Grow into Love

Grow into Love I help international single women to become, manifest and attract The One for a trust-based, committed relationship. Welcome to Grow into Love Group!

Join Conscious Connections Community to get the support here:
https://sumruinal.com/free-offerings/support-circle/ This Group is for single female professionals in midlife who attract the love of their life and create lasting love relationships. The members of this group are successful in their private and professional lives, except for attracting a compatible partner and sustaining romantic relationships. There are many reasons for this:

First and foremost, the success factors work differently in the venues of business and private life. Being competent and competitive in your career life doesn't help you attract your ideal partner and nourish your relationship. Love life requires learning and leading different communication and relationship skills to share life as a couple. Maybe we did not learn these skills from our role models. Also, we sometimes simply don't have time to get relationship skills and experiences. Or we are afraid of rejection and committing because we don't want to lose our powerful career image and ourselves in a relationship. Even worse, we see all the red flags popping up, but we just don't know how to react upon them. Another common reason: We react to the partner candidates who approach us, instead of choosing the RIGHT partner for us. Let us connect, share and support each other by becoming the Masters of our love lives. For more information about me, my story, and my coaching, visit: www.growintolove.nl

I'm looking forward to connecting to, sharing with and supporting you! In love, light and joy,

Sumru ฤฐnal
Single Relationship Coach

๐—ข๐—ป ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿญโ€“๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฎโ€“๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ, ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—น๐—น ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—น๐˜† ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฒ?Your love life doesnโ€™t change because you โ€œ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜† ...
31/12/2025

๐—ข๐—ป ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿญโ€“๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฎโ€“๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ, ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—น๐—น ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—น๐˜† ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฒ?

Your love life doesnโ€™t change because you โ€œ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ.โ€

๐—œ๐˜ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—น๐˜† โ€” ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜๐—ต.

Most ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป say they want:
๐Ÿ’ซ An emotionally available partner
๐Ÿ’ซ Consistency
๐Ÿ’ซ Safety and depth

But unconsciously, they choose:
๐Ÿšฉ Familiar dynamics
๐Ÿšฉ Potential over presence
๐Ÿšฉ Chemistry over regulation

Not because theyโ€™re broken โ€”
but because their nervous system learnt ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฒ๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ด ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ต.

Level 3 is where you ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ป.

๐Ÿ’กThis is what it means to become ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฟ in love.

๐—Ÿ๐—˜๐—ฉ๐—˜๐—Ÿ ๐Ÿฏ: ๐—–๐—›๐—ข๐—ข๐—ฆ๐—˜ ๐——๐—œ๐—™๐—™๐—˜๐—ฅ๐—˜๐—ก๐—ง๐—Ÿ๐—ฌ
Ask yourself before your next emotional investment:
โœจ Does this connection calm or activate my nervous system?
โœจ Am I feeling chosen โ€” or am I auditioning?
โœจ Am I responding from desireโ€ฆ or from fear of loss?

And when you choose from emotional strength, something powerful happens:
๐Ÿ’ž You ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ clarity.
๐Ÿ’ž You ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ฆ๐˜น๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ your needs.
๐Ÿ’ž You ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฌ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ your standards.

๐Ÿ’ฌ Iโ€™m curious:
๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜€ โ€œ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—น๐˜†โ€ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜€?

If you want support with this, ๐ŸŽ my ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—™๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ด๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜ ๐ŸŽhelps you assess early โ€” before attachment clouds your discernment. ๐Ÿ‘‰ Download it here: ๐Ÿšฉ www.sumruinal.com ๐Ÿšฉ

Committed to your growth in love and life

๐—ข๐—ป ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฌโ€“๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฎโ€“๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ, ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—น๐—น ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฒ?The holiday season has a way of holding up a m...
30/12/2025

๐—ข๐—ป ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฌโ€“๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฎโ€“๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ, ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—น๐—น ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฒ?

