Self Healing NZ

22/05/2026

The question that is asked often: "How much should I donate?"

We get told all the time what to do, how much to pay for everything, how to behave, where to go, what pill to take... and the list goes on. We grow up in a society that tends to disempower us and we live our lives by the outside rules.

When that power is given back to us, we often feel lost and struggle to decide for ourselves. We don't know what to do and so we freeze.

Conscious Donation, as the name suggests, invites you to consciously start reclaiming and exercise that power.

How much can I give that feels right and affordable to me, that resonates with my values and my healing journey, while at the same time shows appreciating for this opportunity offered so unconditionally?

This opens the door to anyone participate. Unrestricted by an amount but connected with the abundance and love available to all of us.

Give from your heart, receive from mine.

I'm looking forward to hugging you in the next Group. Unconditionally.

Love All-ways 💖

Mila

22/05/2026

You heal by feeling it… without becoming it.

Your old life will try to pull you back into old patterns, old fears, old versions of yourself.

Let the feelings come.
But don’t unpack and live there again.

You have new standards now. New awareness. New energy.

The past may visit you.
But it doesn’t get to define you anymore. ✨

20/05/2026

Some periods of our growth are so confusing that we don’t even recognize that growth is what is happening.

We may feel hostile or angry or weepy and hysterical, or we may feel depressed.

It would never occur to us, unless we stumbled on a book or person who explained it to us, that we were in fact in the process of change, of actually becoming larger, spiritually, than we were before.

Whenever we grow, we tend to feel it, as a young seed must feel the weight and inertia of the earth as it seeks to break out of its shell on its way to becoming a plant.

Often the feeling is anything but pleasant.

But what is most unpleasant is the not knowing what is happening...

Those long periods when something inside ourselves seems to be waiting, holding its breath, unsure about what the next step should be, eventually become the periods we wait for, for it is in those periods that we realize that we are being prepared for the next phase of our life and that, in all probability, a new level of the personality is about to be revealed.

~ Alice Walker

Art by Raven Chalk

20/05/2026

The deeper you are, the harder it becomes for you to find someone who wants to have a relationship with you. You can go out on a lot of dates but at some point the relationship fails to progress any further and that is mainly because of the intensity of your depth. Not every man is strong enough to handle a deep woman. Here’s why:

1. A deep woman asks deep questions. A deep woman will probe further into your life and ask questions that you may not be prepared to answer. Even on the first date, she will dig deeper and ask personal and philosophical questions – she will never enjoy a shallow conversation.

2. She is honest. Too honest – often blunt. A deep woman takes her integrity seriously and one thing she believes in is honesty. If you ask her anything, she will tell you the truth and she expects the same from you.

3. A deep woman knows what she wants. Or who she wants. A deep woman knows right away if she likes you and doesn’t need to date around or explore her other options to be sure of her feelings. Her heart only beats for a special few people and she knows them right away.

4. She wants a deep relationship. She wants long conversations about your life, she wants to hear stories about your past, she wants to understand your pain and she wants to add value to your life. She wants a real relationship that goes beyond going out and having fun.

5. A deep woman is not afraid of intimacy. She is not afraid of getting closer or risking getting hurt in the process. She doesn’t think it will entrap her freedom or make her vulnerable. Her depth and intimacy go hand in hand and she will always cherish the beauty of intimacy in relationships.

6. A deep woman sees through you. She can see who you really are and what makes you vulnerable. She is not the one to hold back from pointing out what she sees in you or how well she can read you. Even though it makes you uncomfortable, she wants you to know that she understands you and that you can be yourself around her.

7. This kind of woman craves consistency. She gets turned off by inconsistency or flaky behavior. She desires a strong connection and a solid bond and she knows that consistency is the foundation of that bond. A deep woman will not participate in the dating games.

8. A deep woman is intense. She may be slightly intimidating because she brings intensity to everything she does. Her emotions are intense and so are her thoughts. She will never be indifferent about things that matter to her – not everyone is strong enough to handle her intensity.

9. This kind of woman only knows how to love deeply. If you can’t love her deeply, she will walk away. She doesn’t know how to casually date someone she’s really into or be friends with someone she has feelings for. A deep woman knows when someone can’t meet her halfway and she will slowly detach herself from anyone who is not willing to give her the deep love she is looking for.

10. A deep woman won’t wait for you. She will not wait for you to make up your mind or watch you be hesitant about her. She is strong and passionate and will not waste her emotions on someone who doesn’t appreciate their depth. Even though she is looking for a special kind of love, a deep woman is not afraid of being on her own.

Echoes of Insight

16/05/2026

I often assist mostly, individuals who suffer/ed bully throughout childhood and due to a disabled society, still carry the weight of being different - when it should instead be celebrated.

In a recent session, resignifying the ADHD anagram and celebrating diversity in the world was one of the tools to lead back home to the Heart - self-love, compassion, embracing your beauty, forgiveness, freedom to be you!

Can you add to this beautiful list? Share in comments. Let's have fun an celebrate together 🌈

Love All-ways 💖

Mila

❤️

13/05/2026

At first it seems as though things exist outside one another. The sun is not the moon. This galaxy is not another galaxy. You are outside me. The father is outside the son. But looking deeply, we see that things are interwoven.

We cannot take the rain out of the flower or the oxygen out of the tree. We cannot take the father out of the son or the son out of the father. We cannot take anything out of anything else. We are the mountains and rivers; we are the sun and stars. Everything inter-is.
This is what the physicist David Bohm called “the implicate order".

At first we see only “the explicate order,” but as soon as we realize that things do not exist outside one another, we touch the deepest level of the cosmic. We realize that we cannot take the water out of the wave. And we cannot take the wave out of the water. Just as the wave is the water itself, we are the ultimate.

~ Thich Nhat Hanh

[Art: Tomasz Alen Kopera]

05/05/2026

23/12/2025

Beautiful Beings ✨

I'm taking a good loooong indefinite break from social media.

Thank you for the connection and support over the years 🥰

I look forward to meeting you in the non-virtual world and creating magic together 🌈

Please, feel free to reach out by email or txt/whatsapp:
selfhealingnz@gmail.com / 0212317250

I wish you all a wonderful and very Merry Christ-mass and a 2026 full of incredible opportunities for growth and Love All-ways 💖

Mila

Mila is a certified practitioner offering energy healing, quantum hypnosis, and intuitive healing massage in Queenstown, New Zealand. A variety of services to help you heal your body, mind, and spirit.