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Grow into Love

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Grow into Love

I help international single women to be A WISE CHOOSER to become, manifest and attract The One in dating for an emotionally intimate love in trust.

Join Conscious Connections Community to get the support here:
https://tinyurl.com/3s725t8d Welcome to Grow into Love Group! This Group is for single female professionals in midlife who attract the love of their life and create lasting love relationships. The members of this group are successful in their private and professional lives, except for attracting a compatible partner and sustaining roman

tic relationships. There are many reasons for this:

First and foremost, the success factors work differently in the venues of business and private life. Being competent and competitive in your career life doesn't help you attract your ideal partner and nourish your relationship. Love life requires learning and leading different communication and relationship skills to share life as a couple. Maybe we did not learn these skills from our role models. Also, we sometimes simply don't have time to get relationship skills and experiences. Or we are afraid of rejection and committing because we don't want to lose our powerful career image and ourselves in a relationship. Even worse, we see all the red flags popping up, but we just don't know how to react upon them. Another common reason: We react to the partner candidates who approach us, instead of choosing the RIGHT partner for us. Let us connect, share and support each other by becoming the Masters of our love lives. For more information about me, my story, and my coaching, visit: www.growintolove.nl

I'm looking forward to connecting to, sharing with and supporting you! In love, light and joy,

Sumru İnal
Single Relationship Coach

21/07/2025

Here’s the truth: 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗲𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝘂𝗻𝗮𝘃𝗮𝗶𝗹𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗽𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗻𝘀 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗻𝗲𝗿𝘀. 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻 𝘂𝘀.

When I began coaching high-achieving women, I noticed a pattern:

They were avoiding their own emotions — especially the softer, warmer, and messier ones, which are exactly what men need to sense, feel, and connect.

And I understood them deeply.

Because I’d been there too.

I thought being strong meant being unaffected.

Turns out, that version of ‘strength’ was just me disconnecting from my heart.

Emotional avoidance is sneaky — it feels like control, but it’s actually a block.

The good news? Emotional strength is learnable.

It’s about presence, not perfection.

And it changes everything in how you date, love, and connect.

Let’s build it — together.

Join my free 5-day masterclass 𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐔𝐍𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐈𝐋𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄 𝐭𝐨 𝐔𝐍𝐒𝐇𝐀𝐊𝐄𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄 to reclaim a safe and solid emotional core to be a conscious chooser.

📅 𝐃𝐚𝐭𝐞: August 25-29, 2025
🕖 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞: 7–8 pm Amsterdam | 12–13 pm New York | 12–13 pm London |
💻 𝐋𝐨𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: Online | Interactive | Live | Zoom |
💥For 𝐡𝐢𝐠𝐡-𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐮𝐧𝐚𝐯𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐦𝐞𝐧
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💌 Tag a friend who needs this.

Looking forward to seeing you inside,

Sumru

21/07/2025

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗮𝗯𝘀𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗲𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗴𝘁𝗵 𝗶𝗻 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗿𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗹𝘆 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘄𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 — 𝗶𝘁’𝘀 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗻 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗲 𝗮𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗱.

For years, I believed I was simply being wise, composed, and self-protective in relationships.

But in truth, I was emotionally unavailable to myself.

Gracefully retreating from anything that felt too vulnerable.

It took a few painful lessons for me to see that emotional avoidance wears many masks — perfectionism, hyper-independence, and even overconfidence.

True emotional strength is subtle and sovereign.

It allows us to stay present through discomfort, and open through uncertainty.

This is the shift I now help others make — from guarded to grounded.

Join my free 5-day masterclass 𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐔𝐍𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐈𝐋𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄 𝐭𝐨 𝐔𝐍𝐒𝐇𝐀𝐊𝐄𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄 to reclaim a safe and solid emotional core to be a conscious chooser.
Event details:
📅 𝐃𝐚𝐭𝐞: August 25-29, 2025
🕖 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞: 7–8 pm Amsterdam | 12–13 pm New York | 12–13 pm London |
💻 𝐋𝐨𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: Online | Interactive | Live | Zoom |
💥For 𝐡𝐢𝐠𝐡-𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐮𝐧𝐚𝐯𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐦𝐞𝐧
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💌 Tag a friend who needs this.