The holiday season has a way of holding up a mirror.

Yes โ€” there may be joy, family, and generosity.

Andโ€ฆ there may also be a quiet ache when your love life doesnโ€™t reflect the woman you know you are.

If youโ€™re honest:
โœจ Youโ€™re successful in your career.
โœจ You take ownership at work.
โœจ But in loveโ€ฆ it feels harder to create the same results.

๐Ÿ’กThatโ€™s precisely why ๐—ฅ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ข๐˜„๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ matters.

Many ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป unintentionally outsource their love life to chance, chemistry, or timing. ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ปโ€™๐˜. They:
โœ” Reflect
โœ” Invest
โœ” Build emotional strength
โœ” Create alignment between love and life

I learnt this the hard way when I invested in deep professional support during my ๐‘€๐‘–๐‘™๐‘™๐‘’๐‘›๐‘›๐‘–๐‘ข๐‘š ๐‘ƒ๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘—๐‘’๐‘๐‘ก โ€”a conscious shift from collective conditioning to individual choice. That decision changed everything.

๐Ÿ˜‡ ๐—Ÿ๐—˜๐—ฉ๐—˜๐—Ÿ ๐Ÿฎ: ๐—ง๐—”๐—ž๐—˜ ๐—ฅ๐—”๐——๐—œ๐—–๐—”๐—Ÿ ๐—ข๐—ช๐—ก๐—˜๐—ฅ๐—ฆ๐—›๐—œ๐—ฃ ๐—ข๐—™ ๐—ฌ๐—ข๐—จ๐—ฅ ๐—Ÿ๐—ข๐—ฉ๐—˜ ๐—Ÿ๐—œ๐—™๐—˜
Imagine yourself one year from now โ€” December 31, 2026:
๐Ÿ’ž You are in a fulfilling, emotionally safe relationship.
๐Ÿ’ž You no longer overthink texts, effort, or your worth.
๐Ÿ’ž Love feels safe, supportive, and sustainable, not draining.

Ask yourself:
โœจ What ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ about you?
โœจ What did you finally ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ?
โœจ What did you ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ต ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ญ๐˜บ?

This is not fantasy.
This is ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ-๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ.

If 2026 is the year, you want to say
โ€œ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฑ ๐˜ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฐ๐˜งโ€ฆโ€
Start by ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ถ๐˜ โ€” ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„.

๐Ÿคฉ Iโ€™d love to hear in the comments:
๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ข๐—ก๐—˜ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฒ?

If youโ€™re ready to step into 2026 as a ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฟ, ๐ŸŽ my ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐—›๐—ผ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—š๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜๐ŸŽ is for you: A ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—™๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ด๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜ to help you ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด ๐˜ค๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ญ๐˜บ โ€” ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ฌ๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ฌ๐˜ด ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ.
๐Ÿ‘‰ Get your free checklist here: ๐Ÿšฉ www.sumruinal.com ๐Ÿšฉ

๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ ๐Ÿ’– Committed to your growth in love and life๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ ๐Ÿ’–

๐—ข๐—ป ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿตโ€“๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฎโ€“๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ, ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—น๐—น ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ฏ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ?Will it be: โ€œ๐ผโ€™๐‘š ๐‘ ๐‘œ ๐‘”๐‘™๐‘Ž๐‘‘ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘–๐‘  ๐‘ฆ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ ๐‘–๐‘  ๐‘“๐‘–๐‘›๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘™๐‘ฆ ๐‘œ๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘Ÿโ€ฆ ๐ผ โ„Ž...
29/12/2025

๐—ข๐—ป ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿตโ€“๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฎโ€“๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ, ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—น๐—น ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ฏ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ?

