29/06/2025
As we start another school holiday stint today, remember to make sure to honor your own inner child within your time with your children these holidays. The pressure to entertain/occupy kids who are not usually around while you juggle the normal life stuff, house and work through the holidays can feel torturous sometimes, make space for that for yourself!
Boundaries in our lives continue to evolve and change, if you're feeling stressed around your kiddos, there is likely some kind of need or boundary for yourself you might be overlooking...
"Boundaries make us like our kids more even though we always love them"
Boundaries are something that are organically created to respond to external stimulus and threat, the ones and ways we did as a child will follow us if left unchecked. If we are not conscious of the ways we might move between our own parent, adult and child ego states, we can be making life harder for ourselves through the conditioned pressure to 'maytr ourselves to motherhood'. Building awareness of your internal scripts is POWERFUL.
If you can, make sure you spend some time in ‘mutual sites of fulfillment’ with your tamariki over the next fortnight, something that fills your cup as well as theirs. We sometimes pressure ourselves to create memories for our kiddos in these times, but to make that work, it pays to consider our own inner child as well. It's when we can scaffold and contain that well that we are best served to take our ‘mum hat’ off and just enjoy playing with our kids ✨️💜
Happy school holiday memory making (and sanity protecting) mama's. If the journey requires you to compartmentalize some rar energy, (let's be real, it probably will) then you're welcome to save it up to come burn with us before school goes back 😉 Matariki Women's Circle - Burning the Feminine Rage Sat 12/7 6-9pm Social Nexus HQ 🔥👯♀️🧹