Transitions Counselling

Transitions Counselling Sharon
Professional Counsellor, PMNZCCA

We welcome you to book an appointment at your convenience! One-on-one counselling is available by appointment only.

https://bookings.gettimely.com/transitionscounselling/bb/book Offering a professional, client-centred counselling service based in Selwyn, New Zealand. Rooted in person-centred and narrative therapy approaches, this practice provides a warm, inclusive, and non-judgmental space for individuals and couples seeking support across a wide range of emotional, psychological, and relational challenges. With a strong focus on emotional healing, personal growth, and empowerment, clients receive compassionate, evidence-based care tailored to their unique journey. Areas of focus include (but are not limited to):
Abuse & Trauma | Anger & Violence | Anxiety & Panic Attacks | Attachment Issues | Bullying | Depression & Low Mood | Fears & Phobias | Identity & Belonging | Life Transitions & Change | Parenting Support | Relationship Challenges | Self-Esteem | Workplace Stress & Burnout | Sexual Abuse | Church Abuse | Immigration Challenges

I also founded and facilitated a support group for individuals living with Invisible Illnesses, Dynamic Disabilities, and Chronic Pain conditions, such as Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, Hashimoto’s, Lipedema, Long Covid, CRPS, Celiac Disease, Cancer, Dysthymia, and more. Please note: This page is here to offer general mental health inspiration, a few smiles, and wellness education—it is not a substitute for counselling advice or therapeutic support.

22/09/2025
🦋Our bodies remember what our minds try to forget. Trauma can quietly block the flow between us — within our own systems...
21/09/2025

🦋Our bodies remember what our minds try to forget. Trauma can quietly block the flow between us — within our own systems and in connection with others. As we gently release lymphatic congestion, we often unlock long-held emotional pain, creating space for deeper healing, safety, and more authentic relationships with ourselves and others🦋

💥 Trauma & Lymphatic Congestion: The Hidden Link Between Emotional Wounds and Physical Stagnation

Trauma is often seen as invisible — something carried in the nervous system, the subconscious, or the soul. But what if trauma also leaves its imprint in the body’s physical landscape — in the lymphatic system, the body’s silent river of detoxification and immunity?

Modern research is uncovering a profound mind-body connection, showing how unresolved trauma may contribute to lymphatic dysfunction, systemic inflammation, and chronic illness. Understanding this link could transform how we approach both healing and lymphatic care.

🧠 Trauma Is a Physiological Experience — Not Just Psychological

Trauma isn’t just “in your head.” According to Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, author of The Body Keeps the Score, trauma literally reshapes both brain and body. It can leave the nervous system in a chronic state of fight, flight, freeze, or fawn, activating the sympathetic nervous system long after the danger has passed.

This dysregulation:
• Elevates cortisol and adrenaline
• Disrupts the vagus nerve (which modulates inflammation and lymphatic flow)
• Impairs immune regulation
• Affects fluid metabolism and neuroimmune communication

🌀 How Trauma May Contribute to Lymphatic Congestion

The lymphatic system is a low-pressure drainage network that relies on movement, breath, hydration, and nervous system balance to function optimally. When trauma disrupts these elements, it may lead to chronic lymph stagnation.

Here’s how trauma affects lymphatic flow:

1. Chronic Sympathetic Activation

Trauma can place the body in a sustained state of sympathetic overdrive, which:
• Constricts lymphatic vessels (they’re surrounded by smooth muscle and innervated by autonomic nerves)
• Reduces peristalsis of lymph
• Inhibits detoxification of cellular waste and inflammatory proteins

🔬 A 2021 study published in Nature Immunology confirmed that neuroinflammation can inhibit lymphatic drainage from the brain via the glymphatic system, impairing both detoxification and cognition.
Reference: Da Mesquita et al., Nature Immunology, 2021

2. Vagal Tone and Lymphatic Coordination

The vagus nerve plays a key role in immune modulation and anti-inflammatory signaling. Trauma lowers vagal tone, impairing:
• Lymphangiogenesis (formation of new lymph vessels)
• Lymphatic pumping via diaphragmatic movement
• Gut-lymph communication (critical in trauma survivors with gut issues)

🧠 Reduced vagal activity is linked to impaired lymphatic clearance in neurodegenerative conditions like Alzheimer’s.
Reference: Benveniste et al., Science Translational Medicine, 2017

3. Myofascial Freezing and Lymphatic Blockage

Trauma often lives in the fascia — the connective tissue that houses many lymphatic vessels. When fascia becomes restricted (through protective bracing, dissociation, or fear-based posturing), lymphatic vessels may become compressed, reducing drainage.

⚠️ Studies using manual therapy and somatic release have shown measurable improvements in lymphatic flow following fascial and craniosacral techniques.
Reference: Schleip et al., Journal of Bodywork and Movement Therapies, 2020

🌿 Healing the Lymphatic System Through Trauma-Informed Approaches

If trauma can congest the lymphatic system, then healing trauma may liberate lymphatic flow — and vice versa.