Looking forward to seeing you inside,
Sumru

21/07/2025

"Oh, I used to think I was emotionally strong... until dating proved me wrong. 😅"

Turns out, what I called 'strength' was just emotional avoidance in a sparkly disguise.

I’d ghost my own feelings before anyone else could.

Sound familiar?

It wasn’t until I hit the same wall again (and again) that I realized:
👉 Emotional strength isn’t about being unbothered.
It’s about being available — to yourself first.

Now I teach women how to stop dodging their hearts and start leading with them.

Wanna build real emotional muscles? 💪💛

🌀 Join my free 5-day masterclass💥𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐔𝐍𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐈𝐋𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄 𝐭𝐨 𝐔𝐍𝐒𝐇𝐀𝐊𝐄𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄💥 to reclaim a safe and solid emotional core to be a conscious chooser.
Event details:
📅 𝐃𝐚𝐭𝐞: August 25–29, 2025
💻 𝐋𝐨𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: Zoom
🕖 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞: 7–8 pm CEST Amsterdam
🎯 For 𝐡𝐢𝐠𝐡-𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐮𝐧𝐚𝐯𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐦𝐞𝐧
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Looking forward to seeing you inside,
Sumru

20/07/2025

I joined the Female Ventures event on June 4, 2025, in The Hague in collaboration with Women in Technology (WIT) Netherlands, WomensBizz, Dirkjan Hupkes (host of Women Disrupting Tech), voco® The Hague, and the Ireland Netherlands Business Association (INBA) and Embassy of Ireland in the Netherlands.

It was an inspiring gathering to connect with and build new relationships with successful, visionary, and genius women from all over the world.

I thank you, Jaby Jayshree Vedala (Jay), the Female Ventures Team Delft/The Hague — Alexandra Sima, Kristin Unger, Heather Hurd, Velina Veleva, Zanni — for organizing this evening. 🙏 I appreciate, ladies, your efforts to make us network and motivate each other with new ideas and perspectives. 👏👏👏

I'm delighted to meet Yasmina Khababi in this event, who is a social entrepreneur under 30. I was amazed by her success at a young age as a leader recognized as one of the 30 Most Inclusive Leaders of 2024 by MT/Sprout, Young Talent 2025 by the Dutch Financial Times (FD), and featured in the Food100 list as one of the most influential food change-makers. I celebrate her success on her mission to combine purpose and profit for inclusion, sustainability, and systemic change.

It was great to get together with Nataliya Volosovych, whom I admire for her professionalism in photography; Vassia Sarantopoulou, who is a successful psychologist and founder of Anti Loneliness; and Alexandra Sima, who is an enthusiastic event manager with a global perspective for international projects.

I look forward to joining the next events in the summer and fall. 🤩

Sending you, all, love, light, and many blessings,

Sumru

18/07/2025

✨ 𝐂𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐂𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐒𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐲: From "Heartbroken and Guarded" to "Open and Grounded in Love" ✨ Meet Layla!

A 39-year-old successful architect from a collective culture background. Fiercely independent, deeply loving, and a natural giver. When she came to work with me, she was recovering from yet another relationship that ended with the dreaded line: “𝑌𝑜𝑢’𝑟𝑒 𝑎𝑚𝑎𝑧𝑖𝑛𝑔… 𝑏𝑢𝑡 𝐼’𝑚 𝑗𝑢𝑠𝑡 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑑𝑦 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑠𝑒𝑟𝑖𝑜𝑢𝑠.”

Layla was emotionally exhausted. On the outside, she looked put-together. Inside, she was battling shame, confusion, and self-blame. She told me, “𝐼’𝑚 𝑠𝑐𝑎𝑟𝑒𝑑 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑚𝑎𝑦𝑏𝑒 𝐼 𝑤𝑎𝑛𝑡 𝑡𝑜𝑜 𝑚𝑢𝑐ℎ—𝑜𝑟 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝐼’𝑙𝑙 𝑎𝑙𝑤𝑎𝑦𝑠 𝑓𝑎𝑙𝑙 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑚𝑒𝑛 𝑤ℎ𝑜 𝑐𝑎𝑛’𝑡 𝑚𝑒𝑒𝑡 𝑚𝑒.”

