27/04/2022
Forgive 🌷
There is a narrative about two soldiers that fought together and were captivated. After many year they met again and one asked the other: "have you forgived and forgoted those who captured us?", "never!" Answer the other.
"Then, you are still their prisioner" said his friend.
To truly forgive, is not an act of grace or feeling superior in our generosity or even compassion towards the one who, in our perception, has commited an unfair unjusticed action. It is to acknowledge that he/she has playd it's part and I has done mine 💖
Let me explain before you protest: We can only take responsibility for our actions and the intention motivating behind them
Awareness plays a role in the practice (specifically by bringing acceptance and equanimity into the picture). Said in another way, every human being does the best as the level of awareness he/she has
The act of forgiveness in a gracefully (read "grace" higher level of Consciousness) way is to comprehend the other's behaviour and accept our part (Conscious or unconsciously done) and acknowledge that relationships are projections of our expectations
To hold fast to past resentments poison your mind, harsh our emotional capacity to love and can even make our health weaken
Many of us have experienced
unbearable situations, yes. How to forgive those?
Every effort made to avoid the pain caused by them reinforces the memory at the core of the pattern who made us react with pain and sorrow
Forgiveness is not to accept, justify, explain or resign. It is to remit and absolve the frozen energy on the moment where grief occured 🙏
Most important of all: YOU HAVE TO FORGIVE YOURSELF 💖
We are all together on creating the entangled net of relationships. Through them we evolve, heal and love 💖
Love is the Force behind all intentions. Ultimately, everything is possible with Love🌟
(Tomorrow will be explaing: break free)