1. Manual Lymphatic Drainage (MLD)

Gentle and rhythmic, MLD stimulates superficial lymph vessels, and has been shown to:
• Reduce sympathetic dominance
• Soothe the vagus nerve
• Calm the limbic system
• Alleviate emotional overwhelm

2. Somatic Experiencing & Polyvagal Therapy

Therapies that gently restore nervous system regulation support lymphatic flow by:
• Improving breath depth and diaphragm movement
• Restoring fluidity to fascia and interstitial spaces
• Encouraging parasympathetic (rest/digest) dominance

3. Trauma-Sensitive Detox Protocols

Flooding the body with detoxification can be too much for a frozen system. Trauma-aware protocols prioritize:
• Slow drainage support
• Liver and gut pacing
• Emotional safety
• Electrolyte and nervous system support

🧩 The Mind-Lymph Connection: A New Frontier

The overlap between trauma and lymphatic congestion highlights a truth that’s long been whispered in holistic healing: The body remembers. The lymphatic system may be the bridge between unprocessed emotional pain and chronic physical illness.

Healing is never one-dimensional. When we support the lymph, we support the release of physical toxins — but often, we also invite the release of stored trauma, emotional patterns, and old pain.

📚 Key Research References:
• van der Kolk, B. A. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score. Penguin.
• Da Mesquita, S. et al. (2021). Neuroimmune responses regulate meningeal lymphatic drainage. Nature Immunology.
• Benveniste, H. et al. (2017). Glymphatic function in humans measured with MRI. Science Translational Medicine.
• Schleip, R. et al. (2020). Fascial tissue research in sports medicine. Journal of Bodywork and Movement Therapies.

🩺 Disclaimer:

This article is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your healthcare provider before making changes to your health regimen, particularly when dealing with trauma or chronic illness.

©️Lymphatica - Lymphatic Therapy and Body Detox Centre

16/09/2025

🥄🥄The Spoon Theory & Mental Health Self-Care🥄🥄

The **Spoon Theory** is a metaphor created by Christine Miserandino to explain how people with chronic illnesses or disabilities manage limited energy each day. In this theory, *spoons* represent units of energy. Every task—getting out of bed, showering, working, socializing—costs a spoon. Once the spoons are gone, you’re out of energy for the day.

While originally used to describe physical conditions like EDS, lupus or chronic fatigue, the Spoon Theory is also useful for those dealing with anxiety, depression, or other mental health challenges. These conditions often make everyday tasks exhausting or overwhelming, just like physical illness does.

🍀Using Spoon Theory for Mental Health:🍀

* **Track your spoons**:
Be mindful of how much energy tasks take, and don’t feel guilty for saying no or needing rest.

* **Prioritize**:
Focus your spoons on what truly matters that day—sometimes that’s just surviving.

* **Plan ahead**:
If a big event is coming, rest before and after.

* **Practice self-compassion**:
It’s okay to run low on spoons. It's not laziness—it's energy management.

In this way, the Spoon Theory becomes a powerful tool for self-care, boundary-setting, and understanding your limits, no matter the type of health challenge you're facing.

Miserandino, Christine. The Spoon Theory. But You Don’t Look Sick, 2003.

Speaking or writing about your experiences is a key step toward healing, understanding, and transformation.Here’s why it...
15/09/2025

Speaking or writing about your experiences is a key step toward healing, understanding, and transformation.

Here’s why it matters and what it can do for you:

🌱 1. It helps you make sense of your experiences
When you speak your story, you begin to organize and understand what happened to you. Trauma, pain, or even confusing life events often stay jumbled in our minds. Putting them into words gives shape and meaning to the chaos.
“If you don’t tell your story, it tells you.”

🧠 2. It unfreezes trapped memories
As Bessel Van der Kolk (a trauma specialist) explains, traumatic memories can become "frozen" in time—stuck in the body and mind. Speaking about them allows you to process and integrate them, making them less overwhelming.

💬 3. It gives you back your voice
If you’ve ever felt silenced, ignored, or ashamed, telling your story is a way to reclaim your agency and power. You’re no longer a passive character in someone else’s narrative—you become the author of your own.

🤝 4. It builds connection
Sharing your story with safe, trusted people creates connection and empathy. It can remind you that you’re not alone and that others have felt pain, too. Being witnessed in your truth is incredibly healing.

🔄 5. It opens the door to change
Once your story is out in the open, you can reframe it, see patterns, and imagine new outcomes. It’s not just about what happened—it's about how you carry it forward. That’s where transformation begins.
How to Begin Speaking Your Story
You don’t have to start big. Here are small, safe ways to begin:
Write in a journal, just for yourself.
Record a voice note to get your thoughts out.
Share a piece of your experience with a friend, therapist, or support group.
Use art, poetry, or music if words are too hard at first.

