Kirsty Fernandes - Honouring Māmā

Kirsty Fernandes - Honouring Māmā All about honouring and supporting Māmā and their wider whānau (family) in pregnancy & parenthood Online and in Tākaka, Aotearoa, New Zealand

26/01/2026

I went there!

21/01/2026

When I think of my younger self, this is the version of me that comes to mind most often.

A broken arm that wouldn't heal, a haircut I didn't like, being bullied at school and on the verge of all the changes and confusion that puberty brings.

Inspired by Lael's book, today, I sat with her (and my own kids around the table) and wrote down all the things she needed (and still pops up needing) to hear.

She'll be pinned to my mirror now, to remind me she needs nurturing just as much (actually, more) than I do.

Birth Debriefing Support Available in Golden BayI am so excited and grateful that my application for funding for birth d...
15/01/2026

Birth Debriefing Support Available in Golden Bay

I am so excited and grateful that my application for funding for birth debriefing in the Bay was accepted by the Golden Bay Community Trust late last year! This means I’m able to offer birth debriefing sessions to local whānau who might otherwise be unable to access this support.

What is birth debriefing?
It's an opportunity for us to explore your birth experience(s) (this can include your fertility, pregnancy, birth, postpartum and early parenting journey), address unresolved emotions, and move towards healing and empowerment.

Whether your baby(ies) were born recently or years ago, whether it felt straightforward or challenging. Birth debriefing offers a safe space to reflect, process emotions, and find healing. Transitioning into parenthood is a massive rite of passage and deserves to be honoured.

This is for you if:
- You've given birth or witnessed a birth
- You have feelings about your birth experience that need to be heard
- You're carrying something from your birth journey that you're ready to process
- Your birth support people were also affected and need support

What you need to know:
- Come as you are – you don’t need to prepare anything.
- We can meet face to face in my office in town, or in your home or online.
- You can bring support people or they can book separate sessions.
- Funding is available for local clients - please don't let cost be a barrier.

Who am I?
I am a Mama to two children aged 6 and 8. I had a challenging time with both of my babies throughout pregnancy and birth which thrust me into wanting to learn all I could about postpartum, birth debriefing, and parenting. I’m an Aware Parenting Coach too, which means we can also talk about how your baby’s birth might be showing up in their way of being in the world too.

I’ve listened to birth stories for over 6 years – some within the first 6 weeks after birth, and some 40 years later!

Our stories matter and we always carry them with us – they deserve to be heard.

If you feel ready – please get in touch to discuss how this funding can support you. You can learn more about me here: https://www.honouringmama.com/

"...the sessions were so well prepared, thoughtful, full of heart, and full of really important content...The support in...
08/01/2026

"...the sessions were so well prepared, thoughtful, full of heart, and full of really important content...The support in between sessions was priceless." - Dani

My Aware Parenting Support Circle is ready for enrollments! But this time, it's going to look a little different!

Instead of 8 months, it'll be 16 powerful weeks of alternating deep-dive content sessions and connection circles. You'll get to learn more deeply about all facets of Aware Parenting and how it works practically in every day life, you'll get to share how parenting really is for you without fear of judgement and you'll get to ask questions and get personalised guidance as you go along.

Register before February 15, 2026, and receive a complementary half hour listening session with me.

We go live in March!

I'd love to have you join us! Limited spots available, book in a 15 minute free chat with me to see if it's right for you! https://www.honouringmama.com/book-online

Read more here: https://www.honouringmama.com/aware-parenting-support-circle

15/12/2025

A little addition to my A4 to-do list by my 8 year old to remind me what's actually important....

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Takaka Town District

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About Me

My husband Duane and I have two little cherubs, Indie and Roman.

My own journey in Motherhood has shown me how crucial it is that we hold space for our mothers, and what a profound effect this can have on our experience. I am so passionate about listening to your story, about helping you to feel nourished, nurtured and honoured as a Māmā and about supporting you and your family in your own journey in Parenthood.

My hope is that this kind of care will help us create happier and more connected Māmās, babies, families and communities.

Photo credit: @Bloompress