09/09/2020
Rejection from others is only a rejection if we believe it is.
So many of us believe it, unfortunately. Because we have experienced it in the past. And we are afraid it'll happen again.
I know it's not easy. I’ve experienced it myself. And I never understood it. I believed that there was something wrong with me. I wasted a lot of time and energy trying to do more of what I thought would make me good enough to receive love. It's sad. But, it's over, I've finally learned to set myself free and love myself.
Today I realize that it wasn't worth holding on to something I never had.
If you feel stuck in an unhealthy relationship. Know that you are worthy. Know that you are enough, that you matter, and that you should never strive for love. If someone rejects you, walk away with Grace, Self-compassion and Self-love. Move on. Cry if you feel like it. I have cried many tears. And instead of using your energy on trying to understand the people who are rejecting you, or holding on to negative thoughts, because you are afraid, or wanting to pay back. It's not worth it. You are worth more than all this negative energy. And you can create the energy you want. Instead invest your time to understand yourself.😌
Breath, go for a walk, meditate, pray, write, ask yourself what kind of energy do I want?
And what can I do to create this energy within myself?
Instead of trying to push the pain away, or escape it, which will eventually turn it into suffering.
You can choose to be self-compassionate towards yourself. This will give you the strength you need, and deserve to be with the pain, observe it with an open, compassionate heart. This is one of the great gifts you can receive by practicing mindfulness.
It’s such a relief when you allow yourself to observe that you have pain, but you ARE not the pain. And with patience and compassion experience that you are able to let them be, and with time maybe even let them go. You can imagine the pain being dark clouds that are passing, and when they do, you can feel this calm, lighter energy inside.
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