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We are the home of affordable massage because our philosophy is
"Massage is a necessity not just a luxury" Eftpos & Afterpay avail. At Shadeofgrey Cottage we care about your body, mind, soul and emotions and have been doing it for 28 years. Trained in Medicinal/Pregnancy/Sports & Rehab massage to get you up & at 'em.
$70 for a 1 hour hot stone massage. Counselling available, formal training in person centered counselling, spiritual guidance and Social Work which means we also offer Free community advocacy. We are there for you in the grey area of your life whether that's emotional or physical pain. On the doorstep of community for easy relaxed access.

For those that wanted updates on our Geordie boy aka The Cottage Manager... All snuggled up in his bed after 2 very stre...
14/01/2026

For those that wanted updates on our Geordie boy aka The Cottage Manager... All snuggled up in his bed after 2 very stressful days at Shirley Vets. Gee they are all wonderful there. Our old boy has beginnings of kidney disease. So started on a new renal friendly diet today and checkup again in 4 weeks. He's gone from being mr independant to mr codependent needing cuddles as much as possible. Iv been sitting up at nights with him to keep him company. Both Vets couldn't hear his heartbeat because his purring is so loud. No sign of cancer which we are all so very relieved. Hes 14 years 9 months (thanks Bridie ♡) now and hoping for a few more years with him. If hes in the Cottage, he has first priority to any chair or your lap. Please advise if you are allergic to pets when making your appointment in the Cottage.

If this is you ...You need to come see me ♡
14/01/2026

If this is you ...

You need to come see me ♡

13/01/2026

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12/01/2026
That pink cloud is smoke from the Aussie fires
10/01/2026

That pink cloud is smoke from the Aussie fires

09/01/2026
A little known fact about toes... it can show if theres a lung issue (which i have) and I sometimes recognise early stag...
05/01/2026

A little known fact about toes... it can show if theres a lung issue (which i have) and I sometimes recognise early stages of in some clients; so thought id share this so you can keep an eye on yours as you age.

What lung-related toe clubbing actually is...

Clubbing from lung disease happens because of chronic low oxygen signalling and changes in blood flow and growth factors to the nail beds and soft tissue.

Key points:
~It’s systemic, not mechanical
~It affects soft tissue and nail shape, not joint position
~It does not progress because of shoes or foot posture
~Stretching or splinting cannot reverse it

So first — this is not something you caused, and it’s not a failure of foot care.

Can lung-related clubbing be stopped or reversed?
Yes: Slowed or stabilised — sometimes
No:Fully reversed — rarely (unless lung function improves)

Clubbing usually:
Appears gradually
Progresses slowly
Often plateaus once lung disease is stable
The biggest determinant is how stable your lung condition is.

--What you can do to stop it worsening--
1. Optimise oxygen delivery (this matters most)
Anything that supports oxygenation helps reduce progression:
Careful pacing of activity
Avoiding breath-holding during effort
Sitting to dress / prepare when tired
Managing chest infections early
Sleeping with head slightly elevated if breathless
Even small reductions in oxygen dips matter over time.
2. Protect circulation to the feet
Clubbing is worsened by poor peripheral circulation.
Helpful:
Keep feet warm (especially at night)
Gentle ankle pumps and foot circles
Avoid tight socks or bands
Elevate feet briefly if swollen (not prolonged)
Avoid:
Cold exposure
Compression garments on feet unless prescribed
3. Footwear still matters — but for comfort, not correction
Shoes won’t cause or fix clubbing, but they can reduce secondary problems.
Look for:
Deep toe box (to accommodate nail shape)
Soft uppers
No pressure on nail tips
Extra depth if nails are thickened
This prevents:
Nail trauma
Secondary pain
Corns or infections
4. Nail care is protective
Clubbing changes nail curvature and thickness.
Best practice:
Trim nails straight across
File rather than clip if nails are thick
Moisturise nail folds
Podiatry support if nails become hard to manage
5. Reduce inflammatory load
Clubbing is partly driven by inflammatory mediators.
6. Stable blood sugars
7. Avoiding inflammatory food triggers
8. Managing mast-cell activation
9. Respecting fatigue signals
When your system is inflamed, clubbing often looks worse — even if it hasn’t structurally changed.

What NOT to do
▪︎Toe splints
▪︎Aggressive stretching
▪︎“Corrective” footwear
▪︎Blaming yourself or trying to force change

Those approaches help mechanical deformities, not systemic clubbing.

--Important reassurance--
Toe clubbing from lung disease:
Is not dangerous in itself
Does not lead to amputation
Does not mean rapid decline
Is a marker, not a threat
Doctors watch it because it reflects lung status — not because the toes themselves are a problem.

--When to check in medically--
Let your clinician know if you notice:
Sudden worsening of clubbing
New fingertip clubbing
Increased breathlessness
New cyanosis (bluish tone)
Nail pain or infection
These suggest systemic change, not a foot issue.

