
25/08/2025
Our brain loooooves to come up with all the stories about why today is NOT the day to exercise!
And despite being a PT and studying, then working in fitness from the age of 18 - I COMPLETELY get it.
Because exercise feels hard, it's uncomfortable and we're wired to move away from pain and towards pleasure!
But let's bust through a few of these exercise problems I see and hear daily...
Strength training will make you bulky: No. Not it won't. It will 'tone' (urgh, I so hate that word!) your muscles, making them stronger, firmer and overall, making YOU more capable of doing all the fun sh*t in your everyday life!
Copying workouts designed for 20 year olds: research has come a looooong way in recent years. We now know better when it comes to adapting exercise for the different decade we're in. As well as what serves women vs men, better. So let's do workouts that serve our 40-year-old+ body.
Stopping and starting because, motivation: I know you've heard this before, but you're almost NEVER going to FEEL motivated to exercise. Truly! The motivation comes when you start the workout. You will want to carry on. But waiting for that lightning strike moment? It'll keep you on the inconsistent loop forever.
Doing nothing instead of something because of sore joints: Yep, our joints age when our estrogen drops! Hands up if your shoulder is sore these days, for no real reason why!? But that doesn't mean you can't exercise. You can literally do EVERYTHING - all your lower body and abs. And just use either one arm for upper body exercises, or lighter weights within a pain-free range of movement on the sore side. Same goes for any sore joint. Most of my clients have some version of this issue, and all see improvement in time!
Prioritising everyone else's needs, then never having the time for exercise: Let me be as gentle but as clear as I can be. YOU MATTER TOO. Life will never not be full, chaotic, with everyone demanding your attention. Work your exercise time into this version of your life. You will be able to handle the stress (mentally and physically) much more than before! And, you are no less deserving than all those you love.
What else would you add to this list? Let me know in the comments!
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