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Don’t get sucked in by marketing claims 💸
10/04/2026

Don’t get sucked in by marketing claims 💸

The Ninni pacifier is being marketed as if it is somehow physiologically compatible with breastfeeding.

It is not.

And this is exactly where parents and health professionals need to become much more critical.

A product can be legally sold. A product can pass safety testing. A product can be made from medical grade silicone. A product can be advertised as breast like, latch friendly, orthodontic, breastfeeding supportive, or helpful for transition.

None of that proves that it functions like a breastfeeding baby.

That is the deception at the heart of modern infant feeding marketing.

The legal bar for a dummy or pacifier is a safety bar, not a breastfeeding physiology bar.

In Australia, baby dummies must comply with a mandatory safety standard concerned with design, construction and labelling, including matters such as shield integrity, ventilation holes, attachment and choking risk. In the United States, pacifiers must meet federal pacifier safety requirements and associated children’s product safety testing. Those standards are about preventing hazards such as choking, detachment, chemical exposure and product failure. They do not establish that a dummy protects breastfeeding, supports normal oral function, or replicates breastfeeding mechanics.

So when a company says its pacifier is “the most breast like,” “reinforces proper breastfeeding latch,” “mimics breastfeeding,” or uses “the same jaw and mouth movement as when breastfeeding,” that is not the same thing as proving physiological equivalence. Those are marketing claims. And the evidence threshold for those claims is nowhere near the threshold that should be required before reshaping how parents and clinicians understand infant oral function.

Breastfeeding is not a teat shaped object in the mouth.

Breastfeeding is a synchronised neurosensory and biomechanical process.

The healthy newborn is gently guided by the mother, with lips central over ni**le, not ni**le to nose. The mouth opens to the width of the maternal ni**le, the lips create the external seal. The ni**le is drawn along the middle sulcus of the tongue muscle as intraoral pressure increases. The baby draws the erectile/elastic maternal ni**le with a unique amount of soft, pliable breast tissue to mould a unique shape for that baby’s oral cavity. Face to breast symmetry means both nostrils contouring the breast, both cheeks touching, and the chin indenting the breast. Fine tuning is then used to optimise full potential oral cavity function and reduce the risk of ni**le trauma.

That is completely different from a dummy/pacifier.

A pacifier does not provide living, pliable breast tissue.

A pacifier does not require the same relationship between the maternal breast and the baby’s oral cavity.

A pacifier does not create face to breast symmetry.

A pacifier does not reproduce the same vacuum based draw of ni**le and breast tissue to the soft palatal cleft.

A pacifier cannot replicate the biophysiology of breastfeeding because breastfeeding is not simply “sucking on something soft.” It is a whole body maternal infant interaction involving craniocervical freedom, oral vacuum, breast tissue moulding, hormone stimulation, milk flow, swallowing, digestion and satisfaction.

When we understand newborn and young baby anatomy and physiology, we know the Ninni does not "support a better latch".

This is where the marketing becomes especially dangerous.

The Ninni brand says its pacifier is breast like, facilitates a natural latch, and reinforces proper breastfeeding "latch". But the same company also explains that the baby must work to keep it in use and must use jaw and mouth movement to maintain the pacifier. That admission matters. It tells you immediately that the device is training a compensatory pattern on a silicone object, not reproducing breastfeeding on a breast.

In practice, what do we often see when oral function is shaped by devices?

We see babies begin to rely more on anterior tongue use, the maternal ni**le is thrust into the hard bony, corrugated palate where it is subjected to repeated compression and friction.

We see reduced ability to maintain a comfortable seal at the breast.

We see slipping back onto the ni**le.

We see pointy ni**les, ridging, blanching and trauma.

We see the baby using the front of the tongue and the lower gum to manage an artificial object rather than drawing ni**le and breast tissue deeply and symmetrically with vacuum.

Introduction of oral devices increases the risk of changing the oral cavity function of the breastfeeding baby.

So no, a more expensive, more aesthetic, softer pacifier does not solve the problem.

A prettier oral device is still an oral device.

A device that “looks” more like a breast is not functioning like a breast.

And a silicone product that passes consumer safety standards has only met the minimum threshold to be sold as a pacifier. It has not earned the right to be presented as physiologically equivalent to breastfeeding.