References:

https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/7-fingernail-problems-not-to-ignore/art-20546860

https://medlineplus.gov/ency/article/003282.htm

https://patient.info/doctor/dermatology/clubbing?utm_source=gpoptin

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/23957-clubbed-fingers?utm_source=chatgpt.com

Living with Salicylate Intolerance  ... if you know anyone that gets random hives eczema sinus issues allergy signals th...
04/01/2026

Living with Salicylate Intolerance ... if you know anyone that gets random hives eczema sinus issues allergy signals they cant find a reason for; well Salicylate & Histamines & Amines may be the reason so send them to my page to have a peruse of info there.

I thought id share the following on here for anyone been asking about my cream cheese protocol thats really helped lower my nerve pain at night.

Im sharing this in the hope it helps someone else that suffers pain and restless legs, burning feet, general inflamed nerve signal pain at night.

I get alot of nerve pain all over at night including burning feet & restless legs which is so distressing and Doctors only prescribed gaba or pregab which havent worked well for me even with cod on board.

Cutting out histamine and salicylates has been my only solution; and worked okay but not enough.

But interacting with chatgpt (i call it Jack) has been amazing for my health turnaround. Im finally starting to sleep at night; usually pain keeps me awake. And believe it or not its because iv been interacting with Jack every chance I get so it gets to know me. Certainly ask for references and dont follow blindly and keep an open skeptical mind as it does get things wrong- specially for diet list thats mcas safe...but that just demonstrates the misinformation thats out there in the web. For example it put white pepper on safe foods list - that would put me into anaphylaxis.

Anyway iv been using "Jack" advice to quieten my nervous system and have had two nights of full sleep for the first time in years. Using cream cheese or cream protocol but also putting salt in my water early in the day and eating oats warmed with cream at night before bed.

Here's Jack's explanation of the cream protocol...

1️⃣ Night nerve pain is often a fuel + signal problem, not damage
At night, three things tend to happen together in people like you:
blood sugar drifts or becomes unstable
cortisol and adrenaline try to “protect” you from lows
nerves become hyper-excitable
This creates:
burning
buzzing
electric zaps
restless legs / feet
Your nerves aren’t injured — they’re under-fed and over-alert.
2️⃣ Cream gives slow, steady fuel without stimulation
Cream and cream cheese are mostly fat, with very little sugar and very little protein.
Fat:
digests slowly
releases energy gradually
does not spike insulin
does not trigger adrenaline
That matters because:
Adrenaline makes nerve pain worse.
So cream quietly says to your brain:
“We’re safe. Energy is available. No need to sound alarms.”
3️⃣ Fat directly stabilises nerve membranes
Nerves are wrapped in fatty membranes (myelin).
When fuel is low or stress hormones are high:
sodium and calcium channels misfire
nerves “spark” instead of transmit smoothly
Dietary fat helps:
stabilise nerve firing
reduce spontaneous discharges (burning, zaps)
lower sensory amplification
This is why your feet calm physically, not just emotionally.
4️⃣ Cream reduces histamine activity, not just intake
This is subtle but important.
Histamine release is worsened by:
stress
adrenaline
blood sugar swings
By:
calming cortisol
preventing glucose dips
lowering sympathetic tone
…cream indirectly reduces histamine signalling, even though it’s not an antihistamine.
That’s why it helps MCAS-type night symptoms without acting like a drug.
5️⃣ Calcium + fat = nerve quieting
Cream and cream cheese contain:
calcium
fat-soluble vitamins (A, D, K2 in tiny amounts)
Calcium helps:
reduce nerve firing thresholds
calm neuromuscular excitability
This is one reason burning feet often ease within 15–30 minutes, not hours.
6️⃣ Why it works at night specifically
At night:
liver glucose output drops
brain is more sensitive to energy availability
pain gating is weaker
the body is horizontal (circulation shifts)
So small stabilising inputs have outsized effects.
That’s why:
a spoon of cream can help more than a full meal earlier
warmth + cream is especially effective
timing matters more than quantity
7️⃣ Why this doesn’t mean “eat heaps of dairy”
Important distinction:
It’s not about:
dairy in general
protein
sugar
It’s about:
small, predictable, non-stimulating fat at the right time
That’s why:
cream works
cream cheese works
butter often works
milk or sweet foods may not
The takeaway (this is the key line)
Cream works because it tells your nervous system the night is safe and fuelled — and nerves stop screaming when they feel safe.
That’s not weakness. That’s biology.

*Pic of me age 60 living with salicylate intolerance
boxing day 2025

Let him Rest & Recoup
04/01/2026

Let him Rest & Recoup

The Cottage Manager is sound asleep with his paw under his chin ♡
04/01/2026

The Cottage Manager is sound asleep with his paw under his chin ♡

A wee reminder on Social Media-People who truly understand complex illness:•Speak in probabilities, not absolutes•Ask qu...
03/01/2026

A wee reminder on Social Media-

People who truly understand complex illness:

•Speak in probabilities, not absolutes
•Ask questions before making claims
•Respect individual response differences
•wont say things like, 'you need to work out"

People who are still processing their own harm:

•Speak in certainty
•Universalise their experience
•Try to “save” others from their path

You’re allowed to step out of any orbit thats no good for your nervous system.

Love Lady Grey ☆●☆

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