Essentials by Fleur

Essentials by Fleur Working with you to restore & nurture your physical,mental,emotional & spiritual well-being

Fully qualified Reflexologist & Reiki practitioner bringing relaxation and holistic healing to you via a range of techniques; Foot, Hand and Ear Reflexology, Reflexology Lymph Drainage, Reiki, Access Bars, Energetic Face lift. I have undertaken and will continue to up skill in a variety of personal and professional development courses. All of the services I offer are super relaxing and reduce stress in the mind, body and spirit.

I know that when I have reflexology my heart heart lowers, Smart watches are great for checking this before and after a ...
14/04/2026

I know that when I have reflexology my heart heart lowers, Smart watches are great for checking this before and after a session.

We often think of blood pressure support in terms of medication, diet, and exercise, and rightly so. But this study looked at something a little different: foot reflexology as an add-on.

In a randomized clinical trial led by Kotruchin et al., adults with stage 2 hypertension received a short, targeted reflexology treatment alongside their usual care.

What they found?
👉 A measurable reduction in blood pressure
👉 A decrease in heart rate
👉 Effects seen within just 30 minutes

This wasn’t a replacement for medical treatment, but it does point to reflexology as a useful complementary approach in managing hypertension.

It’s a reminder that small, non-invasive interventions can still have meaningful physiological effects.

📚 Source:
“The effects of foot reflexology on blood pressure and heart rate: A randomized clinical trial in stage 2 hypertensive patients” (Kotruchin et al.)

Interesting read
12/04/2026

Interesting read

The Cholesterol Myth Is Keeping Menopausal Women Sick!

Almost everything you've been taught about cholesterol is based on research done primarily in men, not women, and certainly not menopausal women.

And this matters enormously.

Allow me to enlighten you in what cholesterol is...
Your liver produces about eighty percent of your cholesterol deliberately, because you cannot survive without it.

Cholesterol is the precursor to every single s*x hormone you produce. Estrogen, progesterone, testosterone, cortisol, all made from cholesterol. Without adequate cholesterol, your body cannot produce the hormones you need.

It's essential for brain function, your brain is the most cholesterol rich organ in your body. Neuronal membranes, myelin sheaths, and neurotransmitter production, all depend on it.

It's required for vitamin D synthesis, cell membrane integrity, and bile acid production for fat digestion.

This isn't a toxin contaminating your bloodstream as you have been told. This is a vital molecule your body manufactures because you need it.

So, what is actually happening in menopause is that when estrogen declines, cholesterol often rises....naturally. But immediately, mainstream medicine treats this as a problem to fix.

Modern science began to ask why is your cholesterol rises and what they found is incredible.

Your body is attempting to compensate for declining hormone production. Cholesterol is the raw material, so when estrogen and progesterone drop, your body increases cholesterol availability to try to maintain some level of hormone synthesis.

This isn't a problem, this is adaptation at it's finest.

And when you aggressively lower cholesterol during menopause through extreme dietary restriction or statins, you're removing the very substrate your body needs to produce hormones that support brain function, bone health, muscle maintenance, and metabolic regulation.

The higher cholesterol is necessary for when post menopause we move from ovarian estrogen to the intracrine hormone production. (I will explain this further in the next post I write, because another lie you are being told is that we no longer produce hormone at any meaningful level.)

But what you need to understand is that the cholesterol lipid hypothesis was wrong....

For decades we were told that high cholesterol causes heart disease. The mechanism seemed simple, cholesterol accumulates in arteries, forms plaques, causes heart attacks, so lower the cholesterol, and prevent the heart attack was their answer...

Except it's not that simple.

What actually drives cardiovascular disease is metabolic dysfunction which is insulin resistance, chronic inflammation, oxidative stress, and endothelial dysfunction.

Cholesterol shows up at sites of damage because it's part of the repair process, so blaming cholesterol for heart disease is like blaming firefighters for fires because you always see them at the scene.

The risk factors that actually predict cardiovascular events are not total cholesterol or LDL. They're markers of metabolic dysfunction such as high triglycerides, low HDL, elevated fasting insulin, high inflammatory markers and visceral fat.

You can have "healthy" cholesterol numbers and still be at high cardiovascular risk if your metabolic health is poor, and you can have cholesterol numbers that make your doctor nervous whilst having excellent metabolic health and low true risk.

So, what we see so often is that when women follow standard advice to aggressively lower cholesterol in menopause, what happens is that your hormone production suffers more. You've already got declining estrogen and progesterone and now you're restricting the raw material which means brain fog worsens, mood destabilises and energy crashes.

Your brain function declines, memory issues get worse, difficulty concentrating, mental sluggishness, because your brain needs cholesterol.

