How past rejection may still be shaping your dating patterns.
โœ” What hidden dynamics might be keeping you from feeling truly seen.
โœ” The exact shifts to move from โ€œuninvitedโ€ to unshakable in love.

๐ŸŒ€ If this resonates, I invite you to book your free Relationship Readiness Review in the comments. Letโ€™s make sure the next chapter of your love story begins with you feeling chosen, seen, and secure. ๐Ÿ’—

Looking forward to meeting you soon,
Sumru

โœจ ๐Ÿ“ฝ๏ธ ๐ŸŽž๏ธ ๐Œ๐Ž๐•๐ˆ๐„ ๐Œ๐Ž๐Œ๐„๐๐“: ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐Ž๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐–๐š๐ฒ ๐€๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐  ๐ŸŽž๏ธ ๐ŸŽฅ โœจโœจ ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€โ€ฆ โœจ๐ผ๐‘› ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘†๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘–๐‘ โ„Ž ๐‘“๐‘–๐‘™๐‘š ๐‘‡โ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘‚๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘Ÿ ๐‘Š๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ ๐ด...
31/08/2025

โœจ ๐Ÿ“ฝ๏ธ ๐ŸŽž๏ธ ๐Œ๐Ž๐•๐ˆ๐„ ๐Œ๐Ž๐Œ๐„๐๐“: ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐Ž๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐–๐š๐ฒ ๐€๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ ๐ŸŽž๏ธ ๐ŸŽฅ โœจ
โœจ ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€โ€ฆ โœจ
๐ผ๐‘› ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘†๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘–๐‘ โ„Ž ๐‘“๐‘–๐‘™๐‘š ๐‘‡โ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘‚๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘Ÿ ๐‘Š๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ ๐ด๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘›๐‘‘, ๐ด๐‘™๐‘’ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐ด๐‘™๐‘’๐‘ฅ ๐‘‘๐‘’๐‘๐‘–๐‘‘๐‘’ ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘˜ ๐‘ข๐‘ ๐‘‘๐‘–๐‘“๐‘“๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘›๐‘ก๐‘™๐‘ฆ: ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘‘ ๐‘œ๐‘“ โ„Ž๐‘–๐‘‘๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘–๐‘› ๐‘ โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘š๐‘’ ๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘”๐‘”๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘ก ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘–๐‘›, ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘ฆ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘ค ๐‘Ž ๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘ก๐‘ฆ ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘๐‘’๐‘™๐‘’๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘’ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘–๐‘Ÿ ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘œ๐‘›. ๐ŸŽ‰

Their friends think theyโ€™re crazy. But Aleโ€™s words stick with me:
โ€œ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐˜„๐—ผ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ, ๐˜„๐—ต๐˜† ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜€๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป? ๐—”๐—ณ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น, ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น๐—น ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€.โ€

๐Ÿ’ก Isnโ€™t that powerful?
For many professional women I meet, breakups feel like failure. They push through, pick up the pieces, and try againโ€”often without pausing to reflect on whatโ€™s truly needed to create the love they desire.

What if, like Ale and Alex, you could see your past relationships as milestones worth honouring?

What if your next chapter wasnโ€™t about โ€œrecoveringโ€ but about stepping into your best, most relationship-ready self?

If youโ€™re a high-achieving woman whoโ€™s tired of attracting emotionally unavailable partnersโ€”and you want to prepare yourself for the secure love you deserveโ€”Iโ€™d love to offer you a free Relationship Readiness Review.

In this session, weโ€™ll explore:
๐Ÿ’ซ Whatโ€™s been keeping you stuck in unfulfilling patterns?
๐Ÿ’ซ The strengths you already bring to love
๐Ÿ’ซ How to bridge the gap between where you are now and the relationship you want

๐Ÿ’Œ Message me or book your free session in the comments.๐Ÿ‘‡

Because sometimes, the bravest thing we can doโ€”just like Ale and Alexโ€”is to reimagine what endings (and new beginnings) can look like. ๐ŸŒน

Looking forward to meeting you,

Sumru

๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—™๐—ถ๐˜๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ.Many high-achieving women know how to attract ...
20/08/2025

๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—™๐—ถ๐˜๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ.

Many high-achieving women know how to attract attentionโ€ฆ

But turning that spark into a secure, lasting relationship?
Thatโ€™s where Emotional Fitness comes in.

