25/09/2025
My Dad passed away early this morning 😭💔 This evening he turned up in my friends TikTok live when she was doing mediumship.
A year ago doctors had given him days to weeks to live. My siblings and I moved everything out of his flat and moved him into Aria Gardens Rest Home. There he stayed, being well cared for by beautiful people who made sure he got everything he needed. As days turned to weeks he started to regain some strength and mobility then weeks turned to months and here we are 1 year later.
While he was still in the hospital we talked openly and honestly about death. We discussed what would happen and I shared with him the 7 minute story. At the moment of death there are 7 minutes where the brain is still active. In those 7 minutes your life, your loved ones and important events are shown to you. I know that this morning me, my siblings and whanau/aiga where part of his last 7 minutes 😭💔💫✨️
Dad turning up in my friends kitchen tonight bold as brass, cracking jokes with a huge smile. That got me laughing and crying as she described him to us. Of course he was going to choose Jaz to send us a message. Love you Dad, I wont wait up xoxox