But here’s the truth: Layla didn’t want too much. She had learned to armor up after every heartbreak—telling herself she was “fine” when she wasn’t, shutting down her needs to seem low-maintenance, or pretending to be cool with breadcrumbing.

Her emotional resilience had been replaced by emotional suppression.

In our work together, Layla didn’t just process the pain—she reclaimed her emotional core. She practiced the tools I teach in Unavailable to Unshakeable— learning how to:
💫 Sit with the wave of grief without numbing it.
💫 Set boundaries without guilt or second-guessing.
💫 Ask for clarity early in dating without fear of scaring someone off.
💫 Reconnect with the part of her that still believed in love even after the fall.

During her "resilience reset" practice, Layla had an emotional breakthrough: “𝐼 𝑡ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑔ℎ𝑡 𝑏𝑒𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑠𝑡𝑟𝑜𝑛𝑔 𝑚𝑒𝑎𝑛𝑡 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜𝑜 𝑚𝑢𝑐ℎ. 𝐵𝑢𝑡 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑙 𝑠𝑡𝑟𝑒𝑛𝑔𝑡ℎ 𝑖𝑠 𝑙𝑒𝑡𝑡𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑚𝑦 ℎ𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑡 𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑦 𝑠𝑜𝑓𝑡 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑡 𝑙𝑒𝑡𝑡𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑝𝑒𝑜𝑝𝑙𝑒 𝑤𝑎𝑙𝑘 𝑜𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑖𝑡.”
That shift changed everything.

💞 The Result: Love That Feels Like Home
Six months later, Layla met Tomas—a warm, emotionally present man who respected her pace, adored her passion, and admired her depth. The old part of her was tempted to self-sabotage, to doubt, to test his love—but she had learned how to ground herself.

When old fears flared up, she didn’t harden or hide. She reached into her resilience toolkit and led with truth. Now, Layla says: “𝐼 𝑓𝑖𝑛𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑦 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙 𝑠𝑎𝑓𝑒 𝑏𝑒𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑚𝑦𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓. 𝐼 𝑑𝑜𝑛’𝑡 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑐ℎ𝑎𝑠𝑒, 𝑠ℎ𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑘, 𝑜𝑟 𝑝𝑟𝑜𝑣𝑒. 𝐼 𝑐𝑎𝑛 𝑏𝑒 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒𝑑 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑤ℎ𝑜𝑙𝑒.”

💎The Takeaway: Resilience in love isn't about never falling—it's about learning how to rise softer, wiser, and stronger.

That’s what we do on Day 4 of Unavailable to Unshakeable.
🌀 Join my free 5-day masterclass 💥From Unavailable to Unshakeable💥 to reclaim a safe and solid emotional core to be a conscious chooser:
📅 Revised 𝐃𝐚𝐭𝐞: August 25 and 29, 2025
🎯 For high-achieving women who attract emotionally unavailable men 🔗 Claim your seat here: 👉 https://shorturl.at/Mlti7 👈

Looking forward to seeing you inside,
Sumru

17/07/2025

📚 My Book of the Month July 2025 selection is "𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬" by Thibaut Meurisse.

This month, I chose this beautiful book for every single professional woman who’s done with attracting emotionally unavailable partners—and wants to build love from a grounded, emotionally safe place.

🔑 7 Key Lessons from the book that I believe every woman must embody before she can call in fulfilling, secure love:

🌷1. You are not your emotions.
Your emotions are just visitors. They don’t define you. The moment you begin creating space between yourself and the emotion, you can breathe again.

🌷2. Every emotion is a messenger.
Instead of trying to shut down fear, sadness, or frustration, ask yourself, "𝑊ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑖𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑡𝑟𝑦𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 𝑡𝑒𝑎𝑐ℎ 𝑚𝑒?" When you stop fighting and start learning your emotions, you change how you move through pain.

🌷3. The stories you tell yourself create your emotional state.
The hardest truth to accept is that you are the one feeding the loop of negativity in your own mind. If you can tell yourself a painful story, you can also choose a more empowering one.