The International Code of Marketing of Breast milk Substitutes exists because infant feeding products are aggressively marketed in ways that can undermine breastfeeding. The Code covers breast milk substitutes, feeding bottles and teats, and sets standards for how such products are marketed and labelled. UNICEF Baby Friendly materials also make clear that services should not advertise breast milk substitutes, bottles, teats, or pacifiers marketed for babies under six months, because these products and their promotion shape feeding culture and parental decision making.

This is the bigger issue.

Predatory infant feeding marketing rarely says, “stop breastfeeding.”

It says, “this is just like breastfeeding.”

It says, “best of both worlds.”

It says, “natural latch.”

It says, “breast like.”

It says, “orthodontic.”

It says, “anti colic.”

It says, “anti reflux.”

It wraps commercial products in the language of maternal reassurance, oral development and breastfeeding success.

That is exactly why health professionals must understand anatomy and physiology well enough not to repeat advertising copy as clinical truth.

If we are serious about protecting breastfeeding, then we need to stop confusing product safety with physiological suitability.

We need to stop assuming that because something is sold for babies, it supports normal infant oral function.

Stormy weather ahead ⚠️Guidance for all types of infant feeding in links of the original post. This is the time to revie...
08/04/2026

Stormy weather ahead ⚠️Guidance for all types of infant feeding in links of the original post. This is the time to review your family’s emergency plan.

Another round of stormy weather is headed our way this week.

Civil Defence Emergency Preparedness recommends that you have enough food and water for 3 days for your family (including pets).

If you find you are in an emergency situation, the following info may be helpful for you and your family.

If you are breastfeeding, keep your baby close and feed as often as they want to feed. Keep yourself hydrated and as well fed as possible.

If you are mixed feeding, get some extra support around increasing your breastmilk production. Use cup feeding rather than bottles as cups are much easier to sterilise.

If you are formula feeding, use stage 1 formula (suitable for 0-12 months), and cup feeding is recommended.

See the link in the comments for more info, and stay safe 💚🩵

Fascinating! How the messaging around “safe” sleep needs to change 💟🙏
08/04/2026

Fascinating! How the messaging around “safe” sleep needs to change 💟🙏

✨🎧Who loves a podcast?!? 🎧 ✨
Well here's one I did recently talking with the magnificent Tracy Cassels, PhD of Evolutionary Parenting about my research into safer infant sleep in shared sleep environments (aka: co-sleeping/ bedsharing).
You can listen along wherever you enjoy your podcasts.

Here's the intro-
Ep. 66: Safe Sleep Education: Is Abstinence Only the Only Way?
byTracy Cassels
If you have listened to a lot of my podcasts, you know I like to talk about sleep. It’s one of the biggest topics for parents today. And part of why we have to talk about it is because those of us is WEIRD countries – Western, educated, industrialized, rich, and democratic countries – get a very specific sleep message when we have our kids and that message is: Do NOT sleep with your children or you risk killing them. I think every new parent has heard the fear-based messaging that tells us there is nothing we can do except avoid it. And if we don’t? Well, then there’s something wrong with us as parents, right? What if the problem isn’t us, but instead lies with the messaging we’re getting? Joining me today is one of my favourite people – Carly Grubb. Carly is a PhD student at the University of the Sunshine Coast and is the lead author of the research we’ll be discussing, which looks at the safe sleep messages parents receive, how helpful these messages are, and what parents are actually looking for. She also comes to this research table from a place of advocacy. As the founder of the Beyond Sleep Training Project and Little Sparklers, Carly has heard from thousands of families around the world how hard navigating new parenting and sleep can be. Welcome back to the podcast as we dive into the touchy topic of abstinence-only sleep education.

https://evolutionaryparenting.com/evolutionary-parenting-podcast-2/

Little Sparklers The Beyond Sleep Training Project

Normalize normal infant behavior! Your baby isn’t broken.
05/04/2026

Normalize normal infant behavior! Your baby isn’t broken.

This 2024 study describes what’s normal for night-waking in nursing babies 6 to 12 months old. Not surprisingly, 97% woke and nursed at least once during the night. It’s reassuring to know that night nursing at this stage is age-appropriate, not the sign of faulty parenting or a sleep disorder.

See the full study - https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37980699/

05/04/2026

First: focus on baby’s body stability

The amount of 💸 paid to make parents worry … is staggering.
04/04/2026

The amount of 💸 paid to make parents worry … is staggering.

Formula milk marketing exploits parental anxieties about common infant behaviours such as fussiness or poor sleep.

