17/02/2026
Today on Lush Ground, I'm talking about the Art of Vulnerability.
My journey with vulnerability has been a long and painful one. All of the many set backs, heartbreaks and betrayals felt like confirmation of my deepest fear… that I am unworthy and unlovable. I also didn’t trust others to have my back or stand by me when I was struggling or when I didn’t have much to give because I was on fumes.
What I know for sure is that my beliefs will always manifest in my reality… for better or worse. I look for evidence to support my narratives; so every rejection, betrayal and cruelty served as proof that I didn’t deserve love and that I was right not to trust others.
The real tragedy was that I lost trust in myself. The shame I felt for all the times I abandoned myself, accepted the unacceptable, overrode my gut and stayed when I should’ve left, or didn’t stand up for myself and speak my truth, was immense.
How could I de-armour my heart and trust others when I didn’t even trust myself to discern who’s safe and trustworthy? My capacity to ignore glaring red flags when they got in the way of what I wanted, particularly when I was in pain, lonely or afraid made me lose faith in myself and damaged my confidence.
I share all this because I know you feel this way too, sometimes. I know I’m not alone in this. When we make decisions and it doesn’t go well., it’s easy to slip into shame. However, it’s all medicine, and shows us where our work is.
So, if you struggle with vulnerability, being able to receive love and support or trusting yourself and others, this episode is for you. Please give it a listen, a like and a share if this touches your heart.
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Today on Lush Ground, I'm talking about the Art of Vulnerability.My journey with vulnerability has been a long and painful one. All of the many set backs, he...