Muscle maintenance becomes harder and you accelerate muscle loss at exactly the life stage when you can least afford it, your skin ages faster, your joints ache more, and your energy tanks.

And the cruel irony to this nonsense? Your actual cardiovascular risk might not improve at all, because you haven't addressed the underlying metabolic dysfunction that's the real problem.

The medical business model then offers statins to lower cholesterol. But in women without existing cardiovascular disease, the benefit is marginal at best and some studies show no mortality benefit whatsoever.

Meanwhile, the side effects of statins cause muscle pain, cognitive issues, fatigue, and increased diabetes risk, which is particularly concerning when insulin resistance is already elevated in menopause, plus CoQ10 depletion which affects your mitochondrial energy production, which means you are trading questionable cardiovascular benefit for definite quality of life impairment.

So now you are probably wondering well if cholesterol isn't the driver, what should you focus on?

Insulin sensitivity, this is huge because insulin resistance is one of the strongest predictors of cardiovascular disease and it increases dramatically in menopause.

Inflammation, because chronic low grade inflammation drives arterial damage. So, reduce inflammatory inputs from seed oils, processed foods and plant heavy low fat diets and increase anti-inflammatory nutrients from animal foods, including the fat they told you to fear.

Visceral fat, the fat around your organs is metabolically active and inflammatory, and this matters far more than your cholesterol number....

Muscle mass, because maintaining muscle protects against metabolic disease, cardiovascular disease, and all cause mortality. Building muscle requires adequate protein and dietary fat, including cholesterol.

And finally metabolic flexibility, an ability to efficiently burn both glucose and fat for fuel because this predicts longevity far better than cholesterol levels.

The advice you've been given probably looked like this... reduce saturated fat, eat more plants, use vegetable oils, limit eggs and red meat, and load up on fibre.

But what actually supports metabolic health in menopause looks completely different.

Generous animal protein, because you need significantly more in menopause to maintain muscle and metabolic function.

Adequate animal fat, including saturated fat. It provides stable energy, supports hormone production, improves satiety, delivers fat soluble vitamins.

Nutrient density such as organ meats, fatty fish, eggs, red meat, and butter. These deliver bioavailable minerals, complete proteins, omega-3s, and vitamins.

Stable blood sugar, which means avoiding constant glucose spikes from high carbohydrate diets.

Eliminate seed oils, these are highly inflammatory and cause far more harm than the saturated fats you've been told to avoid.

And what happens when you make this shift? Well, your metabolic markers improve, triglycerides drop, HDL increases, inflammation decreases, blood sugar stabilises, visceral fat reduces, energy improves and muscle increases.....

Yes, sometimes LDL stays elevated, but in the context of excellent metabolic health, that's not a problem. It's your body maintaining the cholesterol it needs to function.

So lovelies, your elevated cholesterol in menopause is not the emergency it's being treated as. And I know how it feels when you don't understand the truth because mine was also elevated and my Doctor scared the living daylights out of me. But modern science knows very well that your body isn't breaking down, it's adapting. Yet the medical model still continues....why? Because it is obviously highly profitable.

If they are supplying medications and hormone replacement for a menopause that really is metabolic, and symptoms can go with the right diet.
If they are supplying medication for your cholesterol, when cholesterol is there to repair, what next are they going to profit from? Because treating the wrong issue is costing you not only your money BUT your health too.

The question you need to know be asking yourself isn't "how do I get this number lower." The question is "how do I support my metabolic health so my body can regulate itself properly."

Because when you support metabolic health, when you provide adequate nutrition, when you maintain muscle mass and insulin sensitivity, your cardiovascular risk decreases regardless of what your cholesterol number does.

The science has moved on, the evidence has evolved, yet you are still suffering....

It's time the advice caught up, and it's time menopausal women stopped being collateral damage in a decades old mistake.

Come and join us in The Menopause Revival Community for the support that is going to make a real difference to your health.

What are you doing to reduce your stress?
08/04/2026

What are you doing to reduce your stress?

🌿 April is Stress Awareness Month

Stress has a way of quietly building in the body…
Tight shoulders, shallow breathing, restless sleep, a mind that just won’t switch off.

Over time, it can start to affect everything — from your energy levels to your overall wellbeing.

✨ This is where Zu Qigong offers something truly powerful.

Through gentle, flowing movements, breathwork, and mindful awareness, Zu Qigong helps to:
• Calm the nervous system
• Release built-up tension in the body
• Improve circulation and energy flow
• Support better sleep and emotional balance

It’s not about pushing harder…
It’s about slowing down, reconnecting, and allowing the body to reset.

💚 This April, take a moment to check in with yourself.
How is your stress showing up in your body?