Premium branding is paraded as having 'premium benefits', when in fact the only difference is the price.

Claims made by the formula milk industry about their products are often misleading, scientifically unsubstantiated & violate the International Code of Marketing of Breast-milk Substitutes.

WHO is calling on governments to end exploitative marketing and protect babies’ health.

They aren’t being honest. And this could negatively impact your breastfeeding journey.
02/04/2026

They aren’t being honest. And this could negatively impact your breastfeeding journey.

02/04/2026

Such an important technique! Share with a friend who is expecting. If IV fluids are given during birth, this will definitely be needed in the early days of breastfeeding.

This is challenging some of the common narrative about “allergies”
30/03/2026

This is challenging some of the common narrative about “allergies”

Are baby’s green stools a sign of gut problems? Maybe not according to this 2024 study of 1052 healthy term infants. During their first 4 months, nearly half had at least 1 week of green stools, so it is likely a normal variation. Also noteworthy: blood in their stool was found in nearly 1 in 10 healthy babies. For more on normal infant stooling patterns, see the study: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC11263225/pdf/431_2024_Article_5625.pdf

We know that breastfeeding protects breasts, but how? New research gives some important clues. TLDR: Every single month ...
28/03/2026

We know that breastfeeding protects breasts, but how? New research gives some important clues.

TLDR: Every single month of breastfeeding adds up. Frequent suckling is protective.

Check out this sneak peek into how breastfeeding prevents breast cancer. This 2024 review reveals the mechanisms that cause this major positive impact on women’s health. If you have breast cancer in your family or know someone who does, this is info you don’t want to miss: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38884025/

Source:
Mustafa M, Sarfraz S, Saleem G, Khan TA, Shahid D, Taj S, Amir N. Beyond Milk and Nurture: Breastfeeding's Powerful Impact on Breast Cancer. Geburtshilfe Frauenheilkd. 2024 Jun 13;84(6):541-554. doi: 10.1055/a-2313-0637. PMID: 38884025; PMCID: PMC11175834.

IV fluids = more weight loss in early days as baby offloads the excess fluid load. This leads to higher rates of unneces...
27/03/2026

IV fluids = more weight loss in early days as baby offloads the excess fluid load. This leads to higher rates of unnecessary formula supplementation.

Let’s talk about something that stresses a lot of new parents out… baby’s weight 💛

All babies lose some weight in the first 24 hours. If you received IV fluids during labour, your baby may lose even more, not because of feeding, but because the fluids make the birth weight look higher than it really is. So sometimes what looks like a big drop is just your baby settling into their true starting point.

Canadian research found that when the 24 hour weight is used as the baseline, more babies were exclusively breastfed in those early days.

Sometimes it’s not about fixing anything, it can be understanding what’s normal.

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For those living in pandemic quarantine, it isn’t very hard to imagine -- being surrounded with people, but unable to access any support. That’s how I started out my mothering journey. Even though I lived in Europe’s largest city, I felt like I was alone on an island. I couldn’t speak the local language. I didn’t know where to turn. This experience 20 years ago launched my passion for supporting mothers and babies.

First, I reached out and found support for myself. Then, I started getting calls from other isolated mothers who just wanted to talk. Before long, I was going to lactation conferences (for fun, while on vacation!) and building a lending library. In 2002, I founded the Moscow Mommy Milk Meetup, a weekly get-together for mothers in my city. Several years later, this group transformed into Russia’s first La Leche League group, led by Katya Lokshina, a friend, a fellow breastfeeding enthusiast, and Russia’s first LLL Leader.

After more than a decade of calling Russia home, my family moved to Minsk. There, I started a similar mother support group, which blossomed into the first LLL group in Belarus, led by Olya Prominski, the first LLL Leader in that country. Just before our next relocation to Kyiv, I passed the exam to become the first IBCLC in that corner of the world. Since then, I have maintained close contact with the network of lactation professionals in the former Soviet Union. These women are doing incredible work under complex conditions. They continue to inspire me!

In 2011, we exchanged globe-trotting for the peaceful beauty of Aotearoa, and are happily settled into our new lives as proud Kiwis. In Auckland, I’ve worked as a parent educator and a lactation consultant. This included time in private practice, as well as several years in a busy breastfeeding clinic, working with a doctor who specializes in Breastfeeding Medicine. In short, I’ve seen it all with regards to the challenges faced by parents.