🌷4. Action changes emotion.
You can’t always think your way out of a dark mood. But you can move. Breathe. Shift. Even the tiniest action, like a walk, a deep breath, or a pause can start a new emotional current.

🌷5. Your inner critic is not the authority.
The voice in your head is something you can challenge. You don’t need to obey it. You can talk back. I can rewrite it.

🌷6. Progress doesn’t always look like peace.
Mastering your emotions isn’t about feeling good all the time. It’s about learning to navigate the storm without letting it destroy your sails.

🌷7. Emotional mastery is self-love in motion.
It isn’t about control; it is about care. It isn’t about perfection; it is about presence. To master your emotions, you start showing up as the version of yourself that’s always been waiting underneath the chaos.

💥 This is exactly what we’ll be exploring inside my virtual FREE 5-day masterclass between August 25 and 29: 𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐔𝐧𝐚𝐯𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐔𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞: Reclaim Your Emotional Core to Call in The One You Desire.

💎𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐮𝐩 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞.

🌀 Come walk the bridge with me — from emotional chasing to emotional unshakeable.
🔗 Claim your seat here: 👉 https://shorturl.at/Mlti7 👈

Looking forward to seeing you inside,

Sumru

15/07/2025

A couple of years ago I was running a survey. When I asked a high-achieving single woman why she chose her current partner — even though she knew he wasn’t her ideal — she said: “𝐼 𝑘𝑛𝑒𝑤 ℎ𝑒 𝑤𝑎𝑠𝑛’𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑜𝑛𝑒, 𝑏𝑢𝑡 𝐼 𝑐𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑𝑛’𝑡 𝑟𝑖𝑠𝑘 𝑚𝑦 𝑐𝑎𝑟𝑒𝑒𝑟 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑚𝑦 𝑑𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑚 𝑟𝑒𝑙𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑠ℎ𝑖𝑝. 𝐻𝑒 𝑓𝑒𝑙𝑡 𝑠𝑎𝑓𝑒.”

This is what I call 𝐚 “𝐁𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐍𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠” 𝐑𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 — a choice made not from desire, but from perceived necessity.

The fear of destabilizing her career led her to suppress her deeper needs in love. She settled not because she lacked options, but because she lacked 𝑒𝑚𝑜𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑎𝑙 𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑚𝑖𝑠𝑠𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑡𝑜 𝑟𝑖𝑠𝑘 𝑏𝑒𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑓𝑢𝑙𝑙𝑦 𝑚𝑒𝑡.

That’s not weakness — it’s an indicator that her emotional fitness muscles (like inner safety, self-trust, and boundaries) weren’t strong enough yet to hold the complexity of both love and ambition.

She prioritized one life domain (career) at the expense of another (romantic fulfillment), rather than allowing both to coexist in integrity.

𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐛𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐲 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐦 𝐨𝐟 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐬 — 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥, 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥, 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 — 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐚 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝 𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐤 𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫.

Without emotional fitness, we default to 𝑠𝑢𝑟𝑣𝑖𝑣𝑎𝑙-𝑚𝑜𝑑𝑒 𝑐ℎ𝑜𝑖𝑐𝑒𝑠:
❌ Safe but 𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑔𝑛𝑎𝑛𝑡,
❌ Comfortable but 𝑑𝑖𝑠𝑐𝑜𝑛𝑛𝑒𝑐𝑡𝑒𝑑,
❌ Familiar but 𝑢𝑛𝑓𝑢𝑙𝑓𝑖𝑙𝑙𝑖𝑛𝑔.

With emotional fitness, we become conscious choosers — able to hold both dreams and standards with grace, to 𝐬𝐚𝐲 𝐧𝐨 𝐭𝐨 “𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡” 𝐢𝐧 𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 “𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐥𝐲 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭.”

If you’ve ever stayed in something that looked good on paper but left you empty inside, know this:
💫 You’re not broken.
💫 You’re just ready to build the inner strength to choose better.
💫 Your dream relationship doesn’t require you to give up your success. It asks you to expand your emotional capacity to receive more.