๐ŸŒ‰ Just like in life, success in love isnโ€™t about one quality!
It's about the whole emotional bridge:
โœจ Strength โ†’ trusting yourself instead of chasing validation
โœจ Flexibility โ†’ adapting to your partnerโ€™s rhythms without losing your values
โœจ Balance โ†’ feeling deeply while choosing wisely
โœจ Resilience โ†’ bouncing back from fears or setbacks without shutting down

๐Ÿ‘‰ Together, these four pillars form Emotional Fitness โ€” the bridge that carries you from:
๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ‘จ Attraction โ†’ ๐Ÿ’ž Connection โ†’ ๐Ÿ”‘ Commitment โ†’ โค๏ธ Security

๐Ÿ’” Without it, the spark fizzles, patterns repeat, and love feels unstable.
๐Ÿ’– With it, love becomes not just possible, but predictable and sustainable.

๐Ÿ’ญ What do you think โ€” ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—™๐—ถ๐˜๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„?

๐Ÿ’Ž My 5-Day Masterclass will take it one step furtherโ€”helping you embody these truths in real-life dating and relationships.

๐ŸŒ€ Come walk your soulmate-seeking journey with me โ€” from attraction to connection with emotional fitness.
๐Ÿ”— Claim your seat here: ๐Ÿ‘‰ https://shorturl.at/Mlti7 ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Looking forward to seeing you inside,
Sumru

๐Ÿ“š My Book of the Month August 2025 selection is "๐——๐—ผ๐—ป'๐˜ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—”๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฌ" by Joy Chen. ๐Ÿ“šThis month, I chose this b...
18/08/2025

๐Ÿ“š My Book of the Month August 2025 selection is "๐——๐—ผ๐—ป'๐˜ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—”๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฌ" by Joy Chen. ๐Ÿ“š

This month, I chose this beautiful book as a practical guide for women who want to live fully without societal pressure and build love from an emotionally safe and stable place.

When I read this book, I was struck by how powerfully its lessons echo what I teach in my 5-Day Masterclass Unavailable to Unshakeable.

๐Ÿ”‘ 5 Key Lessons from the book that I believe every young woman must know before she can call in fulfilling, secure love:
1๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚.
Use this decade to invest in your career, explore your passions, and strengthen your independence, both financially and emotionally.

๐Ÿ’ก In my masterclass, I show why your inner safety and emotional fitness matter more than rushing into a relationship.

2๏ธโƒฃ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ, ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ.
Rushing into marriage to meet societal expectations often leads to regret. Wait until you know yourself well enough to choose a partner who truly aligns with your values.

๐Ÿ’ก We unpack the cultural and family pressures that make women settleโ€”and how to choose love on your own terms.

3๏ธโƒฃ ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฟ.
Being able to support yourself gives you freedom in your relationships; youโ€™ll never feel trapped because of money.

๐Ÿ’ก Just as financial strength provides freedom, emotional strength gives you the power to walk away from the unavailable and wait for the unshakeable.

4๏ธโƒฃ ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜.
The more you experience life, through travel, friendships, and challenges, the better youโ€™ll know what you truly want in a partner and in your future.

๐Ÿ’ก We practise slowing down in dating so you can truly recognise emotional availability instead of repeating old patterns.

5๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ-๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ.
When you value yourself, you naturally avoid relationships that are unhealthy, controlling, or misaligned.

๐Ÿ’ก Inside the masterclass, we work on raising your love identity so that you no longer accept breadcrumbs but call in the deep, secure love you deserve.

๐Ÿ’Ž If Joy Chenโ€™s wisdom resonates with you, my 5-Day Masterclass will take it one step furtherโ€”helping you embody these truths in real-life dating and relationships.

๐ŸŒ€ Come walk your soulmate-seeking journey with me โ€” from rushing into a relationship to waiting for the unshakeable with emotional fitness.

๐Ÿ”— Claim your seat here: ๐Ÿ‘‰ https://shorturl.at/Mlti7 ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Looking forward to seeing you inside,
Sumru

๐Ÿงญ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด.๐ŸงญThe emotional core is a heart compass, and your emotions are...
17/08/2025

๐Ÿงญ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด.๐Ÿงญ

The emotional core is a heart compass, and your emotions are the Wi-Fi signals that let you navigate toward a soulmate connection.

Without this inner navigation, you risk drifting into relationships that look good but donโ€™t feel good.

With it, you are guided toward love that is secure, nourishing, and unshakeable.

Your heart compass has two main functions:
๐Ÿงญ ๐ƒ๐ข๐ซ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง โ†’ It guides you toward relationships that feel emotionally reciprocal, not draining.

๐Ÿงญ ๐ƒ๐ข๐ฌ๐œ๐ž๐ซ๐ง๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ โ†’ It helps you sense whether a manโ€™s energy is truly available and aligned with your values, or if youโ€™re slipping into old patterns (e.g., chasing emotionally unavailable men).