Will it be:
โ€œ๐ผโ€™๐‘š ๐‘ ๐‘œ ๐‘”๐‘™๐‘Ž๐‘‘ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘–๐‘  ๐‘ฆ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ ๐‘–๐‘  ๐‘“๐‘–๐‘›๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘™๐‘ฆ ๐‘œ๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘Ÿโ€ฆ ๐ผ โ„Ž๐‘œ๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘›๐‘’๐‘ฅ๐‘ก ๐‘ฆ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ ๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘‘๐‘–๐‘“๐‘“๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘›๐‘ก.โ€
Or:
โ€œ๐˜ž๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ. ๐˜ ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ธ. ๐˜ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ. ๐˜ ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ.โ€

If youโ€™re a high-achieving woman who did well in many areas of life โ€” but your love life felt confusing, draining, or stagnant in 2025 โ€” youโ€™re not alone.

And more importantly: ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ถ๐˜€ โ€œ๐˜„๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ดโ€ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚.

Nelson Mandela said it best: "๐—œ ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—œ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ป."

So letโ€™s learn โ€” consciously.

๐Ÿง ๐—Ÿ๐—˜๐—ฉ๐—˜๐—Ÿ ๐Ÿญ: ๐—Ÿ๐—ข๐—ข๐—ž ๐—•๐—”๐—–๐—ž
Take a quiet moment and ask yourself:
โœจ What did I hope would change in my love life in 2025?
โœจ Where did I grow emotionally โ€” even if the outcome wasnโ€™t what I wanted?
โœจ What patterns kept repeating?
โœจ What did I tolerate that no longer feels aligned?
โœจ Who am I now in relationships compared to a year ago?

This kind of reflection is something many successful women avoid โ€” because it requires ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜๐˜†, ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฟ.

But this is exactly where real change begins.

๐Ÿ’ก ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ.
And choice is the foundation of emotionally secure love.

If youโ€™re ready to step into 2026 as a ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฟ (not someone hoping love will โ€œwork out somedayโ€)โ€ฆ

๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ ๐— ๐˜† ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐—›๐—ผ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—š๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ for you: A ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—™๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ด๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜ to help you ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด ๐˜ค๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ญ๐˜บ โ€” ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ฌ๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ฌ๐˜ด ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ.

๐Ÿ‘‰ Get your free checklist here: ๐Ÿšฉ www.sumruinal.com ๐Ÿšฉ

โœจ Iโ€™d love to hear in the comments:
๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ข๐—ก๐—˜ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ?

๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ ๐Ÿ’– Committed to your growth in love and life๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ ๐Ÿ’–

๐ŸŽ„๐—ช๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ, ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐˜๐—ต, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€.๐ŸŽ„This winter is...
28/12/2025

๐ŸŽ„๐—ช๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ, ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐˜๐—ต, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€.๐ŸŽ„

This winter is the season of giving and I have a FREE๐ŸŽChristmas GIFT๐ŸŽfor you.

Iโ€™m gifting you my Dating Red Flags Checklist, designed to help you become a conscious chooser on your soulmate-seeking journey. This checklist supports you in clearly assessing a potential partner and the relationship youโ€™re stepping into.

๐Ÿšฉ A Red Flag ๐Ÿšฉ:
โœจ is a warning sign that potential danger may be present in a relationship.
โœจ can show up during a date and indicate future problems, miscommunication, or emotional challenges.
โœจ invites you to slow down, stay aware, and keep your eyes fully open before investing your emotions, energy, and self-esteem in a future partner who may signal serious issues.

If you want to elevate your dating experiences and choose love from strength rather than survival, this gift is for you.

๐Ÿ‘‰ You can download your free checklist here:๐Ÿšฉwww.sumruinal.com๐Ÿšฉ

๐ŸŽ๐ŸŽ„๐Ÿ’– ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ ๐—›๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐˜† ๐—›๐—ผ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป! ๐ŸŽ๐ŸŽ„๐Ÿ’–

10/12/2025

๐Ÿ’ซ Do you dare to date or hide to connect? ๐Ÿ’ซ

๐Ÿ“š ๐— ๐˜† ๐—•๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐— ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ต โ€” ๐—ก๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ ๐Ÿ“š"๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† ๐—”๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป: ๐—ข๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐——๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฌ๐—ผ...
28/11/2025

๐Ÿ“š ๐— ๐˜† ๐—•๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐— ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ต โ€” ๐—ก๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ ๐Ÿ“š
"๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† ๐—”๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป: ๐—ข๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐——๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ" by ๐—•๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—น๐˜† ๐—˜๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—น

๐Ÿ’— This month, I have selected an inspiring book that reminds us that ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ. ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น, ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—น๐—ฑ.

