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26/02/2026

Taking a moment today
To reflect on the last 5 years
My life has exponentially changed in this time.
In ways I could never have foreseen nor believed.
With the previous decades were no walk in the park.

Yet theses last 5 with their significant & unexpected losses
Also the unenvisioned health challenges of Cancer & a Coma
The reality of despair, of grief, of fear, of loneliness & of isolation
These years have also viserally taught me the value of each & every moment, of the privilege of being loved, of acceptance, of support, nurturing & healing.
The priceless gift of whanaunga both blood & heart, the reality that it takes a village to begin to see hope, to walk away from the edges, to laugh again & to trust the wairua, the journey & love again.

There are so very many incredible hearts in my life that have been beside me in various ways. My gratitude has no depths nor does my love for you. My heart beside yours always đź’›

To those reading who may be in their own tsunami of grief, fear, lacking hope. I beseech you to talk with your closest, safest person. Talk with them. Walk with them on the beach, by the lake. Let their hearts hear yours as nature holds you. Please talk

Thank you, Brainwave Trust Aotearoa, for this insightful, informative, easy-to-read article.
25/02/2026

Thank you, Brainwave Trust Aotearoa, for this insightful, informative, easy-to-read article.

We look into the associations between adverse experiences in childhood and outcomes in physical, emotional and mental health in adulthood.

I was today years old when I learned the story behind, the how/why of one of my Favourite childhood stories: P**i Longst...
24/02/2026

I was today years old when I learned the story behind, the how/why of one of my Favourite childhood stories: P**i Longstocking.
Going strong 80 years later, inspiring generations to be the antidote.
Sharing it with the next... Did you know the backstory? Are you a P**i fan?
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1D7FsfxZsb/

