12/06/2025
Re: Unpopular opinion
All you have to do is eat less and move more right?
Unfortunately this is the s**te that we’re still seeing on social media
We have coaches who’ve got their PT cert in a 2 weeks course, who’ve been in great shape all their lives
And boom they’re experts
So many of these online pages we see have never felt the pain
They’ve not spend years of their life lacking confidence or spent years wearing baggy clothes to hide themselves
They’ve never had such low body confidence they’d avoid social events
They’ve never tried all the fads, and quick fixes and still not gotten the results they’ve wanted
I have, I’ve been through all of this, so I know exactly how it feels
So to be told “ Eat less, move more “ is complete bollix
We all know how weight loss works, we need to be adhering to a calorie deficit, but if only it was that easy hey
When you’ve felt a certain way for years and years, it becomes your identity
So when you’ve finally had enough and you try to change it, it’s hard
It’s scary
And we’re filled with self doubt
I get it
This is normal, and this happens because we’re looking to change our identity to one that makes us feel more confident and happy
But if we’ve never felt like that before, we don’t know what it feels like
And this makes us doubt ourselves and we then start to struggle
When we struggle, we’re told “ Eat less, move more “
But this isn’t the issue
The issue is that we don’t believe in ourselves to becomes to better version of ourselves, so it’s easier to fall back into old habits and patterns
It can feel lonely when trying to get in shape by yourself, you feel like the “ odd one out “
Ever notice when you’ve set a goal with a friend, you’ve always smashed it??
It’s because you have someone who knows what your going through, and when it gets tough, they give you the boost and support you need
They don’t say “ eat less and move more“
You always know this, it’s that support and accountability that you need
Your environment will be key
Surround yourself with people who have the same goal as you
People who want to see you succeed and
This will be what you’ve been missing
Adios
Paul