Emotional abuse isnโ€™t always loud.
Sometimes itโ€™s a quiet erosion โ€” criticism disguised as concern, control dressed up as โ€œloveโ€, or gaslighting that makes you doubt the compass inside you.

๐Ÿ’— What I love about Engelโ€™s work is this:
She doesnโ€™t just define emotional abuse. She helps you ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—พ๐˜‚๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ต.

๐Ÿ”‘ Here are the 7 lessons that struck me deeply that invite us to remember our worth wisely before we call in meaningful and secure love:
1๏ธโƒฃ Emotional abuse is real and often invisible.
2๏ธโƒฃ Abuse creates self-doubt.
3๏ธโƒฃ You cannot heal what you donโ€™t name.
4๏ธโƒฃ Patterns often repeat until they are broken.
5๏ธโƒฃ Boundaries are not selfish; theyโ€™re essential.
6๏ธโƒฃ Self-compassion rebuilds what abuse destroys.
7๏ธโƒฃ You are not responsible for another personโ€™s behavior.

If youโ€™re a woman who leads, loves deeply, and wants a healthy, secure partnership โ€” this book is a mirror, a compass, and a lighthouse.

๐Ÿ’— Because ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฎ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ต, ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜‚๐—ป๐˜€๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ.

๐Ÿ’Ž If these lessons speak to youโ€”and youโ€™re ready to understand not just emotional abuse, but the subtle dating traps high-achieving women fall into without realizing it โ€” I created something to help.

๐Ÿ’ซ My new guide, ๐——๐—”๐—ง๐—œ๐—ก๐—š ๐—ง๐—ฅ๐—”๐—ฃ๐—ฆ: ๐—ž๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—”๐˜ƒ๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฐ ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ง๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜€ & ๐—œ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€, breaks down the patterns that keep you attracted to emotionally unavailable partners and shows you how to shift into emotionally secure dating.

Itโ€™s the perfect companion to this monthโ€™s book because it brings the insights directly into your day-to-day dating life โ€” clear, practical, and empowering.

If you want to elevate your dating experiences and choose love from strength rather than survival, this guide is for you.

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Committed to your success in love and life,
Global Love Bridge

๐Ÿ’ซ ๐—›๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐˜† ๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€โ€™ ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜†! ๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€! ๐Ÿ’ซToday โ€”11/11 โ€” is Singlesโ€™ Day, originally born in China in...
11/11/2025

๐Ÿ’ซ ๐—›๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐˜† ๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€โ€™ ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜†! ๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€! ๐Ÿ’ซ

Today โ€”11/11 โ€” is Singlesโ€™ Day, originally born in China in the 1990s when four male students at Nanjing University decided to celebrate being single instead of waiting for โ€œ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜–๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ.โ€

The four ones (11/11) became a symbol of ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†, ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ-๐—ฎ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€, and ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ.

What began as โ€œBachelorโ€™s Dayโ€ has evolved into something much deeper:
โœจ A statement of self-worth in cultures where relationship status defines success.
โœจ A declaration of independence in the face of pressure to settle.
โœจ A celebration of ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜€๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ป๐˜๐˜†.

๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ฎ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—บ.
๐—œ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ-๐—ฎ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€, ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ-๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜†, ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ-๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜†, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ-๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฟ.

