21/11/2025
G R I E F
This time of year. Where the veils thin. Magic is connective in the senses πΏ we bask in the beauty of the elements and the rising warmth π and we also feel a little more through these thinning veils to loved ones been and gone β¨οΈ
Grief is the very heaviness that weighs you down. Sits thick on your lungs. Stops you from breathing the joy you know to be π
And that is it. The opposite of grief. Is joy π but how to you transmute grief into joy? πΏ by celebrating π
You turn that loved one into your senses of celebration β¨οΈ you ask yourself questions like, what smells are they, what tastes are they, what sights are they, what motion reminds you of them, what touch are they, what sounds are they, in nature or in music, what colours are they π
then you begin to collect your celebration of them to integrate into your daily, weekly, cycles and seasons of life. And the grief transmutes into joy π
You find yourself visiting their favourite holiday spot in the warmer days, cooking their favourite meal, eating their favourite foods, playing their music, sipping their favourite bevage, admiring the colour they would wear and celebrate. And even if they weren't their favourite, what reminds you of them would also be here to celebrate πΏ
Because grief is an empty space, of the joy you once expressed with them. With the presence of their spirit, being and soul. Wrapped in a physical body. And now you celebrate that space into joy and through this transmution your connection with them becomes clearer. Closer. More connective than before π and that is all they want. To be closer to you too π
So come, celebrate your beauty upon this Earth π lift your heart to the heavens π