Advanced Counselling

24/09/2025

09/09/2025

09/09/2025

Jillian was just seven years old. A little girl who couldn’t sit still in class — always fidgeting, distracted, her mind wandering somewhere far away.

Teachers worried about her. They tried everything: scolding, punishing, persuading, even rewarding her if she stayed attentive for just a few minutes. Nothing worked. Jillian simply wasn’t made to sit quietly and focus.

At home, her mother punished her too. So Jillian not only struggled with poor grades and constant criticism at school, but also felt judged within her own home.

One day, her mother was called in for a serious meeting with the teachers. They spoke of illness, of disorders. “Perhaps she’s hyperactive? Maybe she needs medication?”

Then, an older teacher — someone who truly knew Jillian — had a different idea. He asked the others to step into a nearby room and watch. Before leaving, he leaned down to Jillian and whispered: “We’ll be right back.” Then he switched on the radio.

Left alone, Jillian instantly leapt to her feet. She began to move, to dance, as if her heart could hear the music more clearly than her ears.

The teacher smiled. The others looked puzzled. And then he said:
“You see? Jillian isn’t sick. Jillian is a dancer.”

He suggested dance lessons. And from her very first class, Jillian came home beaming:
“Mom, everyone there is like me! No one sits still!”

Years later, in 1981, after a career as a dancer, opening her own academy, and gaining worldwide recognition, Jillian Lynne became the choreographer of the legendary musical Cats.

✨ May every child who seems “different” meet adults who can see their gifts instead of their flaws.
✨ May we celebrate the black sheep, the outliers, the ones who bring true beauty into the world.

04/09/2025

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02/09/2025

We often comfort ourselves by saying, “I’ll do it later.” But “later” is a dangerous illusion. Life moves quietly, and before we realize it, the chance we thought we had forever… is gone.

☕ Later, the coffee gets cold.
✨ Later, the excitement fades.
🌙 Later, the day turns into night.
👶 Later, children grow up.
👵 Later, people grow old.
⏳ Later, life passes by.

And what remains? Regret. The regret of not making that call, not speaking your heart, not chasing that dream, not living fully in the moment you once had.

The Buddha taught impermanence (anicca) — everything in this life changes. Nothing stays the same. The people you love, the moments you cherish, even you yourself are constantly changing. That is why postponing life for “later” is like chasing shadows.

🌸 If you want to tell someone you love them — tell them today.
🌸 If you’ve been meaning to forgive someone — forgive today.
🌸 If you want to take care of your health, your dreams, your soul — begin today.

Because later is not guaranteed.
Because later often never comes.

Happiness, peace, and meaning are not hidden in tomorrow — they are available right now, in this breath, in this very moment.

✨ Live fully. Love deeply. Do it today.

22/08/2025