Hereโ€™s what being a successful single looks like today:
๐Ÿ’Ž You honour your needs, feelings, and desires without apology.
๐Ÿ’Ž You protect your boundaries while staying open to connection.
๐Ÿ’Ž You choose peace over people-pleasing and alignment over attachment.
๐Ÿ’Ž You walk away from the โ€œalmost rightโ€ so ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜›๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜™๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ฉ๐˜ต can find you.

If youโ€™re ready to create a new relationship with more clarity, courage, and confidence, I created something to support you:
๐Ÿ‘‰ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—™๐—ฅ๐—˜๐—˜ ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—™๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ด ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜ โ€” a practical guide to help you recognise early warning signs before emotional investment takes hold.
๐ŸŽ Download your free checklist here: https://sumruinal.com/

Letโ€™s celebrate your singleness not as a problem to solve but as a power to own, manifest, and attract the relationship your heart desires!

๐ŸŽ‰ How do you celebrate your singleness today?
๐Ÿ’ฌ Comment below if you can relate.
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โœจ ๐Ÿ“ฝ๏ธ ๐ŸŽž๏ธ ๐Œ๐Ž๐•๐ˆ๐„ ๐Œ๐Ž๐Œ๐„๐๐“: ๐—ข๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ข๐—ป๐—ฒ: ๐—๐—ผ๐—ต๐—ป & ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐—ธ๐—ผ ๐ŸŽž๏ธ ๐ŸŽฅ โœจโœจ ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—๐—ผ๐—ต๐—ป & ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐—ธ๐—ผ ๐—–๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ง๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐—จ๐˜€ ๐—”๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป โœจI just wa...
31/10/2025

โœจ ๐Ÿ“ฝ๏ธ ๐ŸŽž๏ธ ๐Œ๐Ž๐•๐ˆ๐„ ๐Œ๐Ž๐Œ๐„๐๐“: ๐—ข๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ข๐—ป๐—ฒ: ๐—๐—ผ๐—ต๐—ป & ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐—ธ๐—ผ ๐ŸŽž๏ธ ๐ŸŽฅ โœจ
โœจ ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—๐—ผ๐—ต๐—ป & ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐—ธ๐—ผ ๐—–๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ง๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐—จ๐˜€ ๐—”๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป โœจ
I just watched โ€œOne to One: John & Yokoโ€, a documentary that beautifully reveals the paradox of love between two artistic soulmates โ€” John Lennon and Yoko Ono.

Both carried deep wounds of childhood trauma โ€” parental absence, emotional instability, and lifelong themes of abandonment.

And yet, their relationship became a powerful search for connection, creativity, and peace.

They were:
๐ŸŽถ ๐—–๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ who influenced each otherโ€™s work profoundly.
๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ ๐—”๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ, using their love as a form of protest.
๐Ÿ’” ๐—›๐˜‚๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜„๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€, navigating public scrutiny and emotional complexity.

What struck me most is how trauma can both magnetise and destabilise love.

John and Yoko were drawn together through shared pain and shared purpose โ€” yet their emotional patterns also created tension and misunderstanding.

What stands out is how shared trauma can create powerful chemistry โ€” but not always emotional security.

Their story reminds us that emotional resonance is not the same as emotional safety, stability, and availability.

For many successful, high-achieving women, this dynamic feels familiar:
๐Ÿ’ซ You meet someone who โ€œgetsโ€ you on a deep level.
๐Ÿ’ซ The connection feels extraordinary โ€” even fated.
๐Ÿ’ซ Yet, over time, patterns of over-giving, rescuing, or self-doubt appear.

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ต ๐—ถ๐˜€: ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ถ๐—ณ ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜„๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐—ด๐—ผ ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ฒ๐—ฑ.

Thatโ€™s why developing emotional fitness โ€” the ability to discern between chemistry and compatibility โ€” is essential in dating and partnership.

To help women identify early warning signs before emotional investment takes hold, I created a FREE Dating Red Flag Checklist โ€” a practical tool to support emotionally intelligent choices in love.

