20/11/2025
You’re having trouble healing not because your heart is weak or because you enjoy holding onto the pain.
It’s because you’re trapped in a silent battle inside your mind — replaying the moment, questioning every detail, trying to find the exact reason why it happened.
You keep trying to prove to yourself that you didn’t deserve the hurt, that you weren’t the problem, that fate wasn’t unfair to you.
But this obsession with “why” is what holds you in the same emotional space.
When you cling to explanations, you unknowingly chain yourself to the very wound you wish to escape.
Healing doesn’t begin when you understand the past — it begins when you stop demanding answers from it.
Sometimes the closure you’re searching for is simply the decision to stop searching.
That’s when the heart finally breathes again... 🌿