14/01/2025
I am not the same person I was a year ago. None of us are.
But the growth, healing and expansion I experienced in 2024, was beyond what I could have dreamt of. In fact, much more than I asked for… But we can do hard things.
Even though personal growth is a rewarding journey (this is often the highlighted part of the marketing we are exposed to), it’s also the most challenging one you can embark on.
In the industry of personal development, I see that healing is often bypassed. It’s always about «getting from where you are to where you wanna be», and moving forward. I myself have even worked with coaches that have given me a hard time for taking space for the emotional processes rising from the work I’ve been doing.
It’s not always about moving forward asap… Healing is something we need to lean into if we want to avoid going in circles, finding ourselves back in the same sabotaging pattern of whatever you’re trying to change in your life. Because everyone can show up and create changes when the sea is still and it is smooth sailing, but it’s when life serves us a solid storm we are dependent on having developed a steady keel.
«To heal it, you gotta feel it», and as my mentor says: «If you wanna see how far you’ve come, look at your reactive patterns…». It’s the difference between reacting and responding, where one is instant rooted in your wounds and ego, and the other one is mindful and intentional rooted in the bigger perspective.
2024 presented and served me with more growth and healing than I could have imagined in my wildest(!!) dreams. It ended with a solid bang, - a total and utter shattering, serving me the most painful and intense portal of the whole year with getting one of my biggest fears served on a plate from the universe.
But there was a meaning behind being broken into a million pieces beyond repair, because not all of it was meant to come along with me into 2025.
But we need to have a breakdown to have a breakthrough. And as a therapist you can never take someone deeper or further than you’ve been yourself. It’s about walking my own talk and taking my own medicine.
So I started 2025 weak but stronger than ever, tender but more determined than before, a fragile newborn with a strong life force, my heart on my sleeve and zero fu*ks left to give.
2025, I’m ready for you.
And if you want to walk with me, send me a DM with the word “WILD” and we’ll have a chat about what your path for 2025 can look like ❤️ It’s me in the other end❤️