๐ŸŽ You can download your free checklist here:๐Ÿšฉhttps://sumruinal.com/๐Ÿšฉ

Because ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—ท๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป โ€” ๐—ถ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฒ๐—พ๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—บ.

Much love,
Sumru

๐ŸŽƒ๐Ÿ‘ป๐—”๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ด๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ โ€”or haunting your choices?๐Ÿ‘ป๐ŸŽƒHalloween reminds us of what lingers in the dark โ€” ...
30/10/2025

๐ŸŽƒ๐Ÿ‘ป๐—”๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ด๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ โ€”or haunting your choices?๐Ÿ‘ป๐ŸŽƒ

Halloween reminds us of what lingers in the dark โ€” the unseen forces, the disguised forms, the hidden patterns that whisper in our ears.

In dating, these โ€œghostsโ€ donโ€™t wear costumes. They show up as the familiar inner voices that quietly shape who you choose and how long you stay.

Here are some of the inner voices haunting your choices:
1๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ โ€œ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜ƒ๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฒโ€ that keeps reminding you of what you should have done better.

2๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒโ€ that keeps you settling for less.

3๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ปโ€ that makes you feel tired of trying.

4๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟโ€ that freezes your heart.

5๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†โ€ that says, โ€œMaybe this is as good as it gets.โ€ It makes you cling to half-connections and almost-love, fearing that what you truly desire might never arrive.

6๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐˜๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒโ€ that rushes your choices.

7๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜โ€ that makes you double-check every word.

8๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฑ, ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ ๐—ณ๐—ฎ๐˜, ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ...โ€ that whispers youโ€™re not enough as you are.

9๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฎ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€โ€ that blinds you to repeating patterns.

๐Ÿ”Ÿ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ โ€œ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ณโ€ that murmurs, โ€œReal love isnโ€™t for me.โ€

These inner ghosts make it harder to see the red flags waving right in front of you. They blur your intuition โ€” the very compass thatโ€™s meant to protect you.

Thatโ€™s why I created the ๐Ÿšฉ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—™๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ด๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜ ๐Ÿšฉโ€” to help you stay grounded, clear, and emotionally attuned when those shadows appear.

Itโ€™s not about fear. Itโ€™s about awareness โ€” the light that helps you see love for what it truly is.

๐Ÿ‘ป When you recognise both your inner ghosts and the outer red flags, you stop repeating patterns โ€” and start creating emotionally safe, trust-based, and committed love.

๐ŸŽƒ๐Ÿ‘ป๐™’๐™๐™ž๐™˜๐™ ๐™œ๐™๐™ค๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก ๐™ซ๐™ž๐™จ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™จ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™›๐™ง๐™ค๐™ข ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ข๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ข๐™š?๐Ÿ‘ป๐ŸŽƒ
Is it distrust, disbelief, or the fear of being unloveable?
๐Ÿ’ฌ Comment below if you can relate.

๐ŸŽ Download your free checklist here:
๐Ÿ‘‰ ๐Ÿšฉ๐Ÿ“‹ https://lnkd.in/dAwi-bKH

๐Ÿง™โ€โ™€๏ธ๐ŸŽƒ๐Ÿ‘ป May you have a fa-boo-lous Halloween โ€” one where you walk with awareness, not fear. ๐Ÿ‘ป๐ŸŽƒ๐Ÿง™โ€โ™€๏ธ

Sumru

๐Ÿ“š ๐— ๐˜† ๐—•๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐— ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ต โ€” ๐—ข๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ ๐Ÿ“š"๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€: ๐—ข๐—ป ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ, ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด" by ๐—๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ณ ๐—•๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป ๐Ÿ’— This month, I...
29/10/2025

๐Ÿ“š ๐— ๐˜† ๐—•๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐— ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ต โ€” ๐—ข๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ ๐Ÿ“š
"๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€: ๐—ข๐—ป ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ, ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด" by ๐—๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ณ ๐—•๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป

๐Ÿ’— This month, I chose this inspiring book for us who want to build an intimate conversation with our own hearts.

