Moving into a Rest Home can be difficult and adjusting takes time. Making new friends also takes time and effort. Over time, we develop a sense of what really works for each person. We discover what he or she likes to do most, most active times of day, and times when he or she likes to rest. We explore, discover, and initiate what works best for each person. This will often reflect past activity patterns and interests. People are encouraged to continue with familiar roles, arranging flowers, setting the table, peeling the vegetables, hanging out washing, raking up the leaves in the autumn, or planting a vegetable patch. Active participation in the familiar activities of daily life gives people a purpose in life. They are involved in the running of their home, and feel valued and appreciated. Our residents enjoy weekly van outings to various destinations. The hairdresser visits weekly. Sing-a-longs are enjoyed by many. We have fortnightly church services. Family become part of the community we have. They can be involved in their loved ones’ care. They are encouraged to share their in-depth and intimate knowledge of their loved one. There is much honesty and openness. This builds trusting relationships between us all. Family are always welcome and there is an open invitation to stay for a meal. We offer family the opportunity to be part of a monthly support group. An independent facilitator facilitates this group. This is an opportunity to be with people who know what it is like to have a family member with dementia. The journey which involves many struggles and joys can be shared with others. We realise that visiting can sometimes be difficult. We encourage family to speak to our trained staff members if they are experiencing difficulties of any kind. We really enjoy assisting family to make visits go well.