🌀 Join my free 5-day masterclass💥𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐔𝐍𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐈𝐋𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄 𝐭𝐨 𝐔𝐍𝐒𝐇𝐀𝐊𝐄𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄💥 to reclaim a safe and solid emotional core to be a conscious chooser.
Event details:
📅 𝐃𝐚𝐭𝐞: August 25–29, 2025
💻 𝐋𝐨𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: Zoom
🕖 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞: 7–8 pm CEST
🎯 For 𝐡𝐢𝐠𝐡-𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐮𝐧𝐚𝐯𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐦𝐞𝐧
💥 DM me or comment RECLAIM to save your seat.

Looking forward to seeing you inside,
Sumru

14/07/2025

✨ 𝐂𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲: 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐋𝐨𝐨𝐩 𝐨𝐟 𝐃𝐢𝐬𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 ✨Let's call her Layla!
Layla was a 42-year-old successful consultant from a collective culture, living in Amsterdam. Smart, stylish, and spiritually curious, she had done therapy, read every relationship book, and even learned to meditate. But her dating life felt like a loop she couldn’t exit.

Every time she met someone new, Layla would start off optimistic, even radiant. But within weeks, she'd find herself anxiously overanalyzing his texts, holding back her real feelings, and blaming herself when the connection fizzled out. She was often attracted to emotionally unavailable men—those who were charming and intense at first, then distant or inconsistent later.

𝑇ℎ𝑒 𝑃𝑎𝑡𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑛 𝑜𝑓 𝐸𝑚𝑜𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑎𝑙 𝑅𝑖𝑔𝑖𝑑𝑖𝑡𝑦
In one of our sessions, Layla shared a recent date where a man cancelled last minute. Instead of feeling disappointed and naming it, she brushed it off with a smile, saying, “He’s probably just busy.” But I could feel the tightness in her voice.

When we unpacked it, Layla admitted she felt small and unwanted—but didn’t feel she had the "right" to express that. She had learned early in life that 𝑒𝑥𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑛𝑒𝑒𝑑𝑠 𝑙𝑒𝑑 𝑡𝑜 𝑟𝑒𝑗𝑒𝑐𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛, so her nervous system defaulted to “don’t make waves.” Her emotional flexibility was blocked: she couldn’t move freely between her feelings, name them honestly, or respond consciously. She either suppressed or exploded — never in between.

𝑊ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝐿𝑎𝑦𝑙𝑎 𝑁𝑒𝑒𝑑𝑒𝑑 𝑡𝑜 𝐵𝑒𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑎 𝐶𝑜𝑛𝑠𝑐𝑖𝑜𝑢𝑠 𝐶ℎ𝑜𝑜𝑠𝑒𝑟
💫 Layla needed to believe that 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙𝑖𝑛𝑔 disappointment, fear, or even anger didn’t make her unlovable—𝑖𝑡 𝑚𝑎𝑑𝑒 ℎ𝑒𝑟 ℎ𝑢𝑚𝑎𝑛. We practiced small emotional truth-telling in her body first, then in her dates.

💫 She learned to check in with her inner self before making any choice in dating. Was she moving from a need to be validated—or from genuine desire? This distinction changed everything.

💫 We used various tools to help her stay regulated even when emotionally triggered. This gave her access to the full range of her feelings without collapsing into them.

💫 Together, we crafted a vision of love from her secure, sovereign self, not from her wounds. She began filtering men not based on potential, but on 𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑒𝑛𝑡 𝑒𝑚𝑜𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑎𝑙 𝑠𝑎𝑓𝑒𝑡𝑦 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑎𝑣𝑎𝑖𝑙𝑎𝑏𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑦.

🌀 Join my free 5-day masterclass💥𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐔𝐍𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐈𝐋𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄 𝐭𝐨 𝐔𝐍𝐒𝐇𝐀𝐊𝐄𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄💥 to reclaim a safe and solid emotional core to be a conscious chooser:
📅 𝐃𝐚𝐭𝐞: August 25–29, 2025 | 💻 𝐋𝐨𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: Zoom | 🕖 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞: 7–8 pm CEST |
🎯 For high-achieving women who attract emotionally unavailable men
💥 DM me or comment RECLAIM to save your seat.