Jeff Brown beautifully reminds us what it means to be human in a world that often pulls us toward distraction and detachment.

๐Ÿ”‘ Here are 7 heart-opening lessons that invite us to connect more deeply with ourselves before we call in meaningful and secure love:
1๏ธโƒฃ ๐—™๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€: Itโ€™s the heartโ€™s intelligence speaking. The sacredness of sadness, the necessity of grief, and the courage make us stay open when the world rewards emotional control and quick recoveries.

2๏ธโƒฃ ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐— ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฟ: True love isnโ€™t about comfort or perfection, but about awakening. It asks us to confront the parts of ourselves that fear vulnerability. In this way, relationships become classrooms for the soul.

3๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—”๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ: Friendship is a โ€œmutual recognition of essenceโ€ and a space where two souls can meet without expectation or agenda.

4๏ธโƒฃ ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—•๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜†: The โ€œemotional bodyโ€ is something that must be felt, not fixed. Healing is not an intellectual pursuit but a somatic oneโ€”it happens through tears, trembling, and truth-telling.

5๏ธโƒฃ ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€: Boundaries are acts of self-respect. Saying โ€œnoโ€ can be an expression of the deepest โ€œyesโ€ to our well-being.

6๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—”๐˜‚๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†: Brown encourages us to shed the masks we wear and return to the raw, unpolished truth of who we are. Companionship through that process brings us closer to the kind of peace that canโ€™t be faked.

7๏ธโƒฃ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ท๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฎ ๐˜€๐˜†๐—บ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—น ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด, ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด: The heart is wise, discerning, and resilient. When we live from that place, our choices become more aligned, our relationships more honest, and our lives more meaningful.

๐Ÿ’Ž If these lessons speak to you, perhaps your heart is ready for a deeper kind of loveโ€”the kind that feels emotionally safe, honest, and secure.

Thatโ€™s exactly what we explore in my FREE ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜„ โ€” a 60-minute 1:1 conversation to help you discover where you are on your path to emotionally available love, and what might be standing in the way.

Because ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒโ€ฆ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐˜€ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ด๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ. ๐Ÿ’ซ

๐Ÿ”ฝ Click the link in the comments to book your free session. ๐Ÿ”ฝ

Looking forward to meeting you soon,
Sumru

๐ŸŒฟ ๐—–๐—”๐—ฆ๐—˜ ๐—ฆ๐—ง๐—จ๐——๐—ฌ: ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐ŸŒฟOne of the biggest challenges professional single women face is the atta...
27/10/2025

๐ŸŒฟ ๐—–๐—”๐—ฆ๐—˜ ๐—ฆ๐—ง๐—จ๐——๐—ฌ: ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐ŸŒฟ
One of the biggest challenges professional single women face is the attachment to being in a relationship.

As a non-directive, human-centered coach, I donโ€™t tell my clients how to become โ€œsuccessful singlesโ€ who know exactly who they are and what they want. Instead, I hold space for them to find their own truth โ€” to discover what a fulfilling life and relationship mean for them.

Last week, I received a letter from one of my clients, and I burst into tears reading her words.

โ€œDear Sumru,

With your guidance, I have discovered a new dimension of myselfโ€”one that is more confident, grounded, and self-assured, with a clear understanding of my desires and the ability to find happiness and contentment independently. I no longer rely on others, whether friends or partners, to feel fulfilled.

I have embraced solitude without fear, recognising my own worth and accepting myself unconditionally. I understand that to love another, I must first love myself.

On this journey to find love, I have found a love of my own. Now, I seek companionship not from necessity but to share the love I have cultivated within.

