11/04/2026
If it’s loud and scary outside, a little extra attention is helpful.
How to help your child find calm in the storm.
It’s going to be a hectic weekend for many kiwis.
With Cyclone Vaianu approaching, our hearts go out to every every family and we hope everyone is keeping their heads down and staying safe.
Weather can be a traumatic and triggering condition for many neurodivergent kids. Darkness + Anxiety + Howling Winds can be a terrifying combination for sensitive minds.
It seems like our children can feel the conditions before they arrive.
The drop in pressure. The howl of wind against glass. The shift in routine that nobody announced, but their body still registered it hours ago.
Neurodivergent children don’t just notice storms. They absorb them.
If your child is more agitated, more tearful, more wired than usual, they’re not being difficult. And they’re certainly not overreacting. Their nervous system is just doing exactly what it was built to do: sounding the alarm when the world stops being predictable.
Two things that can help right now:
1.Shrink their world. One room. Low light. Familiar sounds such a playlist they know, a TV show they’ve seen before. Novelty is the enemy tonight. Predictability is the anchor.
2.Name what’s happening before they have to. “There’s a big storm coming. It might be loud. We’re safe, and we’re staying right here.” When children can’t name the threat, they will invent one. When you talk about it in an open way, you can stop their imagination going into overdrive.
You can’t stop the wind, but you can still be the shelter.
Stay safe everyone 🙏🏻.