Silence isn’t strength
13/09/2025

Silence isn’t strength

🔥 Inflammation Has a MemoryHow Your Body ‘Remembers’ Pain and Triggers Future Flare-UpsHave you ever wondered why an old...
09/09/2025

🔥 Inflammation Has a Memory

How Your Body ‘Remembers’ Pain and Triggers Future Flare-Ups

Have you ever wondered why an old injury starts aching again out of nowhere… or why the same joints keep flaring up, even when there’s no obvious trigger? Science is starting to explain what lymph therapists and trauma-informed practitioners have seen for years:

Inflammation has a memory.
And your body remembers.

🧬 The Science Behind “Trained Immunity”

Unlike traditional immunological memory (like how your body remembers a virus), trained immunity refers to how innate immune cells—especially monocytes and macrophages—change their behavior long-term after a strong inflammatory event.

These cells undergo epigenetic reprogramming, meaning their DNA isn’t altered, but how it’s expressed is. This causes them to become primed—more reactive in the future.

🔎 Research shows that:
• Inflammatory triggers (like infection, injury, or trauma) leave “immunological fingerprints” on immune cells.
• These changes persist, increasing the risk of future chronic inflammation—even in unrelated tissues.
• This may help explain chronic pain, autoimmune relapses, and lymphatic stagnation after emotional or physical trauma.

📚 Source: Netea MG et al. (2020), “Trained Immunity: A Tool for Reducing Susceptibility to and the Severity of SARS-CoV-2 Infection,” Cell.
📚 Divangahi M et al. (2021), “The Trained Immunity Hypothesis and Covid-19,” Nat Rev Immunol.

💥 Why Old Injuries Flare Up Again

Many patients say things like:

“My car accident was 10 years ago… why does that same shoulder still swell?”
“My C-section scar aches when I’m stressed or hormonal.”

This is not in their head.
Research shows that inflammatory cytokines can be rapidly reactivated in previously injured tissues, even if the original injury is healed.

Lymphatic congestion often follows because the lymph system is the body’s drainage highway for excess inflammation. If the body “remembers” where inflammation once was, it may send immune cells and fluid there again—even when unnecessary.

🤯 The Emotional Link: Your Body Remembers Trauma

This cellular memory isn’t just physical—it can also be emotional. Studies in psychoneuroimmunology show that emotional trauma and chronic stress can leave lasting immune imprints.
• Cortisol dysregulation
• Persistent microglial (brain immune cell) activation
• Increased inflammatory gene expression in response to psychological stress

📚 Slavich GM & Cole SW (2013), “The Emerging Field of Human Social Genomics,” Clinical Psychological Science.

This may explain why many lymphies feel flare-ups in times of grief, heartbreak, or stress. The body isn’t broken—it’s remembering.

🌿 What Can You Do?

Healing inflammatory memory takes a gentle, layered approach. It’s not about suppressing the body’s responses—it’s about rewiring them.

🌀 Lymphatic Therapy
• Manual drainage helps flush residual cytokines and immune debris.
• Supports better regulation of immune cell trafficking and drainage of trauma-related congestion.

🌿 Castor Oil Packs
• Shown to modulate prostaglandins and reduce localized inflammation.
• Excellent for scar tissue areas and old injury sites.

🧘 Somatic Release & Nervous System Work
• Vagus nerve stimulation, breathwork, and trauma-informed bodywork help calm the inflammatory reflex and teach the body a new baseline.

🍽️ Anti-Inflammatory & Epigenetic Foods
• Polyphenols (like turmeric, ginger, and green tea) can help reverse inflammatory gene expression.
• Methylation-supportive nutrients (B vitamins, magnesium, choline) aid in DNA repair and immune regulation.

🧡 Final Thoughts:

Your body isn’t betraying you.
It’s just remembering—and trying to protect you the only way it knows how.

But healing is possible. With every lymphatic flush, every breath, every act of nourishment and rest—you’re not just managing symptoms. You’re gently teaching your body a new story:

One of safety. One of peace. One of release.

📚 Research References:
1. Netea MG et al. (2020). “Trained Immunity: A Tool for Reducing Susceptibility to and the Severity of SARS-CoV-2 Infection.” Cell, 181(5), 969-977. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.cell.2020.04.042
2. Divangahi M et al. (2021). “The Trained Immunity Hypothesis and Covid-19.” Nature Reviews Immunology, 21, 75–76.
3. Slavich GM, Cole SW. (2013). “The Emerging Field of Human Social Genomics.” Clinical Psychological Science, 1(3), 331–348.
4. Arts RJ et al. (2018). “Trained immunity: consequences for the heterologous effects of BCG vaccination.” Trans R Soc Trop Med Hyg, 112(1), 1–5.

©️Lymphatica - Lymphatic Therapy and Body Detox Facility

08/09/2025

“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.”

Maya Angelou

Have a great week everyone 😆☕️😆
07/09/2025

Have a great week everyone 😆☕️😆

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