I have freed myself from societyโ€™s judgments, formed my own beliefs, and embraced my uniqueness. In short, I have become a new person. By raising my self-worth, setting boundaries with those who do not respect me, distinguishing integrity from deceit, and living a life that honors human dignity, I feel I am experiencing a personal transformation.

Having spent 42 years paying the price of captivity, I believe I have finally won my fight for emotional freedom. I dedicate this struggle to all who are physically, emotionally, and spiritually imprisoned, hoping my journey will inspire those around me.

Thanks to you, I have opened the door to a more peaceful, fearless, and fulfilling life. I sincerely appreciate your presence and dedication. I hope you continue to be a shining example for those seeking emotional freedom.

With gratitude,โ€

Her story reminded me that ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ โ€” ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€, ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ต, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ, ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€.

I am deeply grateful to witness such transformations. Because ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฎ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜†, ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—ท๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ โ€” ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ.

๐ŸŒ€ If her story resonates, I invite you to ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€. ๐Ÿ’—

Looking forward to meeting you soon,
Sumru

๐ŸŒ ๐—›๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐˜† ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜†! ๐ŸŒFor 20 years, I lived with an autoimmune disease โ€” a silent protector I built against ...
10/10/2025

๐ŸŒ ๐—›๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐˜† ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜†! ๐ŸŒ

For 20 years, I lived with an autoimmune disease โ€” a silent protector I built against emotional enmeshment.

Not knowing how to express or process my emotions, I found my body stepping in to protect me โ€” quietly closing the gate to my feelings, as if shielding me from a storm I wasnโ€™t ready to face.

When emotional triggers pushed me beyond my tolerance window, I couldnโ€™t breathe properly even in my sleep. My eyes and lips would swell, and I relied on breathing sprays and allergy pills just to function.

Alongside the challenges with my physical health, my relationships also took a hit. I found myself drawn to emotionally unavailable and immature partners, faced many short-lived, surface-level connections, and struggled to build lasting, deep partnerships and friendships that truly nourished my heart.

It took me years to reclaim my emotional selfโ€”to build what I now call emotional fitness:
๐Ÿง˜โ€โ™€๏ธ Emotional strength,
๐ŸŒ€ Flexibility,
โš–๏ธ Balance,
๐Ÿ’ช Resilience.

Today, I know that connecting and communicating with your emotions is not only vital for your mental health, but itโ€™s also the foundation for emotionally intimate, trust-based, and lasting relationships.

If you find yourself strong on the outside but emotionally exhausted insideโ€ฆ

It might be time to explore your relationship readiness โ€” not just with others, but also with yourself.

๐Ÿ’ซ I invite you to ๐Ÿ‘‡ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€. ๐Ÿ‘‡ It's a powerful self-reflection process to uncover where you are emotionally and what you need to build secure love.

Looking forward to meeting you soon,
Sumru

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Welcome to Grow into Love Social Learning Group! This Group is for the international singles and couples who seek to have safe, successful and sustainable romantic relationships and grow consciously to be their best versions in love. The members of this group are successful in their private and professional lives, except for finding the love of their life and sustaining romantic relationships. There are many reasons for this: First and foremost, the success factors work differently in the venues of business and private life. Being competent and competitive in your career life doesn't help you attract your quality partner and nourish your relationship. Love life requires learning and leading different communication and relationship skills in dating as a single and sharing the life as a couple. Maybe we did not learn this skills from our role models. Also, we sometimes simply don't have time to get relationship and communication skills and experiences. Or we are afraid of rejection and committing because we don't want to loose our powerful career image and ourselves in a relationship. Even worse we see all the red flags popping up, but we just don't know how to react upon them. Another common reason: We react to the partner candidates who approach us, instead of choosing the RIGHT partner for us. Let us connect, share and support each other by becoming the Masters of our love lives. For more information about me, my story, and my coaching, visit: www.growintolove.nl I'm looking forward to connecting to, sharing with and supporting you! In love, light and joy, S.Sumru Inal Relationship Coach, Counsellor & Trainer