Through our trusted process, Lijlanie will guide you to have those strenuous conversations in a safe space. A fresh, alternative approach to disputes, divorces and settlement negotiations. DIGNIFIED creates an environment where parties to a dispute can feel heard and gain greater understanding of the circumstances which led them to mediation. We specialize in alternative dispute resolution through mediation, ensuring a positive and respectful process for all involved. Together we will explore a workable, alternative dispute resolution process. Our aim is for you to walk away with a settlement agreement that not only resolves the current issue, but also empower you with the tools to restore the relationships involved and ensure better communication in future. Lijlanie is an AAMINZ certified Mediator and registered with the Divorce Coach Academy, New Zealand. Throughout her professional journey, she has consistently dedicated herself to serving others and fostering positive change within her community. Having initially pursued a career in law, qualifying and practicing as an attorney, notary, and conveyancer in South Africa, she developed a strong foundation in advocating for justice and navigating complex legal landscapes. SERVICES: Online or in person (RODNEY/NORTH SHORE)
MEDIATION
PRE-MEDIATION
DIVORCE COACHING
DIVORCE SETTLEMENTS
MEDIATION
When conflict has escalated to a dispute, legal action is often considered the only option. Litigation can leave parties out of pocket, frustrated and stressed. Dignified creates an environment where parties to a dispute can feel heard and gain greater understanding of the circumstances which led them to mediation. We specialize in dispute resolution through mediation, ensuring a positive and respectful process for all involved. PRE-MEDIATION COACHING
Mediation is an alternative to arbitration or litigation. Both arbitration and litigation allow a third party to decide how the dispute will be resolved. Mediation allows the parties to find the solution themselves under careful guidance of the mediator. Since the aim of mediation is to promote exploration of workable solutions for both parties, it is desirable to be prepared and equipped for the mediation process. Often parties do not know what to expect at mediation. Mediation preparation can ensure a positive mediation process. During our pre-mediation sessions, we will carefully explain the process, discuss your mediation strategy and equip you with the tools you need to negotiate a mediation agreement that will benefit all parties involved. DIVORCE COACHING
We enter into a marriage or a relationship with hope that it will go well. Relationship breakdown can be destructive, leaving parties feeling angry, hopeless or stuck. This often leads to accusations and an inability to agree on the care arrangement, division of relationship property and other associated matters. Although your marriage/relationship did not work out well, you can still divorce/separate well. Your divorce/separation does not need to cost you an arm and a leg. It certainly doesn’t have to cost you your dignity. THERE IS A BETTER WAY! Together we will navigate through the troubled waters. Lijlanie will guide you through the process, including divorce settlement negotiations and if necessary, divorce mediation to reach an amicable divorce solution. The process of divorce coaching will enable you to feel heard, to truly listen and to explore realistic and achievable terms of divorce settlement for both parties. Our aim is for you to walk away with your dignity intact, feeling empowered, with hope for the future. DIVORCE SETTLEMENTS
You may be at a point in your relationship where you believe that everything that needed to be said, has been said. You may feel that you and your partner/spouse have already agreed about all the terms of your separation. Yet, a written settlement agreement eludes you. Lijlanie will help you to make sure that all the relevant issues have been addressed. Together, we can overcome the hurdles and explore alternative solutions that are acceptable to both parties. In a cost-effective and timely manner, we can draft your settlement agreement - ready for certification by your respective lawyers.
“Yes, I have walked in your shoes.”
AREAS OF EXPERTISE
At Dignified you will experience:
• A safe environment
• Empathy
• A chance to be heard
• Navigation assistance through the troubled waters all the way to
the other side
• Communication tools
• Accountability
• Dignified outcome
• Tools to resolve conflicts before they become disputes
• Smart, achievable outcomes
• Services offered in English and Afrikaans
Contact Lijlanie for a FREE 15min phone consultation. lijlanie@dignified.co.nz
021 023 18357
www.dignified.co.nz