"While children worldwide laughed at Pippi Longstocking's adventures, almost no one knew the truth: her creator was secretly reading N**i letters and inventing the world's most independent child as an antidote to Hi**er.
Sweden, 1940. The world was at war, but Sweden remained neutral—a precarious position that required knowing exactly what was happening on both sides.
Astrid Lindgren, a 33-year-old mother and aspiring writer, took what she called her ""dirty job.""
She worked at Sweden's postal control center, part of the country's intelligence operation. Her assignment: steam open private and military letters crossing Sweden's borders. Read them. Record sensitive information. Seal them back up.
It was tedious, invasive work. Letters from soldiers to their families. Love letters. Business correspondence. All violated, all read by strangers.
But some letters contained something far darker than secrets.
They contained the truth about what was happening in N**i-occupied Europe.
In May 1941—years before most civilians knew about the death camps—Lindgren wrote in her diary about what she'd discovered in one of those intercepted letters:
""1,000 Jews a day are being forcibly transported to Poland in the most shocking conditions... it is apparently Hi**er's intention to make Poland into one big ghetto where the poor Jews are to perish from hunger and squalor.""
She understood immediately what this meant. And she understood something else: ""As long as you're only reading about it in the paper you can sort of avoid believing it. But when you read it in a letter... it suddenly brings it home, quite terrifyingly.""
She was reading personal accounts of genocide in progress. Day after day. Letter after letter.
Lindgren filled 17 volumes with diary entries and newspaper clippings documenting the war. She couldn't stop the N**i machine. She couldn't save the people being murdered.
But she could do one thing.
At home, her seven-year-old daughter Karin was frequently ill—wartime shortages meant poor nutrition, and childhood sickness was common. To distract Karin during long days in bed, Lindgren began inventing stories about a little girl unlike any child in real life.
A girl who lived alone, with no parents to tell her what to do.
A girl who was stronger than any man, who could lift her horse with one hand.
A girl who had a suitcase full of gold coins and didn't have to work for anyone.
A girl who didn't follow rules just because adults said so—but who was genuinely, fundamentally kind.
A girl who stood up to bullies. Who helped people weaker than herself. Who refused to bow to authority unless that authority earned her respect.
Karin loved these stories so much she named the character herself: Pippi LĂĄngstrump. In English: Pippi Longstocking.
The stories were an escape—a bright spot of imagination in a world drowning in darkness.
Then in 1944, Lindgren fell and injured herself badly. She was bedridden for three weeks—the same position her daughter had been in when Pippi was born.
During those three weeks, unable to move, still processing the horrors she read daily in confiscated letters, Lindgren began writing the Pippi stories down in earnest.
She was creating the opposite of everything the N**is represented.
Hi**er demanded obedience. Pippi questioned authority.
The N**is worshipped strength used for domination. Pippi was the strongest person in her world—and used that strength to protect the weak.
Fascism required conformity. Pippi was defiantly, joyfully herself.
The Third Reich was built on cruelty. Pippi was kind to everyone—unless they were bullies, and then she humiliated them with humor, not violence.
As Wilfried Hauke, director of the new documentary ""A World Gone Mad: The War Diaries of Astrid Lindgren,"" explains: Lindgren believed deeply that how children are raised shapes the kind of adults—and leaders—they become. She wanted kids brought up ""not to be psychopaths like Hi**er or authoritarians, dictators and so on.""
Pippi Longstocking was her answer.
In 1945—the same year the war ended and the full scope of the Holocaust became public—the first Pippi book was published.
Lindgren's great-grandson Johan Palmberg observed that the character arrived at exactly the right moment: ""The world had been in this terrible situation for many years and she comes as this fresh breath of air. She's the antidote to the authoritarian regimes of Germany and the Soviets. She has all these characteristics of independence, free-thinking and kindness which is the antithesis to the N**i ideology.""
Children across Europe, traumatized by years of war, found Pippi irresistible. Here was a child who feared nothing, who couldn't be controlled, who made her own rules—but who was never cruel. Who was powerful but gentle. Who was wild but kind.
The books spread worldwide. Pippi became one of the most beloved children's characters in history—translated into more than 70 languages, adapted into films and TV shows, adored by generations of children who had no idea their favorite rebel was born from her creator's secret war work.
Most readers never knew that while Lindgren invented stories about a little girl who feared no one, she was reading letters describing people being murdered by a regime that demanded absolute fear.
Most never knew that Pippi's famous independence and refusal to submit to bullies was a deliberate counter-message to fascist obedience.
Most never knew that the character's fundamental kindness—her insistence on protecting the weak and standing up to the strong—was Lindgren's response to the cruelty she documented daily.
They just knew they loved this strange, wonderful, impossible girl.
Eighty years later, Pippi Longstocking is still here.
And as Johan Palmberg reflected at her 80th anniversary: ""Her independence, kindness and generosity are needed more than ever.""
Because Astrid Lindgren understood something important: you fight authoritarianism not just with politics or armies, but with the stories you tell children. With the values you embed in their imaginations. With the heroes you give them to admire.
She gave the world a hero who was strong but kind. Independent but generous. Rule-breaking but moral. Fearless but never cruel.
She gave the world a little girl who could never be bullied, controlled, or broken—because she knew exactly who she was and refused to be anyone else.
While Astrid Lindgren spent her days reading about the worst of humanity, she spent her nights creating the best of it.
And millions of children grew up believing they could be like Pippi: brave, kind, free, and unstoppable.
That's not just a children's book. That's resistance built into the next generation's imagination."

I attended a very interesting & informative Hui hosted by NZAC last night. With Julia de Bres (Associate Professor at Ma...
23/02/2026

I attended a very interesting & informative Hui hosted by NZAC last night. With Julia de Bres (Associate Professor at Massey University) facilitating the NZAC "It takes a village: supporting families to support transgender young people in Aotearoa".
A key shareable resource ...

A parent-led group where you can find the information, guidance, advice and companionship to help you and your family safely and happily navigate your journey, knowing you are never alone.

