19/04/2025
âWait⌠do I have to give back RIGHT NOW?â
That quiet little guilt voice so many of us hear during intimacy, especially women.â¨We think we have to MATCH everything - every kiss, every touch. Like it has to be equal all the time.
But real connection isnât a scorecard. And swinging to the other extreme, where one person is ALWAYS giving, doesnât work either.
Itâs not about keeping it even. Itâs about keeping it INTENTIONAL. Choosing, in each moment, whoâs giving and whoâs receiving.
Weâve had so many men open up about this matter, in our studio, during the sessions. They say they feel invisible in intimacy, not because their partner doesnât love them, but because she doesnât RECEIVE them anymore.
She canât melt. Sheâs always doing, giving, controlling. Never softening.
And this is what we call the KISS OF DEATH in polarity. When both partners are stuck in the same energy. Two givers/ two doers => NO SPARK.
Hereâs the shift: tell yourself that you are worthy of receiving pleasure without needing to give anything back in that moment. Just breathe. Soften. Feel.
Yes, we know itâs uncomfortable and you might think:â¨âDo I deserve this?â âAm I being lazy?â âIs this too much focus and attention on me?â
But that discomfort is the doorway. Walk through it.
Because receiving isnât weak. Itâs magnetic. Itâs nourishing. Itâs powerful and sexy.
And most of the times this is what brings the fire back. đĽ
Thatâs why we created our âWatch & Touchâ sessions â to guide both partners into giving, receiving and surrendering into pleasure.
Come experience it with us. đ
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