20/05/2026
Here’s a pretty awesome story of a new university graduate who has had many of the same experiences as countless other young women growing up and having their needs dismissed throughout school!
(Am I also shamelessly sharing because she’s my lifetime bestie and I’m incredibly proud of her….perhaps… 🥹)
"My high school teachers told me I would never graduate university, yet here I am."
Emily graduated this week as the first member of her family to earn a university degree. With two majors, no less.
Growing up, her main goal was to finish high school because no one else in her family had. But life threw some curveballs in the form of chronic illness, an undiagnosed learning difference, parenthood (a lovely curveball - hello mum of four 👋) and a teacher who publicly humiliated her writing in front of the class.
“I wanted to be a writer, until my English teacher read my work to the class, picked it apart and used it as an example of what not to do. I stopped writing after that.”
As the years went by, she studied and worked on and off, navigated parenthood, survived the Christchurch earthquakes, rebuilt a life in Melbourne and found her love of reading again while working in a bookshop. Then covid hit.
“I fell ill at work and spent the next four weeks incredibly sick. After that I never regained my ability to do so many of the things I was so used to doing.
“I was still an avid reader and I still had dreams of becoming a published author. So, after a mad dash to get all the relevant documentation, I enrolled in Massey University’s Creative Writing program as a distance student.”
She studied through hospital visits, medical trials and mum-life, becoming the first person in her family to graduate this week. 26 years after finishing high school.
“I couldn’t have done it without the loving support and constant encouragement of my partner Chloe, to whom I read aloud every piece I wrote, from short poems to 4000-word essays, often multiple times.”
Bring on her masters degree! Congrats Emily 👏