Bringing Sandplay out of the office...Working from is a privilege it is also quietTime with inspiring colleagues focused...
18/02/2026

Bringing Sandplay out of the office...
Working from is a privilege it is also quiet
Time with inspiring colleagues focused on improving the experience in schools & the hauora of our regions children.
Loved the morning korero at KidsLink Expo at Ahutoetoe School

I spent a morning out of the office today at the fantastic KidsLink Expo at the beautiful Ahutoetoe School Having conver...
18/02/2026

I spent a morning out of the office today at the fantastic KidsLink Expo at the beautiful Ahutoetoe School
Having conversations & making connections with so many people in organisations in our region who's passion is improving the wellbeing of our tamariki & rangatahi.
Thank you Michele

Love & Relationships are often entwined and integeral to our healthy evolution as individuals, friends, couples & famili...
13/02/2026

Love & Relationships are often entwined and integeral to our healthy evolution as individuals, friends, couples & families.

Rather than more hearts today, I'm sharing this Brainwave Trust Aotearoa image.
May your day be filled with connections to what nourishes & sustains you

Firstly my sincere apologies for being MIA on FB. I wrote this on New Year's Eve ... just found my notes, thus posting n...
10/02/2026

Firstly my sincere apologies for being MIA on FB. I wrote this on New Year's Eve ... just found my notes, thus posting now...

"As the world seems singularly focused on Celebrating the New Year, I ask that you somply honour your truth.

Celebrate you, your tenacity, your heart, your resilience, your life...

This year has been incredibly tough in both collective & singular ways. Many will get relieved to see it end, for many the impacts, its ripples will linger for a long time & for many others it is one they are sad to farewell.

Please honour your truth, with those in your life that you know will awhi you.
Tears are in all honesty an integeral aspect of life & in reality what is the end of one year, the beginning of another without the cleansing of tears.
Please release any tears & do so with pride.please also share any lingering troubles with a friend or an awhiline you. You & your story matter.
&
May 2026 bring you, your whanaunga healing, unity, aroha, health, peace, hope & connection.
For you, a belief in your own wisdom, your intuition a knowing of your intrinsic value wrapped up in hauora & safe adventures..."
And may humanity be renewed & restored

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22/01/2026

đź’›

“What time will you get in tonight?
Text me when you’re home
Be careful if you’re driving
Or if you’re out alone

Shout me if you need me
Or call me anytime
Hey, remember when we did that thing
And laughed until we cried?

Take a coat, it’s raining
Or shelter here with me
Let’s watch your favourite movie
I’ve made your favourite tea

I saw this and I thought of you
It really made me smile
Just checking in, I hope you’re well
I know it’s been a while

Have some fun at school today
But wear your hat - it’s cold
And look the road’s got busy now
So here’s my hand to hold”

We always hear and say these things
But rarely do we see
They’re just lots of little ways
Of saying what we really mean

See, if you listen carefully,
You’ll hear them everywhere -
All the messages of “I love you”
“You’re important” and “I care”

******

Becky Hemsley 2021
Gorgeous artwork by Carrie McKenzie Art

'How are you?' is from my second collection - What the Wild Replied
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31/12/2025
As the world seems singularly focused on Celebrating the New Year, I ask that you simply honour your truth.Celebrate you...
31/12/2025

As the world seems singularly focused on Celebrating the New Year, I ask that you simply honour your truth.

Celebrate you, your tenacity, your heart, your resilience, your life...

This year, 2025, has been incredibly tough in both collective & singular ways. Many will be relieved to see it end, for many the impacts, its ripples will linger for a long time & for many others it is one they are sad to farewell. Please honour your truth, with those in your life that you know will awhi you.

Tears are in all honesty an integeral aspect of life & in reality what is the end of one year, the beginning of another without the cleansing of tears. Please release any tears & do so with pride. Please also share any lingering troubles with a friend. You & your story matter.

&

May 2026 bring you, your whanaunga healing, unity, aroha, health, peace, hope & connection... and for you, a belief in your own wisdom, your intuition a knowing of your intrinsic value wrapped up in hauora & safe adventures...

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