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or stuck in that constant “go mode” — Zu Qigong can help guide you back to balance.

✨ Gentle. Grounding. Restorative.

Feeling puffy, sluggish, or in recovery mode after surgery? 🌿Your body might be calling for a little extra support.Did y...
07/04/2026

Feeling puffy, sluggish, or in recovery mode after surgery? 🌿
Your body might be calling for a little extra support.

Did you know we offer specialised Reflexology Lymphatic Drainage (RLD) right here in Patumahoe? 👣
This gentle, targeted treatment is designed to support your lymphatic system — helping reduce fluid retention, boost circulation, and encourage natural detoxification.

Whether you’re managing lymphoedema, recovering post-surgery, or simply wanting to reset and feel lighter as the seasons change… this is for you ✨

You don’t need to look far — it’s all here at
Essentials by Fleur.

Limited appointments available –

📲 Message or call to book your session
🌐 www.essentialsbyfleur.co.nz

A little life update from me 🤍I’ve recently been diagnosed with central sensitisation. In simple terms, my nervous syste...
05/04/2026

A little life update from me 🤍

I’ve recently been diagnosed with central sensitisation. In simple terms, my nervous system has become over-sensitive and is amplifying pain signals — even without a new injury.

So while the pain is very real, it doesn’t mean there’s ongoing damage. It’s more that my system has been running in overdrive for a while now.

It also helps explain things I’ve been experiencing like fatigue, poor sleep, brain fog, and low mood.

I’m now focusing on slowing things down, working with a pain psychologist, getting onto the correct medication to supporting my nervous system, and giving my body what it needs (reflexology, reiki, zu qigong & massage) as I work through this. 🙌💓✨I will be taking limited clients.

Thank you for your kindness, patience, and support — it truly means a lot 🤍

Worth a read ☺️
03/04/2026

Worth a read ☺️

30/03/2026
✨ Reflexology Lymph Drainage (RLD) 👣A gentle yet powerful treatment that works entirely through the feet — no need to un...
29/03/2026

✨ Reflexology Lymph Drainage (RLD) 👣

A gentle yet powerful treatment that works entirely through the feet — no need to undress, just slip off your shoes and socks and relax.

RLD is designed to support your lymphatic system, helping your body naturally detox, rebalance, and restore.

💫 This treatment may support:
• Arthritis
• Asthma
• Eczema & Psoriasis
• Fibromyalgia
• ME / CFS
• Sinus & immune issues
• Migraines & headaches
• Muscular tension, aches & pains
• Diabetes support

Your lymphatic system plays a vital role in your wellbeing. It helps to:
✨ Maintain fluid balance
✨ Remove waste & toxins
✨ Support immune defence
✨ Absorb fats from digestion

When your lymph flow is supported, your whole body can feel lighter, clearer, and more balanced.

💆‍♀️ Ready to give your body the reset it deserves?
Book your Reflexology Lymph Drainage session today and feel the difference for yourself.

📩 Message me to find out more.

28/03/2026

Quiet truth… not many people talk about this 👀

Fibromyalgia isn’t just aches and pains.

It’s waking up already tired.
It’s a body that overreacts to the smallest things.
It’s carrying tension that doesn’t seem to switch off.

And because it’s invisible… it can feel incredibly isolating.

🌿 This is where gentle support can make a difference.

Reflexology works through the feet to help signal the body to slow down and reset.

It can help to:
✨ Soothe a stressed, overactive system
✨ Bring a sense of calm back into the body
✨ Ease built-up tension and sensitivity
✨ Support better flow and circulation
✨ Encourage deeper, more restorative rest

For many people, it’s not about huge changes overnight…
It’s those subtle shifts that matter most.

More ease.
More calm.
More moments where your body feels safe again.

And that’s powerful.

👣 You don’t have to push through on your own — support is here when you’re ready.

Ready to feel a little more like yourself again?
DM me or book your session today 💫

Had to share ❤️Super proud
25/03/2026

Had to share ❤️
Super proud

Oh true ! 🥰
23/03/2026

Oh true ! 🥰

Let’s be honest… we’ve all gone in thinking we’ll stay awake 😅

There’s always that one spot that makes you jump,
that moment your body finally exhales…
and then next thing you know - you’re gone.

And somehow, you leave feeling like a different person.

That’s the power of switching off ✨

14/03/2026

Hi all,

I have been spending a lot of time on social media recently and realized that there are a lot of people with a lot of questions out there.

I have felt moved to do something about this and make this offer to you.

This is a heartfelt offer to you.

I know times are getting hard but you can work with a friend to help out.

I look forward to hearing from you and answering your questions in the Akashic Records.

Please share this offer far and wide, this could just land with someone who just needs this.

Sabena

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