13/02/2026
So well said....this will speak to a number of you who say 'I must get to bed earlier'.
I just read that the average NZer gets to bed between 10.48pm and 11.29pm, and this is on the early side in terms of bedtimes.
If this is you and you are overly hungry, are struggling with cravings, if you are seeking caffeine, sugar or salty carbs, if you’re missing too many training sessions to make any real progress in the gym, or you’re getting there but not able to be productive - get to bed earlier.
Most of us have a fixed get-up time due to kids, work, etc and it’s easy to feel resigned to the fact that you’ll have less than ideal amount of sleep because you’ve chosen to stay up for another episode, or pottering around the house or scrolling on social media. These aren’t necessarily bad, and at the time it feels like self care because you’re finally doing something for yourself after a busy day of doing all the things for everyone else at home and at work.
I get that, but actually, you are just digging a hole for yourself that can be difficult to get out of.
Continual sleep restriction wreaks havoc on your hormones. Insulin increases, ghrelin (our hunger hormone) increases, leptin decreases (both of these impact on hunger and appetite, you get increases sympathetic nervous system activation (feel on edge), evening cortisol can be elevated and this therefore impacts on melatonin release. Which can perpetuate that viscous cycle you are in.
The net effect over the long term is not only reduced energy and activity, increased irritability, anxiety and food intake, but in the long term has serious implications for metabolic health markers that directly impact your long term health: increased risk of cardiovascular disease, type 2 diabetes, cancer, all cause mortality. Even if it doesn’t feel like it at the time.
Can you get to bed earlier? More time in bed allows more time for sleep that directly and positively impacts on all of these factors. Even if it is 20 minutes earlier, that is the potential of an additional 2 hours sleep a week. That’s not nothing and hopefully doesn’t impact the cadence of your evening too much.
And keep in your mind that real self care isn’t the hit you get from social media. It’s discipline that gets you to bed earlier.