17/09/2025
As a psychologist and a mum — I’ve found that one of the most powerful tools for teaching body safety isn’t complicated at all… it’s books.
Here’s why I use them to prevent sexual abuse:
1️⃣ Clear language — We use proper words like p***s and v***a, never nicknames. Because clear language empowers children to speak up and be understood.
2️⃣ Modeling consent — We read stories where characters ask before hugging, stop when someone says no, and respect each other’s space. Even playful tickles become teaching moments.
3️⃣ Curious conversations — I pause and ask: “How do you think they feel?” “What would you do if that happened?” These little questions open big doors.
4️⃣ Repetition matters — Just like we’ve read The Gruffalo a hundred times, we revisit body safety stories too. Repetition builds readiness and confidence.
Books aren’t just storytime. They’re everyday lessons in autonomy, consent, and safety.
That’s why I created my Power of Books Training to give parents a step-by-step framework for using stories as a body safety tool. Inside, you’ll also get ready-to-use downloadable scripts so you can confidently practice Clear Body Communication with your child.
Want access? Comment STORY below and I’ll send you all the details.
Because sometimes the most ordinary moments like curling up with a book can become the most powerful protection.