Without tuning into your emotional core, the risk is seeking with the mind alone โ€” checking boxes, relying on chemistry, or following collective expectations โ€” which often leads to repeating painful cycles.

๐Ÿ“ก And the emotions are the โ€œWi-Fi Systemโ€ of the heart compass.
โœจ ๐’๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐  ๐’๐ข๐ ๐ง๐š๐ฅ โ†’ Calm joy, curiosity, safety, and warmth
โ†’ indicates emotional alignment and potential for secure love.

โœจ ๐–๐ž๐š๐ค ๐’๐ข๐ ๐ง๐š๐ฅ โ†’ Confusion, self-doubt, and over-analyzing
โ†’ shows the connection may not support your true self.

โœจ ๐ƒ๐ข๐ฌ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ง๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง โ†’ Anxiety, chasing, and feeling small
โ†’ signals an unavailable or unsafe dynamic.

Just like Wi-Fi, your emotional signals tell you whether youโ€™re โ€œconnectedโ€ to yourself and to the other person.

๐Ÿ’ฌ Iโ€™d love to hear: ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ญ๐ฒ๐ฉ๐ž๐ฌ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ ๐ง๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ก๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐š๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ซ๐š๐๐ข๐š๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ?

Letโ€™s reset your heart compass together!

Join my free 5-day masterclass ๐…๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐”๐๐€๐•๐€๐ˆ๐‹๐€๐๐‹๐„ ๐ญ๐จ ๐”๐๐’๐‡๐€๐Š๐„๐€๐๐‹๐„ to reclaim a safe and solid emotional core to be a conscious chooser.

๐Ÿ“… ๐ƒ๐š๐ญ๐ž: August 25-29, 2025
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๐Ÿ’ฅFor ๐ก๐ข๐ ๐ก-๐š๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ž๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐œ๐ญ ๐ž๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ง๐š๐ฏ๐š๐ข๐ฅ๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง
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Looking forward to seeing you inside,

Sumru

๐Ÿ’– ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐…๐ข๐ญ๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌยฉ: ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐‡๐ข๐๐๐ž๐ง ๐€๐๐ฏ๐š๐ง๐ญ๐š๐ ๐ž ๐ข๐ง ๐‹๐ž๐š๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐ข๐ง ๐‹๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐Ÿ’–Many single professional women excel in their careers b...
16/08/2025

๐Ÿ’– ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐…๐ข๐ญ๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌยฉ: ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐‡๐ข๐๐๐ž๐ง ๐€๐๐ฏ๐š๐ง๐ญ๐š๐ ๐ž ๐ข๐ง ๐‹๐ž๐š๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐ข๐ง ๐‹๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐Ÿ’–

Many single professional women excel in their careers but feel shaky when it comes to dating.

The truth? Itโ€™s not about competence or confidence. Itโ€™s about your emotional core.

Your emotional core is the foundation that holds:
โœจ Strength โ€” standing in your worth and boundaries
โœจ Flexibility โ€” adapting without self-abandonment
โœจ Balance โ€” staying steady through highs and lows
โœจ Resilience โ€” keeping your heart open, even after setbacks

When your emotional core is weak, dating can feel like:
โŒ Over-giving to earn love
โŒ Riding emotional roller-coasters
โŒ Fearing rejection or โ€œwasting timeโ€

But when your emotional core is fit, creating a new relationship becomes:
โœ… Clear, grounded, and empowering
โœ… A path to deeper connection, not performance
โœ… A bridge to secure, lasting love

๐Ÿ‘‰ Just like building muscle at the gym, building your emotional core takes practice.

๐ŸŽ The reward? A relationship where you are cherished for who you truly are.

๐Ÿ’ฌ Iโ€™d love to hear: what part of your emotional core feels strongest right now โ€” and what part needs the most strengthening?

Letโ€™s build it โ€” together.

Join my free 5-day masterclass ๐…๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐”๐๐€๐•๐€๐ˆ๐‹๐€๐๐‹๐„ ๐ญ๐จ ๐”๐๐’๐‡๐€๐Š๐„๐€๐๐‹๐„ to reclaim a safe and solid emotional core to be a conscious chooser.

