09/01/2026
Who are you when no one needs you?
I was asked this recently, and I have to admit - it hit a nerve. It’s such a simple question, but it’s also so revealing. Many of us spend our days holding space for others, solving problems, caring for everyone else… and rarely give ourselves permission to simply be.
When there’s no one to care for, no role to perform, no expectations to meet, it can feel unfamiliar - even uncomfortable. The body, used to staying alert and responsive, often struggles to fully let go.
When the body is given the right conditions - warmth, steady and intentional touch, and a slow, unhurried pace - it can gradually release tension. Breathing deepens, muscles soften, and the nervous system begins to settle.
Our Nervous System Relaxation Massage is designed to support this process, helping your body downshift from constant alertness and enter a state of deep, restorative calm.
Book with Either Jay, Nicole or myself - and come back to you.
07 8552665
9 Lynden Court - Unit 12
www.vitalbalance.co.nz