
17/07/2025
Your past is not who you are.
You choose who you become by the actions you take, day in and day out.
I’m often embarrassed about my past and the lifestyle I used to live. Green V (not sugar-free 😅), ciggies and a cheap sav were my lifeline. The only cardio I did was on a sticky nightclub floor at 1am.
We all go through different stages at different ages—and while I don’t love that chapter, it’s part of the reason I’m here now. It’s taken 15 years of intentional effort, action, and a lot of mistakes, setbacks, and uncomfortable growth along the way.
Every now and then, someone will say “it comes easy to you” or “you make it look effortless.” Maybe it’s because I don’t always share the daily struggles. The truth is, it’s not flashy—it’s quiet and constant.
The version of me you see today? She was built—not born.
If you’re in a place you don’t love right now, please know this:
You don’t have to stay there.
You’re allowed to change.
You’re allowed to grow.
And you’re capable of becoming someone you’re proud of.
Maybe I can help?