25/04/2026
Can birth be pleasurable? Ecstatic? Even healing?
In this deeply honest conversation, Valentina interviews me about my home birth experience — a birth that was powerful, peaceful, deeply embodied… and yes, pleasurable.
For years I hesitated to share this story because I never wanted women who experienced difficult births, interventions, miscarriages, or C-sections to feel shame.
This episode is not about perfection.
It is about possibility.
We explore:
✨ why modern birth has become so fear-based
✨ how the nervous system impacts labor
✨ why resistance creates pain
✨ the role of safety, hormones, and environment in birth
✨ my experience of a 4.5-hour ecstatic water birth
✨ healing birth trauma
✨ why difficult births are not failures
✨ how mothers can reclaim trust in their bodies
We also speak about miscarriage, medical separation after birth, ancestral trauma, and why nothing is ever truly lost.
Birth is an initiation.
And every initiation asks the same question:
Can you surrender the mind and trust the body?
If your birth experience was difficult, please hear this clearly:
There is no shame.
There is no failure.
There is no mistake.
Your story still matters.
What If Birth Could Feel Like Power Instead of Pain