20/07/2024
Such a balanced approach from Lucy Webber Feeding Support - IBCLC!
Ok, the first thing to say here is not to panic about this. I think we've really overcomplicated starting solids on the whole.
My personal approach to adding food to their diet is pretty simple
-Watch for signs of readiness
-Start putting some food in front of them if they're in a good mood at a time you're eating (eat together)
-Let them learn to eat by playing, licking, squeezing, smelling, throwing etc
Over the following weeks try and offer a wide variety of foods in a variety of forms, and give them plenty of opportunity to practice learning how to eat. Include common allergens early on in the process.
So where does breastfeeding come into it?
Well, ideally when you're offering food at first you want them to be in a pretty relaxed mood. So on the whole this is going to be after a breastfeed! But if, on occasion, food time is before the breastfeed don't worry. Starting solids should be a relaxing and fun affair ideally.
Some babies *reallllly* tank into food straight away, and seem to have the most enormous appetite. For these babies, it can be helpful to try and remember to offer the breast first so that they're not filling their tummy with food and missing out on milk.
Other babies just don't seem very bothered by food, and for these babies you may want to play around with offering the breast after -but I'm talking several weeks or more after starting, not after a couple of days for example. It's normal for them to take time to learn.
Lots of babies like to have a breastfeed, eat some food, then have *another* breastfeed after. And that's ok! Lots of us like a drink after eating to 'wash it down' It doesn't mean they're not getting enough food.
Remember, this isn't about getting loads of food into them right here and now, it's about learning how to eat, having an enjoyment of food, letting them practice appetite regulation, and setting up a healthy relationship with food. Until around 1 year milk is still their main source of nutrition and solid foods are there to complement their intake.
So I guess the 'too long didn't read' version is, try and offer b**b first but don't panic if not. Each baby is individual and you know them best.