Looking forward to seeing you inside,
Sumru

11/07/2025

💥 What if emotional strength isn’t about being “strong”?

💫 It’s about staying connected to YOU—even when it’s messy.
💫 Even when you feel rejected, triggered, or unsure.
💫 Even when you’re tempted to shrink, chase, or numb out.

Let’s be honest:
You can be a high-achiever in life—and still feel shaky in love.
Why?
Because emotional strength in dating isn’t about controlling your feelings.
💎 It’s about honoring them.
💎 Letting them guide you, not drown you.
💎 Letting them speak, not silence you.

🔎 Here are signs you may lack emotional strength when it comes to holding your truth in dating and creating a new relationship:
❌ You walk on eggshells, afraid your needs will push someone away.

❌ You keep “understanding” emotionally unavailable partners while betraying your own heart.

❌ You feel brave texting first—but spiral if there’s no reply.

❌ You shrink your desires because you don’t want to seem “too much.”

❌ You second-guess what you said, how you showed up, or whether you “ruined it.”

❌ You over-think, over-function, or over-accommodate — just to keep connection.

❌ You say “it’s fine” when it’s not—and later feel resentment or regret.

Here’s the truth:
You don’t need to be perfect to be powerful in love.
You need to be present with yourself.
That’s emotional strength.

In my free 5-day masterclass💥𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐔𝐍𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐈𝐋𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄 𝐭𝐨 𝐔𝐍𝐒𝐇𝐀𝐊𝐄𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄💥 you’ll learn how to anchor into your emotional core—so you stop abandoning yourself and start holding your truth, even when it’s hard.

✨ It’s time to move from emotionally drained to emotionally empowered.

Because 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐛𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐭 𝐨𝐧 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐬𝐚𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐭, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐛𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐭 𝐨𝐧 𝐮𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬.

🌀 Join me to reclaim a safe and solid emotional core for preparing, protecting, and perfecting the love you desire:

📅 𝐃𝐚𝐭𝐞: August 25–29, 2025 | 💻 𝐋𝐨𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: Zoom | 🕖 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞: 7–8 pm CEST |
🎯 For high-achieving women who attract emotionally unavailable men
💥 DM me or comment RECLAIM to save your seat.

Looking forward to seeing you inside,
Sumru
Emotionally Embodied Love® & Relationship Coach

10/07/2025

Dating in today’s world can feel like an emotional roller coaster—especially when you’re a high-achieving, heart-led woman who keeps attracting emotionally unavailable partners.

But here's the truth: You don’t need to be tougher. You need to be stronger from the inside out.

💥 That’s where the 3 Pillars of Emotional Fitness come in. These aren’t just feel-good concepts—they are your inner foundation for building a deeply connected, lasting relationship:
💎 1. Inner Safety
💎 2. Emotional Awareness
💎 3. Inner Leadership

🌹When these 3 are activated, you stop chasing emotionally unavailable love—and start attracting someone who meets you where you are, emotionally and energetically.

🌀Ready to reclaim your emotional core and call in the love you truly desire?

🎯 Join me for Day 5 of 💥𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐔𝐍𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐈𝐋𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄 𝐭𝐨 𝐔𝐍𝐒𝐇𝐀𝐊𝐄𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄💥— where we dive deep into these 3 Pillars and how to embody them in creating a new relationship.

🧭 Join us and reclaim a safe and solid emotional core for preparing, protecting, and perfecting the love you desire:
📅 𝐃𝐚𝐭𝐞: August 25–29, 2025 | 💻 𝐋𝐨𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: Zoom |
🕖 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞: 7–8 pm CEST |
🎯 For high-achieving women who attract emotionally unavailable men
💥 Claim your seat here: 👉 https://shorturl.at/Mlti7 👈

Looking forward to seeing you inside,
Sumru
Certified Conscious Dating® & Relationship Coach

08/07/2025

💔 Have you been hurt before? And do you guard your heart now like it’s under lock and key?

💥 Emotional resilience in building a new relationship isn’t about being tough or pretending things don’t affect you.

𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐑𝐈𝐒𝐄 𝐚𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐣𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐠𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐨𝐫 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭—𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐡𝐢𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬.

When you’re emotionally resilient:
💫 You bounce back with wisdom, not walls.
💫 You stay grounded in your self-worth, even when someone pulls away.
💫 You keep your heart open—not because it never hurt, but because you’ve learnt to hold yourself through it.

This is the CORE of attracting an emotionally available, secure partner.
💎 Not perfection.
💎 Not pretending.
💎 But presence, especially when things get messy.

In my free 5-day masterclass 💥𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐔𝐍𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐈𝐋𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄 𝐭𝐨 𝐔𝐍𝐒𝐇𝐀𝐊𝐄𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄💥,
On Day 4 of “From Unavailable to Unshakeable,” we’re diving into:
👉 How to handle emotional setbacks without spiraling
👉 How to keep trusting without closing off
👉 How to stay rooted in love—even when dating feels like a roller coaster.

💫 If you're ready to rise without hardening—this day is for YOU.
🧭 Join us and reclaim your emotional core to call in The One you desire:
📅 𝐃𝐚𝐭𝐞: August 25–29, 2025 | 💻 𝐋𝐨𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: Zoom | 🕖 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞: 7–8 pm CEST |
🎯 For high-achieving women who attract emotionally unavailable men
💥 Claim your seat here: 👉 https://shorturl.at/Mlti7 👈

Looking forward to seeing you inside,
Sumru
Certified Conscious Dating® & Relationship Coach

07/07/2025

If you’ve ever felt like you’re too much or not enough in dating…
If you swing between independence and longing for deep connection…

You’re not alone—and you’re not broken.
You’re just craving emotional balance.

💔 When we lead with fear—of being abandoned, rejected, or unseen—we lose touch with our center.
💞 When we learn to root into self-love while staying open to love, we stop abandoning ourselves for connection and start choosing connection that honors all of us.

✨ Emotional balance is the bridge between your self-worth and your desire to bond. It’s what turns dating from a draining game into a grounded, nourishing path.

In my free 5-day masterclass 💥𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐔𝐍𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐈𝐋𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄 𝐭𝐨 𝐔𝐍𝐒𝐇𝐀𝐊𝐄𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄💥,
Day 3 is all about this:
💥 Centering yourself between self-love and connection—so you stop chasing and start attracting the love you deserve.

Because the right partner doesn’t just see your heart—they respect your emotional wholeness. And it starts with YOU doing the same. 💖

Join me to reclaim your emotional core to call in The One you desire:
📅 𝐃𝐚𝐭𝐞: August 25–29, 2025 | 💻 𝐋𝐨𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: Zoom | 🕖 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞: 7–8 pm CEST |
🎯 For high-achieving women who attract emotionally unavailable men
💥 Save your seat 👉 https://shorturl.at/Mlti7 👈

Looking forward to seeing you inside,
Sumru
Certified Conscious Dating® & Relationship Coach

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Welcome to Grow into Love Social Learning Group! This Group is for the international singles and couples who seek to have safe, successful and sustainable romantic relationships and grow consciously to be their best versions in love. The members of this group are successful in their private and professional lives, except for finding the love of their life and sustaining romantic relationships. There are many reasons for this: First and foremost, the success factors work differently in the venues of business and private life. Being competent and competitive in your career life doesn't help you attract your quality partner and nourish your relationship. Love life requires learning and leading different communication and relationship skills in dating as a single and sharing the life as a couple. Maybe we did not learn this skills from our role models. Also, we sometimes simply don't have time to get relationship and communication skills and experiences. Or we are afraid of rejection and committing because we don't want to loose our powerful career image and ourselves in a relationship. Even worse we see all the red flags popping up, but we just don't know how to react upon them. Another common reason: We react to the partner candidates who approach us, instead of choosing the RIGHT partner for us. Let us connect, share and support each other by becoming the Masters of our love lives. For more information about me, my story, and my coaching, visit: www.growintolove.nl I'm looking forward to connecting to, sharing with and supporting you! In love, light and joy, S.Sumru Inal Relationship Coach, Counsellor & Trainer

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