๐Ÿ“… ๐ƒ๐š๐ญ๐ž: August 25-29, 2025
๐Ÿ•– ๐“๐ข๐ฆ๐ž: 7โ€“8 pm Amsterdam | 12โ€“13 pm New York | 12โ€“13 pm London |
๐Ÿ’ป ๐‹๐จ๐œ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง: Online | Interactive | Live | Zoom |
๐Ÿ’ฅFor ๐ก๐ข๐ ๐ก-๐š๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ž๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐œ๐ญ ๐ž๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ง๐š๐ฏ๐š๐ข๐ฅ๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง
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Looking forward to seeing you inside,
Sumru

๐Ÿ’ก ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—š๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜€ ๐˜ƒ๐˜€. ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐Ÿ’กIn my coaching practice, Iโ€™ve seen something many high-achieving women ...
12/08/2025

๐Ÿ’ก ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—š๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜€ ๐˜ƒ๐˜€. ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐Ÿ’ก
In my coaching practice, Iโ€™ve seen something many high-achieving women experience:

They know what they wantโ€ฆ but their actions are still driven by fear, urgency, or old attraction patterns.

One client came to me with a clear vision: she wanted to build a family.

Yet her dating choices were pulling her toward partners who were emotionally unavailable and disconnected from their truths.

She felt like she was running out of time and dating with a โ€œ๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘ค ๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘›๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘Ÿโ€ mindset.

Despite my guidance to pause and create ๐‘Ž ๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘™๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘ โ„Ž๐‘–๐‘ ๐‘๐‘™๐‘Ž๐‘› ๐‘๐‘’๐‘“๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘‘๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” again, she chose to keep going.

And thenโ€ฆ life took an unexpected turn.

Her journey didnโ€™t unfold the way either of us had imagined.

She was pregnant and the father was a โ€œ๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘‘ ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ฆโ€ who didnโ€™t know and she didnโ€™t want him to know. She decided to raise her baby as a single mother.

And yet, I witnessed something profound:
๐ŸŒฑ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—ด๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ธ ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜โ€”๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ด๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ๐˜€ ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ.

While my client didnโ€™t accomplish the Vision she stated she wanted, I have to believe this is what was needed for her to fulfill her higher destiny. I imagine that becoming a mother would soften her and help her maturate into a woman who is ready to share her life with a โ€œcompatibleโ€ man and let go of needing to be in control and addicted to the kind of attraction that โ€œbad boysโ€ provide.

As a coach, I travel and discover my clientsโ€™ path together with them, not judge and control it as their โ€œdestiny.โ€

I walk alongside them, trusting their inner power and wisdom, even when their choices differ from my guidance.

This is the essence of my humanistic approach:
๐Ÿ’ซ ๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง-๐œ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐ž๐ โ€“ You are the expert on your life.
๐Ÿ’ซ ๐€๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง-๐Ÿ๐จ๐œ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ โ€“ We align your steps with your true vision.
๐Ÿ’ซ ๐๐จ๐ง-๐๐ข๐ซ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž โ€“ I donโ€™t tell you what to do; I help you hear your own truth.
๐Ÿ’ซ ๐ˆ๐ง๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ซ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž โ€“ We work with your mind, heart, and body.
๐Ÿ’ซ ๐†๐ซ๐จ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ก-๐จ๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ž๐ โ€“ We focus on who youโ€™re becoming, not just what youโ€™re achieving.

If youโ€™re wondering whether youโ€™re truly ready for the kind of relationship you want, I offer a Relationship Readiness Reviewโ€”a one-on-one session to explore where you are, whatโ€™s getting in the way, and how to date in alignment with your highest vision.

๐Ÿ‘‡ Schedule your review in the comments.๐Ÿ‘‡
Because ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ซ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐  ๐›๐ž๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฆ๐ž๐ž๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง.

Committed to your success in love and life,

Sumru

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Welcome to Grow into Love Social Learning Group! This Group is for the international singles and couples who seek to have safe, successful and sustainable romantic relationships and grow consciously to be their best versions in love. The members of this group are successful in their private and professional lives, except for finding the love of their life and sustaining romantic relationships. There are many reasons for this: First and foremost, the success factors work differently in the venues of business and private life. Being competent and competitive in your career life doesn't help you attract your quality partner and nourish your relationship. Love life requires learning and leading different communication and relationship skills in dating as a single and sharing the life as a couple. Maybe we did not learn this skills from our role models. Also, we sometimes simply don't have time to get relationship and communication skills and experiences. Or we are afraid of rejection and committing because we don't want to loose our powerful career image and ourselves in a relationship. Even worse we see all the red flags popping up, but we just don't know how to react upon them. Another common reason: We react to the partner candidates who approach us, instead of choosing the RIGHT partner for us. Let us connect, share and support each other by becoming the Masters of our love lives. For more information about me, my story, and my coaching, visit: www.growintolove.nl I'm looking forward to connecting to, sharing with and supporting you! In love, light and joy, S.Sumru Inal Relationship Coach, Counsellor & Trainer